Hey dude... What do I do about my sitch? He is still pushing me away and occasionally brings up from the past... Do I tell him I am done, I am not going to wait for him anymore?

If he is persisting in pushing you away, and cannot let go of it, then yes.

Time to move on.

Dear Guy
Whats really going on when a guy puts "no answer" on his profile under the smoking question?
Is it like "no contest" in Smokers Court?

Justa..........When you see all those Salvation Army Santas ringing their bells on the street-how do you know who the REAL one is?

DMV was delayed until I travel that way again this week. The interview went well, but the 450 miles that I did AFTER that gave me time for some real soul searching and I think it's not the job for me...despite that I could totally rock the work. My heart just doesn't sing when I think about it, I'd be on call 24/7/365 in the event of potential media stuff and it would be one of those jobs I'd never leave (even if I wasn't happy) because the money would be good. Sounds like I'm crazy? No...just trying to really be HAPPY. But another interview I'd had to decline due to travel rescheduled me for today. I got into town at 2pm and interviewed at 3:30 and THAT interview was awesome...feels right and I OWNED THE ROOM! Too cool! Cross your fingers on it all!

Dear JustAGuy...
How many days can you go on far too little sleep before you just become a blubbering idiot? (I think I'm close...)

Well...either he does smoke...but not much....

or...he doesn't smoke and just didn't figure it was all that important...

or...he does....but he knows that it can be a deal breaker, so he just chose not to answer.

NONE of them are the real Santa.

Now Mall Santas...those are tough cuz he sometimes DOES show up at the mall.

Hmmmm...usually about a week. Although....it doesn't take a lack of sleep to turn ME into a blubbering idiot....lol

Will God ever heal my lonely heart?

When you allow him to, yes.

Is there a DECENT place to meet single people that doesn't include:

1) The Internet

2) Booze or alcohol of any kind

3) Religion

4) NOT a grocery store

????

It seems like this is what is missing in our society, just a place to go and socialize, with booze, not a church forcing religion down your throat, and no I don't honestly believe anyone can meet someone while contemplating what kind of cabbage or broccoli is on sale... and I have no faith in Internet sites...

Just start a band dude...lol

You'll find your " soul mate " for sure then.

Seriously...if you find someplace like that...let me know where it is.

Except for being married to an idiot for 5 years... been single my whole life...

Why does God choose some of for single torture?


Sort of like making us vegetables that can't think, but just exist, but another one of his neat tricks he likes to play on people... keep them single for 46 years... weeeeeee

LOL... I know... been in many bands.

All the hot chicks want to share your power that emanates from the stage... had knock-out beautiful women come right up on stage and slap a lip-lock on me before... holy crap were they drunk... or what?

Then sit down next to some 7-foot tall sasquatch fellow with "mom" tattooed on his shoulder...

Dude. If you haven't figured this out by now....you need to get to work...

You will never, ever be able to be completely happy with someone else, until you can first be completely happy with your OWN company.

No matter where you go. No matter what you do. No matter who you are with..being unhappy with yourself as you are will always show up.

It took me a LONG time to learn that.

I have been toying with the idea of trying to get one started just for the heck of it. I can't play an instrument, but I can sing a bit. Problem is, I can only do band stuff on the weekends because of my job.

Yeah. And he has a REAL bad attitude. LOL

Dear Guy....How many dates do you have to have with a girl before it's okay for her to ....... release gas......in your presence? If her gas smells like roses does that change things

Having not had many " dates " in my life...I don't really feel I am qualified to answer that question.

My personal thoughts on it if I ever DO wind up with a date....

As long as she doesn't do it while I am eating....I could really care less. If she's comfortable enough to do it in my presence, and has the manners to say " excuse me "....then I don't really care.

* Oh...and I'm not particularly fond of the smell of roses.....so that makes no difference....lol