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 Ow man did I miss another race What was the prize? Let me guess a none appreciating woman that see's things only with her eyes. Money hunger, soul stealing, back stabbing, heart eating, bi  ch! Wow I can't see why you wanted that  
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IMHO too many guys mix up being nice with being a wimp and then think the jerk gets the nice girl. Not true. It's not only the guys who get that idea confused. I have seen MANY women here who equate " nice " with " weak ". |
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Oh Gawd! (Gag, retch)
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Nice guys only finish last when it comes to making love. JMO.
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 And for the life of me i cant figure out why. Now in no way should the following be misconstrued as conceeded, Im just awhere of how I behave in a relationship. I open doors, get flowers, compliment, pamper, massage, sing,..whatever goofy adam sandler gesture that comes up to make a girl smile. I have a good fashion sense, i think im good looking enough. i feel as if im the package that woman talk **** about desiring but when they have it they flush it away quicker than it started, and of course the jerk gets the girl. for someone reason I get along with older woman better, i guess theyve been screwed over enough so now they appreciate little gestures....idk i know the peanut gallerys gonna chime in but if anyone can offer opinions that would be great! You are not a nice guy- cos nice guys don't complain- their actions just come naturally. Women can see that you are just doing it to make yourself look good, and that makes you look like a sleazebag- apart from what you said about older woman being so screwed in the head that they fall for your act! NICE! |
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And for the life of me i cant figure out why. Now in no way should the following be misconstrued as conceeded, Im just awhere of how I behave in a relationship. I open doors, get flowers, compliment, pamper, massage, sing,..whatever goofy adam sandler gesture that comes up to make a girl smile. I have a good fashion sense, i think im good looking enough. i feel as if im the package that woman talk **** about desiring but when they have it they flush it away quicker than it started, and of course the jerk gets the girl. for someone reason I get along with older woman better, i guess theyve been screwed over enough so now they appreciate little gestures....idk i know the peanut gallerys gonna chime in but if anyone can offer opinions that would be great! You are not a nice guy- cos nice guys don't complain- their actions just come naturally. Women can see that you are just doing it to make yourself look good, and that makes you look like a sleazebag- apart from what you said about older woman being so screwed in the head that they fall for your act! NICE! Somebody stop me before I open my mouth. Oops! Too late!  Sorry princess, but you might want to learn to read. And as for older women being "screwed in the head" (which is not what he said at all!) I guess if you mean that we're not petulant, adolescent drama queens, you're probably right to some degree. Grow up. |
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Edited by
Princessree
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Thu 11/20/08 09:33 PM
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You need to learn how to read- if you can read between the lines I am being sarcastic and critical of what he has said about older women? Gees- note to self : don't defend women any more? take a chill pill lady! |
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By the way don't take things so literally- you should be able to tell by my previous posts that I am trying to defend women, and that I see this post as ridiculous and critical of all women young and old!
You should read between the lines a bit more especially with Australians- we are all sarcastic! |
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nice guy, rich guy, poor guy, obstreperous guy, freaky guy, gay guy, bad guy, fake guy, real guy, fat guy, skinny guy, tall guy, mean guy, shy guy, happy guy, sad guy, lonely guy, little guy, stupid guy, smart guy, lazy guy, tough guy, weak guy, slow guy, retarded guy, genius guy, nosey guy, fun guy, boring guy, angry guy, crazy guy, edgy guy, sleepy guy, exciting guy, cool guy, hot guy, ugly guy, goofy guy,.....
okay does everyone understand yet? need I go on? |
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today is Friday, buy one Nice guy get one Nice guy free -
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I keep a handy dandy old post in my docs for such threads, as they appear often. This post is not referring to you, but rather goes towards generalities of such discussions.
Here is my stance, and a summary of these type threads: 1. If a guy isn't into a girl, he says he is not looking for a relationship. 2. If a girl isn't that into a guy, she says he is too nice. 3. Nice doesn't really mean nice. 4. All men and women are different, not to be lumped together. 5. If you keep meeting the same types of girls and guys.... it's not them, it's YOU. |
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what i can't understand is how does a guy know that the women go for the jerks,is it cause women say they seem to pick jerks or is it that the man is calling other guys jerks cause they cant get the woman.?
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what i can't understand is how does a guy know that the women go for the jerks,is it cause women say they seem to pick jerks or is it that the man is calling other guys jerks cause they cant get the woman.? It's not the jerk they get interested in. It's the Alpha male, the leader, the one with abilities, the one that seems to have good genes etc... Natural selection. If you are not the alpha male, then you are not the first choice. |
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what i can't understand is how does a guy know that the women go for the jerks,is it cause women say they seem to pick jerks or is it that the man is calling other guys jerks cause they cant get the woman.? It's not the jerk they get interested in. It's the Alpha male, the leader, the one with abilities, the one that seems to have good genes etc... Natural selection. If you are not the alpha male, then you are not the first choice. OMG.... thank you thank you thank you thank you. Men, read and memorize. And stop asking! |
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what i can't understand is how does a guy know that the women go for the jerks,is it cause women say they seem to pick jerks or is it that the man is calling other guys jerks cause they cant get the woman.? It's not the jerk they get interested in. It's the Alpha male, the leader, the one with abilities, the one that seems to have good genes etc... Natural selection. If you are not the alpha male, then you are not the first choice. |
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what i can't understand is how does a guy know that the women go for the jerks,is it cause women say they seem to pick jerks or is it that the man is calling other guys jerks cause they cant get the woman.? I think you hit it on the head RKISIT ! They can't get the women and the call the guys that do get them jerks!!! |
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what i can't understand is how does a guy know that the women go for the jerks,is it cause women say they seem to pick jerks or is it that the man is calling other guys jerks cause they cant get the woman.? It's not the jerk they get interested in. It's the Alpha male, the leader, the one with abilities, the one that seems to have good genes etc... Natural selection. If you are not the alpha male, then you are not the first choice. No, this is really the answer. Really. |
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what i can't understand is how does a guy know that the women go for the jerks,is it cause women say they seem to pick jerks or is it that the man is calling other guys jerks cause they cant get the woman.? I think you hit it on the head RKISIT ! They can't get the women and the call the guys that do get them jerks!!! Not so much. A lot of it has to do with observation. A guy can tell if another guy is treating his woman like sh!t. |
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what i can't understand is how does a guy know that the women go for the jerks,is it cause women say they seem to pick jerks or is it that the man is calling other guys jerks cause they cant get the woman.? It's not the jerk they get interested in. It's the Alpha male, the leader, the one with abilities, the one that seems to have good genes etc... Natural selection. If you are not the alpha male, then you are not the first choice. No, this is really the answer. Really. i am an alpha man but im still single
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Edited by
PBug
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Fri 11/21/08 08:37 AM
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what i can't understand is how does a guy know that the women go for the jerks,is it cause women say they seem to pick jerks or is it that the man is calling other guys jerks cause they cant get the woman.? It's not the jerk they get interested in. It's the Alpha male, the leader, the one with abilities, the one that seems to have good genes etc... Natural selection. If you are not the alpha male, then you are not the first choice. Sorry, I didn't try to answer you, I tried to continue your point. |
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