For some guys, being nice DOES come naturally.

The problem is that they are so " nice " that they are either boring, or totally weak in the relationship.

The trick is being able to find the balance between being " nice " to the person you are with, and having enough spine to stand up for yourself when they start trying to step on you.

Exactly Guy... who wants a man or woman that you can walk all over? Well, some like them but they don't respect them and the one's that need a person with a spine will just leave the spineless...

ok well thats it , im gonna go pee in the shower.!!!!

I'm a Nice guy

You d*ck!

Nice guy like pats

actually the phrase "You are what you eat" has me in a quandary

DING DING DING...WINNER WINNER...

Tell her what she's won Steve...she's won a lifetime membership to Mingle2...

**crowd clapps**

If you are repeatedly attracted to "broken" people it is because you yourself are broken, fix you then go try to date, until then you have no business trying to date.

My last ex got very surprised one day when we were hanging blinds at her home.

I was hanging one up, and we were kinda bickering about whether or not she should take the ones out of one room to put up where I was hanging them.

She kept being wishy washy and couldn't make up her mind. I am spending this time holding up the one I was working on. I finally told her to just shush and go get the other one.

She just stood there and stared at me for a minute. I asked her " Problems??? "

She said " No one has ever talked to me like that. "

Of course, later on ( about a week I think ) she decided to take that and use it as a reason to put up her dukes and see if she could break me.

: shrugs :

I get irritated at them, personally...
I think the guys I'm attracted to are nice guys. I guess I just don't "get it" overall...why the angst???

I already told you in another thread that you could put your hat under my bed any night.

Some people don't know how to appreciate "nice/good" people that are also secure and strong and won't be walked on... <shrugs is good>

Then just DO that...
Someone out there is looking for YOU! Exactly YOU! If you are finding women (or men if you are female) that don't like what you are offering you are looking at the wrong group of people...

...and BTW JAG...I consider you a nice guy and that's a GOOD THING :)

when I was single, I had to pay extra to get walked on

If you feed me...then I am nice.

The old Athletes foot cure eh?

Shall I buy you dinner???

IN HELL..............