wow, i'm still amazed at how many people are so judgemental on this issue. You attack the poster telling him to leave to find another site because you don't agree with his views...would you say the same thing to a woman seeking a woman? You might want to but you probably wouldn't because it would be 'discrimenation' but because you don't agree with him you throw him under the bus. When in all reality this was the norm for quite some time. King Solomon had over 900 concubines and was consider one of the wisest men to ever live...maybe just because he was 'plugged' into a different genius every night...probaby more ofter than that lol. I personally think that the biggest reason cheating hurts so much is because of the lies and the lack of respect that you end up showing your significant other. In an open marriage you do eleminate those hurts so they can work...within reason. He wasn't asking to be condemned by you people. Examine your own life before casting the stones..'do not judge, lest you be judged' again why i personally couldn't go this way, i don't see a need for attacking someone else for the choices they choose to make. Especially if it seems to be working for them. Just my Humble opinion

Oh, yeah . . . I want to share my bank account with more than one woman. LOL