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You mean like saying he wanted to put his dork in her spork? Wow never heard that before. Nicely done. I'm admittedly a pervert..... Whatchu talking 'bout, rkisit? |
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You mean like saying he wanted to put his dork in her spork? Wow never heard that before. Nicely done. I'm admittedly a pervert..... Whatchu talking 'bout, rkisit? |
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Why'd you have to tell everyone? Now they know my dirty secrets. I suppose next you're going to tell them about you asking me to toss your salad, huh?
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Why'd you have to tell everyone? Now they know my dirty secrets. I suppose next you're going to tell them about you asking me to toss your salad, huh? |
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What the hell did I just walk into?....backing slowly out of the room....not gonna be able to look RSKIT in the eye without laughing......BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Dude!!!!!!!!! |
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Why'd you have to tell everyone? Now they know my dirty secrets. I suppose next you're going to tell them about you asking me to toss your salad, huh? I like the country french myself.... |
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Always Always take time......it's like with all things new...it seems so bright and shiny and fun and great....and then after awhile the real person comes out....whom may creep you out....or who you find has nothing in common with you....slow slow slow.....especially when your worth the wait.
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It helped me. I was being myself and talked her just like any of my friends. Your right. I got a response back like I was a pervert. It showed me right there that she was fake. So, a woman who isn't into talking about sex with you from the start is fake? Exactly. WTH IS WRONG WITH YOU? No the question is "WTF, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU" You're right, M. Michiganman. If somebody did that to me, I'd block them. |
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I like to wait a little to meet too and the first meeting is always coffee or something casual like that. That way it is still just chatting only face to face. I wonder if the reason why some of these of these people are so eager is because they are frustrated - we the posts about it all the time. I'll go ahead and say "slow down." If he's got good intentions he usually understands. As for talking about sex right away, it looks like you are just trying to protect yourself Trout, but most women are trying to do the same thing. Bringing up sex that early is usually a good indicator that we are dealing with a pervert. This is the voice of reason. |
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I normally follow my instincts, if no warning bells go off, I'd meet in a public place but only when I felt comfortable to do.
If he has a problem with it, he can go ahead and wait for me |
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Thanks for everyone's input!
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I'm still trying to figure out why a woman is "fake" if she doesn't want to talk about sex early in the emails.
I really want to know! |
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Blow up dolls don't talk?
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No. They squeak.
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I'm still trying to figure out why a woman is "fake" if she doesn't want to talk about sex early in the emails. I really want to know! She's not winx, it's just a simple man's way to pass the blame because it can't be their fault. Speaking of sex is supposed to be accepted by all especially if by instigated by them |
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from here or any other site like this, do you usually meet quickly? As in that day or the next? Or, do you chat a bit, then decide if you want to meet? I'm just curious, because the local guys I receive emails from are in such a rush to meet. Almost all of them are the same. I see no harm in waiting a week or two in order to chat a bit first. Most local guys seem to think differently, though. When I have met locals from dating sites (nine in all), I waited anywhere from 2 weeks to a whole year to meet in person. As a general rule, the quicker I met someone, the more horrible the experience turned out to be. I would no longer be open to meeting someone from a dating site. |
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from here or any other site like this, do you usually meet quickly? As in that day or the next? Or, do you chat a bit, then decide if you want to meet? I'm just curious, because the local guys I receive emails from are in such a rush to meet. Almost all of them are the same. I see no harm in waiting a week or two in order to chat a bit first. Most local guys seem to think differently, though. When I have met locals from dating sites (nine in all), I waited anywhere from 2 weeks to a whole year to meet in person. As a general rule, the quicker I met someone, the more horrible the experience turned out to be. I would no longer be open to meeting someone from a dating site. I don't ever have a chance |
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from here or any other site like this, do you usually meet quickly? As in that day or the next? Or, do you chat a bit, then decide if you want to meet? I'm just curious, because the local guys I receive emails from are in such a rush to meet. Almost all of them are the same. I see no harm in waiting a week or two in order to chat a bit first. Most local guys seem to think differently, though. When I have met locals from dating sites (nine in all), I waited anywhere from 2 weeks to a whole year to meet in person. As a general rule, the quicker I met someone, the more horrible the experience turned out to be. I would no longer be open to meeting someone from a dating site. Well played ... Now Lilith REALLY wants to meet you. |
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from here or any other site like this, do you usually meet quickly? As in that day or the next? Or, do you chat a bit, then decide if you want to meet? I'm just curious, because the local guys I receive emails from are in such a rush to meet. Almost all of them are the same. I see no harm in waiting a week or two in order to chat a bit first. Most local guys seem to think differently, though. When I have met locals from dating sites (nine in all), I waited anywhere from 2 weeks to a whole year to meet in person. As a general rule, the quicker I met someone, the more horrible the experience turned out to be. I would no longer be open to meeting someone from a dating site. Well played ... Now Lilith REALLY wants to meet you. ....one uses the tools at one's disposal, I assume.... |
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