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Watch a film called Secret The law of attraction Basically you attract what you emanate If you project positive and happy that is what you will get Or there is also the book if your more of a reader.. Book........awesome. |
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Ok, so what I'm getting so far is this.....
The general consensus is that we all do it in some form or another. But don't get freaky with it. And talk to him about it in a "good" way, just to communicate. Compatibility isn't an issue, he and I are spot on there....it's more of a "me" thing. Phew, I'm glad there are others that over-analyze (Lex). I was feeling a little freakish. |
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Ok, so what I'm getting so far is this..... The general consensus is that we all do it in some form or another. But don't get freaky with it. And talk to him about it in a "good" way, just to communicate. Compatibility isn't an issue, he and I are spot on there....it's more of a "me" thing. Phew, I'm glad there are others that over-analyze (Lex). I was feeling a little freakish. By George She gots it... 
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You know as I reread what you all have posted it makes me wonder if having those "feelings' also could mean that those of us who feel that way are not really ready for a committed relationship. Things that make you go hmmmmmm.
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i do it too lol. so your not alone
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You know as I reread what you all have posted it makes me wonder if having those "feelings' also could mean that those of us who feel that way are not really ready for a committed relationship. Things that make you go hmmmmmm. No. It doesn't mean that you aren't " ready ". What it means is that you are simply afraid of letting yourself go. It's as simple as that. You, like the vast majority of us, have been burned. You, like everyone else, didn't like it much. Because of that, you will think, and think, and think a new relationship to death. Like someone else said, just let him know that you really like him, but that because of things that happened before, you are somewhat paranoid. You might be surprised to find that, chances are, he's doing the same thing you are. By the way...good to hear that things are going well for you. You truly deserve to be happy. {{{BIG HUGZ }}} |
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Awwwww thanks honey buns....as do you.
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Awwwww thanks honey buns....as do you. Thanks. :-) I have really begun to think that I am gonna be the crazy old man living with his dog and yelling at the kids to get off my lawn. lol |
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You know as I reread what you all have posted it makes me wonder if having those "feelings' also could mean that those of us who feel that way are not really ready for a committed relationship. Things that make you go hmmmmmm. I'd like to think I'm ready, but that might be a bit of wishful thinking and/or self-deception. From a more realistic standpoint, I don't think there's any chance of my being in a position where I will have to concern myself with the possibility anytime soon. |
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You know as I reread what you all have posted it makes me wonder if having those "feelings' also could mean that those of us who feel that way are not really ready for a committed relationship. Things that make you go hmmmmmm. I'd like to think I'm ready, but that might be a bit of wishful thinking and/or self-deception. From a more realistic standpoint, I don't think there's any chance of my being in a position where I will have to concern myself with the possibility anytime soon. Check-out girl a no go? |
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Awwwww thanks honey buns....as do you. Thanks. :-) I have really begun to think that I am gonna be the crazy old man living with his dog and yelling at the kids to get off my lawn. lol As long as you don't have a pink flamingo in your yard, I think you'll be ok. |
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You know as I reread what you all have posted it makes me wonder if having those "feelings' also could mean that those of us who feel that way are not really ready for a committed relationship. Things that make you go hmmmmmm. I'd like to think I'm ready, but that might be a bit of wishful thinking and/or self-deception. From a more realistic standpoint, I don't think there's any chance of my being in a position where I will have to concern myself with the possibility anytime soon. Check-out girl a no go? She's fantastic but I'm not going to be in a position to do anything about it, or so it seems.... |
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You know as I reread what you all have posted it makes me wonder if having those "feelings' also could mean that those of us who feel that way are not really ready for a committed relationship. Things that make you go hmmmmmm. I'd like to think I'm ready, but that might be a bit of wishful thinking and/or self-deception. From a more realistic standpoint, I don't think there's any chance of my being in a position where I will have to concern myself with the possibility anytime soon. Check-out girl a no go? She's fantastic but I'm not going to be in a position to do anything about it, or so it seems.... Well crap. Where there is a will there is a way........ |
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Awwwww thanks honey buns....as do you. Thanks. :-) I have really begun to think that I am gonna be the crazy old man living with his dog and yelling at the kids to get off my lawn. lol As long as you don't have a pink flamingo in your yard, I think you'll be ok. What about a miniature windmill??? |
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Awwwww thanks honey buns....as do you. Thanks. :-) I have really begun to think that I am gonna be the crazy old man living with his dog and yelling at the kids to get off my lawn. lol As long as you don't have a pink flamingo in your yard, I think you'll be ok. What about a miniature windmill??? Hmmmmmmm, Not really sure what to say about that. |
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i do it too lol. so your not alone Good.....we all do it....let's stop doing it!!! Here's to just going with things and enjoying them in the moment. So easy to say I know! |
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For those of you that have had long relationships (or even short ones) that failed....... Do you ever get the jitters when a new relationship is going great? Kind of like maybe you don't deserve it, or that something will surely go wrong? I'm not talking about insecurities, we all have those about one thing or another. It's more of kind of forgetting how it feels to have a good thing. Am I the only one who analyzes stuff to death, almost to the point of sabotaging myself? This is not a make me feel good thread. I want some serious advice on how you deal with the "feelings". This is so normal, and honestly, what you have to do is just realize that you do deserve to have a great, awesome, healthy relationship with someone. Hell, it is what we all want, but sometimes we can feel like we don't deserve it, or that eventually something will go wrong. When you think like that, hook jumper cables up to your butt, and jolt yourself into reality. 
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When you think like that, hook jumper cables up to your butt, and jolt yourself into reality. Oh lordy.......just don't know which butt cheek would be positive and which would be negative......  And thanks....
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When you think like that, hook jumper cables up to your butt, and jolt yourself into reality. Oh lordy.......just don't know which butt cheek would be positive and which would be negative...... And thanks.... Right butt cheek is always positive.
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its been 9 months since brad n i started dating. and im still waiting for the other shoe to drop.. still wondering exeactly when he will realize what all the others have and know that im totaly unworthy..
i just take one day at a time.. and reasure myself that i deserve happiness just as much as anyone. |
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