whats the specific type of person you are drawn to?

serious anwsers please im curious

Someone I can't keep my eyes off of. Someone who knows ALL my faults but still wants to be around me. Someone who doesn't give up on me even when I have said or done the wrong thing. Someone I can feel the warmth oozing out of her. When she talks I hear every word and remember every word.

A kind hearted, considerate, compassionate, intelligent, humorous, optimistic, passionate man.

Back off ladies...he's mine!

perhaps its strange, but i kind of like shy women, it shows....i dont know, innocence i guess

I don't have any particular thing.

Unless, of course, you count the lying, cheating type. THOSE I am drawn to. Unfortunately, I don't find out that they AE that type until it's too late.

im drawn to the overly aggressive types, something about a woman who takes charge, makes for an agressive relationship i love it!!!!!!

you know i cant say i have a type im drawn to. all the guys ive dated have been diff.

I want a person who I can actually like and talk to. After all, you CAN'T have a "relationship" with someone if you don't like or can't even talk to them.

in the past, I was drawn to the exotic. Both my daughters have Middle Eastern fathers, one being half Egyptian, the other being half Israeli.

My first boyfriend after my divorce was Malaysian.


But now I found love in the most unexpected way! With a good friend! I never knew that he and I would be more than friends until I confronted my emotions when I heard of his recent heartbreak. I asked myself, why do I hurt so much for him? He is just a friend....


Apparently not. I was wrong. And I have never been happier to be oh so wrong!

The one I love is charming, intelligent, kind, giving, loving, can hold a conversation without sounding like he is googling my answers, talks like he wasn't born with a beer can in his mouth, he is an overall nice guy.

Which goes to show, nice guys don't always finish last.

This man is my other half.

And I found him because I stopped going after hot men or superficial lust.

I found him because I wasn't looking.

We have the same goals in life. Having our own line of soccer teams, having a nice home, large family gatherings, and growing old and tripping children with twine on Halloween from our front porch...

With him, I feel I can live forever.

that was moving hasidic

I'm HOT too.

You're HOT about what?

OOOOOHHHHH


I get it.....


You are FLAMING, honey!

Aw, thank you.

I was just stating my humble opinion though....

ya know

hehe no problem. i just wish i had someone to praise greatly.

I'm sexy. But yes, sweet too! And so are you babe!

You will.

I found Engraven because I truly did stop looking.

Remember when I asked what happened to him because his account was deactivated?

I think I was one of the first people to email him when he came back to Mingle.

And we talked.

And I listened

and when I couldn't take it anymore, I blurted out something I had felt for a very long time but had locked it away because he lived too far and he was, in my humble assumption, not interested in me.

See why it is bad to assume?

He is the reason I was so confused. Why I couldn't settle for anyone.

My heart wasn't happy with my soldier boy.

My heart was angry with the fireman.

My heart was confused with my neighbor (whom is still a close friend and a supporter of Engraven and I)

But with E, I found laughter. I find myself WANTING to stay up till 6AM chatting with him, even though I should really get some sleep so I don't snore in front of my daughter during her chats with me.

I find myself emailing him during my breaks in class.

I find myself emailing him from work.

I find myself watching the clock because of the time difference so I can call him and talk to him for as long as my phone will let me.

I dream of him when I go to sleep. (don't I, hon?)

I think of him when I prepare dinner. (I think, wouldn't E just love this?)

I have caught myself looking at the passenger seat on my road trips and wishing he was there.

He occupies my mind and heart.

I think that is what love is and does, right?

That definitly is. That's called True Love. It's easy to love someone, but truly loving them is totally different.

I am aware of her doing all those things she says she does. And, she's been honest and has been staying honest with me. Watching her smiles, eyes, and expressions shows alot too. I feel every emotion now she has, when she's having it, whether we are here on the computer, on the phone, or the minute she tells me something new.

it is love indeed.

open, honesty, passionate, funny as heck, off the wall random ideas, amazing creativity,such sweetness all the time...we make each other smile so many times every day.


i have been on a quest for finding true love. and then i jsut reached the point where i knew i would never find my 'soulamte' that perfect person for me.

a friend told me that when true love occurs..you keep trying and trying harder to make eachother happier...everyday.
everyday i dont think i could be any happier..but everyday he finds a way.
everyday we just get closer.
the connection is simply undescribable and amazing..


ya....i'll shutup now, lol