broke up with ex 2 months he was still at me saying he loves me and misses me and is sorry about how hes treated me about a very personal issue i won't go into..i then found out he has been seeing a much older women at work for 2 months (in her own words)..when i went to confront him about why he's saying these things if he's seeing someone he said he wasn't seeing anyone that there just friends and i did get him to admit he has feelings for her though in his reply to why he was saying these things to me he said i just said those things because i thought i was never going to see you again and had to get it out of my system i had no intention of saying them to get back together...so 2 weeks later we were still talking trying out this being friends thing...i started to send him sexual scenario messages he was puzzled and asked me why i was sending them when i had no intention of acting upon them..this went on for a few days so then i stopped and then he started doing it to me so we agreed to meet up for some fun..so deed done...i then sent him a message saying how good it was blah blah blah and he sends a message back saying dont just send **** to my phone..ive sent a few messages asking him whats wrong and why is he ignoring me now and yes still getting ignored....any ideas as to what might be going through his mind??

The new woman is checking his text messages.

he's moved on

Yup, I would agree with the new woman is checking his text messeges, and I bet you might get a nasty text if you keep on texting. This happened to me as well, recently. I got a text back saying, I don't know who you are, my name is xxx, quit texting me.

Hes probably in a rel. with this other woman.


sorry.. just my opinion

Getting it from whoever is available at the time...that is what is on his mind....Girl....walk away...stay away....take a deep breath and hold your head up...welcome....hope to see you in the forums often...tons of wonderful people here...welcome to the family

All it was for him was a friend with benefit thing, that was it, a boodycall sugar, hate to say it, but it is true.

You are now officially a FWB...............

He got busted

That guy is mexican?

hehe yeah i thought busted at first too coz i deliberetley sent the message when i knew she was going to be around, but ive seen msgs on facebook between them they seem fine...

if he's with someone else why call or text him at all?

if hes with someone else why was he so persistant in calling or texting me all the time

cuz he knew he could get away with it, some guys like to have their cake and eat it too

perhaps he's keeping you on the string

if some guy told me not to send chit to his phone he'd never hear from me again

Thats what u need to do!! please do it!! Hes not worth it!!

I agree with the above, he is doing it because you're letting him get away with it, that is exactly how my ex was, don't give in, he will play if you play and then he will take advantage but act as if it was your fault or he will act all hurt and stuff because you confronted him like it really messed his head up or something. Truth is, why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free, as was told to me, by his roomate when I confronted my ex lover.

I can sum it up for you.
He's just playing games. Hes not sure about the other women yets,so he wants to keep you on the end of the rope incase things dont work out with new bimbo. Your only there to fill void till he gets new honey. Trust me, i know.
Have been there done that.Ignore him and seewhat he does,Keep me posted.Good luck.
Right now he doesn't want to loose all booty, Kick his BLEEP BLEEP to the curb.
Not worth it

Oh yes, and as for newbiw checking his texts,You bet your butt she is.. And he catches hell every time you send him one.LOL
Once a cheater always a cheater sweety. Move on.
Keep smiling