OK...... Here's the deal. As you may know, I absolutely cherished Geri's friendship, and I absolutely loved hanging out with her. She could always make me smile. I mean, WOW. When we hung out, we had fun, atleast I enjoyed it. Well, now our schedules are different. She likes it, but, I feel like I am losing a really great friend. Now, the wierd thing about me is; she likes how her schedule is now. So, I kind of do not want her schedule to go back to what it was, cause she's happy now. She deserves to be happy. I wish her all the luck and joy in the world. But, now I don't have anyone to hang out with. I mean, there are alot of people that want to hang out with me. But, I want to hang out with people that are fun to hang out with. I know I could change my schedule. But, with my luck, I'd get it changed and she'd no longer be around. Then I'd just be stuck.

Ummmmmmmmmmmmm...... sorry?

easy come easy go bro,


move on make some friends that fit your schedule

Most of my friends have different schedules than me. Sometimes its hard but we do get together when it fits both of our schedules.

FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU....................

My friends schedules are all different now, we get together when we can & I appreciate the time we have together.

Two choices; one, change your schedule so you can hang out with her. Or; two, don't change your schedule and don't hang out with her...well there is a third choice; three, talk to her about a good day you both have time to hang out.

dontcha got any other friends? why rely so heavily on Geri (who has a boyfriend, right?)

spread your cheer around, make friends expand your circle of friends - good luck

Buy a dog!!! Man's best friend doesnt have a schedule

You must be fallowing my posts if you know Geri's engaged. I do have other friends. But, none with the type of personality she has.

dogs have vet bills.

isn't Geri engaged to someone else?

it's prolly for the best then. You don't want to be source of added stress on a budding relationship

Well, go with the instincts that you want Geri to be happy. Find other interests, go out and met people, get a hobby.

I'll be honest and say you are FIXATED on Geri, IMO. That is wicked unhealthy.

Dude, it took me 10 years to get my schedule to what it is now. I could change it. But, if she leaves. Then I'm stuck in something that doesn't work for me.

so all your source of happiness resides in a woman who is marrying someone else?

HEY YOULL FIND SOME ONE ON HERE THEN..........

LILITH.......... I thought you left or something. I'm not fixated on Geri. I have other friends. I'm not going to say who they ar and what's wrong with them. But, me and Geri just clicked........

I mean, there's a lady who always wants to help me out. But, she doesn't really have a full deck- the elevator doesn't wuite reach the top floor. Then most people want to be too nice and help you out, as you know, I'm in a wheelechair, so, I get alot of that. And I'm always to nice to say, yeah.....go away. Where Geri always had the smart aleck attitude that made me laugh. I'm just saying that she was a good friend and I'm gonna be a bit bummed until I find a new person to hang out with.

Dude,

You really need to put a period at the end of this chapter of your life. Find a friend or partner that conforms to your schedule and that you find compatible. If not at work, then an outside activity. Anything.....but if I remember from a previous post, this person is promised to someone else and is happy to be that way. You are never going to move on and be happy unless you rip that band-aid off, and quick.

(My opinion is not professional or warrantied in any way and the outcome is the sole responsibility of the opinion taker ...)

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wow OP, wish you luck

surprise some of us do pay attention - as this is your main topic of choice - hard to forget.

expand your inner circle

you want your world to revolve around a woman who has a fiance - cut the cord (jmo)

Denial.... it's okay.

You talk only about her, guy. Get over it. You're fixated.

It's normal to be bummed. But the last thing you want to do is perserverate on it. Negativity breeds negativity.