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Topic: So how does it feel to be a trophy?
RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sat 11/29/08 12:10 PM
Does it matter on whose shelf you are on?

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sat 11/29/08 12:10 PM
not as long as I get dusted once a week

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sat 11/29/08 12:12 PM
Nothing like angel dust, huh?

lighthouselover Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 1100	Sat 11/29/08 12:13 PM
Can you define what a "trophy" is please?

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sat 11/29/08 12:13 PM
I think a trophy would be something someone has earned.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sat 11/29/08 12:14 PM
eeeeeeeewwwwwwwwww I tried that stuff once in the 70's and didn't know what it was terrible terrible stuff

Holly4459 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 34785	Sat 11/29/08 12:15 PM
Do you mean like a trophy wife?

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sat 11/29/08 12:15 PM
I know what you mean. I thought it was just pot. I didn't know it had been laced. My friends have changed since those days.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sat 11/29/08 12:16 PM
Or a trophy husband, boyfriend, girlfriend or whatever.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 11/29/08 12:17 PM
If you think of someone as a trophy you will only be disappointed in the end.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sat 11/29/08 12:21 PM
Would you say it might be dehumanizing?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 11/29/08 12:23 PM
Would you say it might be dehumanizing? Yes!!! By putting someone on a pedestal you are making this person inhuman, a thing, a playtoy, a prize and when that thing has feelings, wants, cares then your fantasy is shattered!

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sat 11/29/08 12:23 PM
Would you say it might be dehumanizing? yeah kinda its like relegating the person to being just an extension of your own ego

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 11/29/08 12:25 PM
trophy??? That brings to mind heads mounted on walls... like the game hunters of old.... .......not a good look in my mind... I like the rest of me attached, thanks.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sat 11/29/08 12:26 PM
Thanks for the answers. I woke up full of questions.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sat 11/29/08 12:27 PM
So you are saying that you are more than just a pretty picture, Jess?

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 11/29/08 12:29 PM
So you are saying that you are more than just a pretty picture, Jess? there's a whole lot MORE to me than a picture, Roy.... ....some would say I need to come with an "open at own risk" warning label..

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Sat 11/29/08 12:31 PM
Oh, okay. I will be careful not to open Pandora's box. I have read the story.

KoolAidWoman Joined Thu 09/20/07 Posts: 1079	Sun 11/30/08 08:58 PM Edited by KoolAidWoman on Sun 11/30/08 09:01 PM
Rainbow very inresting question. hollweirds do it all of the time you know how thay collect things!. Koolaidhoney.some of us! like it to collecting people. I like the extended family thing thou?.I suppose i collect people to darn you rainbow! so Kiss me im Irish but i do care about my friends!.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 12/01/08 04:44 PM
Been on both sides of this issue....pretty irrelevant for me though....none of it was just lasting love...just having eye candy....gotta admit that the sex was friggin mindblowing.