For those of you that have had long relationships (or even short ones) that failed.......

Do you ever get the jitters when a new relationship is going great? Kind of like maybe you don't deserve it, or that something will surely go wrong? I'm not talking about insecurities, we all have those about one thing or another. It's more of kind of forgetting how it feels to have a good thing.

Am I the only one who analyzes stuff to death, almost to the point of sabotaging myself?

This is not a make me feel good thread. I want some serious advice on how you deal with the "feelings".

I think there are alot of scared people on this site. They want a relationship yet dont because they are afraid to get hurt again, which is understandable. Thats why Ive been single for 3 years. But in those 3 years Ive done alot of soul searching instead of holding onto hatred.

When we let go, we make ourselves vulnerable to other people and what they can do. And that is scary, almost unbearable to some.

But.......what if......you opened yourself up and its good???? Really good?????

You have to take the chance......but go into with eyes WIDE OPEN!!!

So now what???

Gypsy, Your comment makes a great deal of sense. The challenge is over coming that initial apprehension. Don't think there is an easy answer to that one.

I'd like too......


but......

I'm intimidated by your wit, charm and beauty...

Lol was it good for you???

it was awesome thanks...LOL

ya knows I luv ya sweetie...

yaaaaaaaa yaaaaaaaaa everyone luvs me but doesnt love me blahhhhhhh blah!!

hahaaaaaaaaaa scared of moi????

I think men are afraid I will suck their brains out through a straw telekinetically while I stomp on their hearts!!!


But I really wont!!