well sort of,

he asked me out and i told him i'd get back to him after my exams end.... by then i should come up with a good excuse not to

part 4!!

WHY???? It's a date! Not marriage! GO OUT and have a good time babe...you deserve that!

BY THE WAY...


part FOUR!

Way to go, Jasime! YOU FLIPPED IT!

i'm scared i'll be stupid lol

Off to bed...

'night peeps :)

nighty

Fear is just a negative emotion you can easily overcome. Whether you suffer from stage fright, approaching a stranger for a conversation (aka "meeting someone new"), or talking to someone on a "blind date" if you will.

With one very simple technique, you can vanquish that inner-voice of negativity. This is something I've done... countless times, and have taught 100s of people this one, simple thing to overcome what they fear.

Before going in to a situation you're "scared of," you close your eyes and take a deep breath. Draw in all that negative energy inside of you, and put it deeply in to your lungs. Now, think of a time where you were on top of the world! On Cloud 9! Felt INVINCIBLE!!!! Draw that feeling in and blow out that negative energy from your lungs. I personally say "F**k it!" as I do this. It helps get rid of that negative energy and you feel that incredibly positive state you just recalled.

Do this enough times and, before too long, you'll be able to get in to that "F*** it" state of mind and not care about what's coming up, because you'll be too focused on just having fun to be "scared."

OG

F*ck it!!

i think its working already

Thanks OG

i've never dated before because my past boyfriends (4) were guys i went to school with, and one lived in my neighbourhood so i saw them on a daily basis and got to know them as friends casually first. and when we eventually hung out there was no "date" label. we were just hanging out with no pressure to get to know each other or impress each other because we did already.

sooo at 19 this would be my first official "date" , hence the nervousness.

But i'll take your advice and i'm sure after i get out all the nervous energy i'll be fine.

* bows to the greatness of Jasmine and Galendgirl for flipping this thread to version 4. :-)

Thank you ladies. ;-)

Barack Obama is definitely NOT cooler than Chuck Norris. If Chuck heard someone say that, he would slam a revolving door in their face.

I don't think I actually have a " preferred " method...lol

And a FINE job you two did with it. :-)

Thank you.

I am still trying to kick this cold I have so I was lying on the couch catching up on some DVR stuff.

Cuz yer body absolutely refuses to do what you want it to when you are tired. :-)

Same thing I do any other day. If it's during the week, I go to work.

No point stressing over stuff I can't control.

Heh. It's just the Universe showing him the way. Having that happen to him will make him appreciate the music he loves even more.

I was ( and am ) a metalhead and was subjected to my mother's collection of Tammy Whineass....sorry Wynette...and George ' Just go fill the tub, get in, and slit your wrists ' Jones.

Trust me. I wound up appreciating MY style of music that much more.

Depends on if you need new dishes. If you do....just break some more...lmao

I am gonna take a pass on even THINKING about that.

: shudders :

Ummm...I have never really paid attention to the way guys walk.

Having said that...are you sure you aren't just seeing dudes that need to make an " equipment adjustment " ?

Methinks you are confusing " productive ", which has rules against it on weekends...with " constructive ".

Constructive is fine as long as it doesn't morph into being productive. :-)