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You misspelled "glamarous".

WRONG. WRONG. You do like nice cars and fancy suits and reservations at a five star restaurant. But that kind of guy won't give you that for which you're asking.

Ok...caught the breakfast in bed, phone call, and flowers...now this is where your run-on sentence loses me: (and I quote) "how's that.it's not you,get me this or that,your nice car."

Sorry, I could be a bit on the daft side (a bit tired here) but did you just say "how is that.it is not you,get me this or that,your nice car"?

Cause that makes absolutely no sense to me...

Couldn't have said it any better myself...well, except for the phone thing...

How come women don't get that men just don't get it? Huh?....HUH?????

"we do, but then that stuff gets old and u want more.. "

This is basically true from a simple psychological point of view, for both sexes. It's not just men, and it's not just women. It is humans.

The way to fix this is NOT to demand that the other sex, or person of interest, fulfill your needs -whatever they may be.

The correct response is to be self-sufficient, as far as possible for your lifestyle, religion, and other beliefs. The second step is to be as honest as possible, first with yourself, and then with others. What is it you need most? Tell yourself what you really want, then share this information with your intended.

Men are not on this Earth to serve women. As a male, such demands to 'serve you', fix you, save you, or cater to you in any way are a HUGE red flag visible from space. It's a massive turn off.

Instead, try this approach: You say you'd like to be treated "like a woman", so explain what this entails in simple terms, without demanding gifts, services, or support. Don't be demanding, but expository, change the tone from 'do what I want' to 'this is what I like.'

White Knights get burned repeatedly. I should know, I used to be quite a Paladin in my youth. I gave it up for lent. Women USE men like doormats when they are too generous, too easy, or too quick. We learn to stop doing those things. We start to see such signs in a woman as a symptom of serious problems.

Posting such things as "real men" or "why don't" and other such complaints indicate that the poster hasn't figured this out.

What men really want is extremely easy to ascertain. We are very honest in general. Most men will readily tell you exactly what they'd like in a long term relationship IF, and only IF, you present an atmosphere of maturity and acceptance. When you ask a man what he wants and then ***** and moan, or criticize his response, he is unlikely to open up to you any more, ever.

These statements apply to both sexes, and both sexualities.

~D

Oh BS!!!!! Everylast one of us would not turn down nice stuff if it was handed to us on a silver/sexual platter.....
Unless you are a Tibetan monk...in which case I would have to wonder what you would be doing here.

I hate it when I'm lumped into a group with a bunch of buttholes because someone wants to generalize and say "why don't men do....." or "why to guys all....".

1. All guys aren't the same and if all the guys the person that is making the claim have all been the same, maybe the issue is with the girl.

2. If you actually have been through the entire population of guys in the world and can prove that "all guys are....." , then you have bigger problems than not getting breakfast in bed.

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I don't get it

And she STILL mispelled "glamarous".

It never hurts to ask someone,
What specific actions on my part will communicate that I care for you?

Is it flowers, or fixing your car?
Is it breakfast in bed, or shampooing the rug?
Is it just listening or do you want me to try and make it better?
A fancy dinner out, or me cooking dinner for us?

Dude,

Don't you know that if you have to ask, your not paying attention? Asking is worse than doing the wrong thing because at least if you do the wrong thing you're taking the initive. If you ask, you might as well make the couch up for the night.

That deserves an AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh we get it.

But sometimes, just sometimes, a man who does this kind of thing is considered a " nice " guy. Then doing that stuff suddenly becomes a sign of weakness.

Being considerate = being nice = being weak = being a pushover

you know the old saying...men play the game...women know the score...

If someone isn't sure about what I like, I'd rather them just ask.

amen brother amen !

If they speak Greek, talking to them in Chinnese will get you no where. I like to make sure we are speaking the same language. Communication counts for a lot, and helps prevent misunderstandings.
As for sleeping on the couch, I don't mind, its like camping.

I'm sorry....did you say something?