No, it just reads like you know who everyone is and that there is a foundational set up that doesn't exist. OP should post as though we are total strangers who know nothing about him or his life, because that is actually true.

Please help us out, OP. We are trying to participate but you are making it VERY HARD.

So you call a woman "my Geri" that is engaged to another man and you refer to a married woman as "your Princess" ??

hmm.. wait until the wedding day and as the minister says the inevitable "does anyone object" stand up and start screaming out your love.

Keep screaming until either the marriage stalls or you get carried out of the building.

Then wait and see what she does!

ok reading through what you have wrote
now.

you really need to change your ways.there is serios probs here

it's okay to like or even love your friends. But you have to realize where the line is between what is and isn't appropriate behaivior.

I'm sure you don't want to cause problems for your friend at home by being too familiar when she already has a boyfriend.

Lil, I love your posts. I didn't get what the what? post was about. Here is the whole story.
When I started working at walmart. After a few years, I met Katie. Who always did some pretty extrodinary things for me (to help me out). After a while, I started calling her "princess" (if you remember the show WONDER WOMAN that's where that came from. It doesn't mean that we're in love or anything. It's just my way of saying, "Thanks"

Does that help?

Now, she got married after a few years, but, the title "princess" just stuck. Sometimes I call her "my princess" just because she holds a dedication for helping me out. She'll pretty much drop whatever, if I need help. Geri's alot like "my princess", but, we hang out more. Plus, Geri can always crack me up.

Helping any?

They are the two most important people to me.

This entire situation just has impending "police incident" written all over it.

Look she is engaged and you have no chance. Don't think about her all the time and go out and find that one that you will HAVE a chance with. oh and by the way don't go looking for some that is pretty much exactly like her because I have found out that it made me think of the other person and not the one I was with. So fight those feelings and move on. Life is too short to live with regrets and to linger over someone who is getting married. Trust me I know at a very young age.

you need to go out and find someone,you can spend your life with.trying to spend your time with a married woman isnt really right.

Hey, I just want to point out that I am on a few dating sites, kinda desperately looking for someone new to hang with. So....... Cause I know I'm gonna be bummed for a few days when Geri leaves. As for my princess, that's just an honorary title..............

Ya know; some people believe that angels are spiritual bodies sent from heaven to help people, and they can do no wrong. I believe an angel is just an ordinary person, who touches your life. I believe an angel is alloud to have a bad day, and be pissed off at times, and make mistakes, like anyone else. But, even with the bad days and crap, they still find the time to make things brighter. I'm lucky enough to have many angels in my life.

RP, thank you for explaining. It seems your intentions might be honorable, and you can't help your feelings... but there is no timetable. If you love another (Geri), you really have no business on several dating sites looking for a replacement.

Don't rush, and don't be desperate.

Lifesaver, great advice. I'm figuring that out.

as for the ones that say quit trying to find love in someone you have no chance with. I am looking elsewhere too.

Geri is almost married. I may love her, but, I don't think I have a chance.

woops....... don 't read the last post. That was for Lil.

Awww this is so sad. If you can't stop how you feel, and that is difficult if not impossible, you should take time away from her until you can be objective.

Yeah, this is kinda sad. I too, think ya distance yourself from Geri so your heart can be open to other possibilities you may be overlooking. As far as her helping you out, that may be her way of keeping you close to feed her ego. Just a thought.

Lilith & Lilbug, I appreciate the sympathy. But, I'm going to tell you the whole story. I once was engaged and my fiance was killed before our wedding. So, you all say; "distance yourself from Geri and go find someone else to hang with. Now, I'm not really looking for love, I do hope it just happens someday; but, you have to understand that I have something in the back of my head that makes me feel like I'm cheating on Andrea if I'm with someone. Also, I was hit by a drunk driver when I was 8, and I'm in a wheelechair. So, help is greatly appreciated. So, you can understand my conflict. The fact that Geri and Katie are always ready to stand by me, and help me out, comes in extremely handy. Exspesially if I'm in a hurry. Lilith, I know you may hate me for saying this, but, they are both so dang attactive to me. So, I love hangin out with both of them.

RPW there is absolutely nothing wrong with finding someone attractive and even expressing that. It is the context and manner in which that can sometimes be conveyed that I take umbrage with....
Most people enjoy compliments, but if they are issued soley based on superficialities, well, then that makes them feel disingenuous. I hope that makes sense.

Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you have a wonderful holiday.