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Topic: wonder what is going through his mind?
keepthehope's photo
Wed 11/19/08 01:47 AM
He is just using you, and lies about his relationship as well. Get rid of him, he will only bring you heartache. Trust me.

Adrenaline's photo
Wed 11/19/08 08:29 AM
You are far better off just letting this relationship go. In my opinion, he has moved on and doesn't want to explain to the new squeeze why he is getting txted. In short, he's either running out of ways to play it off or tired of turning the txt alert volume off. Either way, you don't need any part of that....

no photo
Wed 11/19/08 08:33 AM
Really? you have to ask this...???????

Booty is the answer


if hes with someone else why was he so persistant in calling or texting me all the time

Krimsa's photo
Wed 11/19/08 08:37 AM
This is causing a lot of turmoil and unnecessary drama in your life. You need to get over him and move on. Its obvious to me that you have yet to completely and he's using that affection to further bolster his own self esteem and keep you wrapped around his finger.

He's involved with this other woman. No question in my mind about that.

You need to forget him, take some nice new photos for your profile and MOVE ON.

Cinderella75's photo
Wed 11/19/08 05:49 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Wed 11/19/08 05:56 PM
Ok he sounds like a typical young horny guy. Hormones racing..you know..lol
When guys are horny they do all kinds of stuff like he said" to get it out of his system". Meaning that he just wanted to go and have a "good time" in bed, like he did w/ the older woman. (She may or may not be in his life right now, maybe just some other girl)
When you were sending him those scenario text messages, you were in a sense teasing him, which for a horny guy does really nothing..simply put he wants to get off.
As harsh as this may sound, the reason he is not responding to you anymore is because he has moved on with another girl, maybe not one that he loves, but one that he can let his sexual needs out on.
He is prolly afraid that she will catch him, you sending him txt msgs, and if she does, that will cut off his supply of getting his "daily release".
Thats why he is ignoring them, and telling you to stop.
At this point there is really nothing you can do, other than hoping that he maybe misses you in a few weeks or months..once he comes back to grips ..but for now, for your own sanity I would just move on, maybe with another guy.
He is getting "Help" elsewhere..sad but true.


Thomas3474's photo
Thu 11/20/08 12:54 AM
Don't stay friends with Ex's!When you break up and they say "do you want to still be friends" say "no thanks I am ok".Why would you want to stay friends anyways.Obviously they were doing something to piss you off very badly so why hang around them.Not only that you can never look at them the same way once you had sex with them.

Just remember this...no matter how special someone is there is always someone else who is tired of them.

ScotishGerman27's photo
Thu 11/20/08 01:15 AM
well who knows maybe he thinks ur stringing him around..dun let jaded advice further bone up a situation..although the bottom line is if someone u been seeing isnt talking to you, technically ur not really seeing them anymore....my 2 cents
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