OK......Here is how the story goes..........
Geri is a really great friend, who I love hangin' with every chance that I get. I talk about her constantly and she's always on my mind. Now, she is engaged with a daughter and everything. So, I have no intention of trying to be her guy. But, I am constantly trying to make her happy. I figure that I'll try to be in her life as much as I can until I find "my Geri".

what did you need opinions on???

I think "constantly" would not be such a good idea.

Best of luck with your search.

Change your name to MATT & lay down by her DOOR...

I obviously don't know her personally & won't make any judgements but, most women know when a man is infatuated with her. If she takes you for granted & allows you to be her "puppy"...I think I'd look for another "master"... But if she treats you kindly, I guess your adoration couldn't hurt...

loving someone without expecting anything in return is one of the hardest things to do.

i wouldn't, however, try to compare any girls that you do decide to date as possible 'my geri's'. that's totally unfair to the other woman.

Ahh unrequited love.

Make a decision, dude.

hmm so its tme u stop thnk about ur past gerry n look forward for a new frnd

It would appear that you are not being totally honest with yourself sir. What do you want us to give you opinions on exactly? It sounds to me that you are essentially in love with this "Geri" person yet you are losing her obviously. You have not revealed any of the details beyond that.

Yes, since you failed to make your true feelings for "Geri" known when you had the chance, she is now moving on and its too late. You might be able to remain friends with her but dont expect a lot of contact once she marries.

You need to move on yourself and find a lady and this time dont be so wishy washy about your feelings. That bugs the b-jesus out of me. Its a lot easier to live with rejection that it is to come to terms with regret. I guess I dont need to explain this to you now huh?

I'm sorry. That was badly worded. As for the "my Geri" comment; that meant, someone with her persona. Like the other night as she was helping me shop, I started winning because she wouldn't be working he next day, and she looked at me and said, "I'm here now, so shut the f**ck up." or the other night when she was helping me. I was looking for something; she found it: "hey, I've been looking for that. Where did you find that?" , "I don't know. I just pulled it outta my ass." She always helping me out, and keeps me in mind. Infact, I think that if she wasn't engaged before we met. I think I would of had a chance. She's only in my life for a short time though. I just wanted to get some other perspectives on the fact that I love hangin with her, and whenever we hang; I do what I can to make sure we have fun.

I'll say it again.

BTW, as for the door matt reply, I just want to point out one thing. I have a lady that I call "my princess" just because she has never let me down. Her hubby thinks it's kind of funny. But, she was asking me if there was anything I needed before she left work one night; and Geri looked at her and said, "Ya know, you're not the only one that can help him."

What?

Quit making excuses about what the female might do for you. If she wanted you, she would be with you. End of story!

Kitten I missed you so much....

me too

What is the question?

Rereading that sounds weird.

What I mean is, quit talking about the things she does for you. It doesn't really mean jack chit.

I've missed you too darling!

What? Im also having trouble with the OP's verbiage. Is there a key?