women go out with a guy and have a great time, like everythign about him and then want to persue it...2-3 days later fall off the face of the earth.

ya'll always want the same thing but i swear many women can not realize what's in front of them or do they get scared of it and run away?

I'd ask the same thing about men...

so maybe it's just about people in general?

funny....guys do this too...hmmmmmmmmmm

No we don't.

Well, maybe not JustAGuys but considering there is only ONE of those...your information on THIS thread may be flawed. OtherGuys do :) Trust me!

yuh huh

i guess ill take it as not knowing what ya'll want.

men do that too. talk about how much they like then stop talk ing to u.

just pisses me off, more so my times been waisted.

yeah, time wasted, hopes dashed....we know...it sucks

because maybe they believe in their eyes they found someone just a tad bit more interesting,remember you may not be the only date they had to go on. this answer i gave can go for both genders...by the way it is jmo

It has to do with crop circles.

wheat thin conspiracy theorists

it's a nice way to tell you that you aren't what they're looking for.

oh well like the sayin goes "phuck them n 4get'
em!!!"

I find that honesty is the best policy...why beat around the bush or lead someone on...if you arent interested or see anything else coming out of the date..be honest and say just that....and let it be...

guys and girls both do it.

but im in your boat i often wonder why everything goes great and then they get scared and run. ive had it happen 3 times and blah im sick of it :)

If you have a lot of girls falling off the face of the earth after 2-3 days then maybe:

A: It's not them it's you that has a problem

B: It's is them with the problem but you also have a problem in that you select the wrong girls. Maybe you look for the wrong things in a girl.

Try going out with girls you never thought about dating. Pick a girl different then what you are used to. If she disappears then you know it's you. If she doesn't then you know it's your selection process.

It happens to everyone, men do it too. Try not to take it personally and keep looking. However, in the future, be cautious; don't believe everything they say until you're really,really sure you can trust them. And even then, take things with a grain of salt.

Maybe this girl did like you- at that moment. People change, things change, circumstances change. It sucks, but it's true and the older you get, you'll realize that. Also, try not to generalize, everyone's different, there is no "female" or "male" behavior; people of both genders can be mean, rude, inconsiderate, fickle or just change their minds. Surely, you've thought you liked someone and then you changed your mind? I know I have. Anyway, I'm sure there's a girl out there who will stick around. Best of luck to you.

WOW, I just consider that I learned something and move on, I don't waste time...If you haven't learned anything and consider it a waste of time, you need to take a good hard look in the mirror.

by the way

Waist is the part of your body where you bend.

Waste is what happens when you use something hap hazardly.

Did you happen to use this word in an email with her before the disappearing act???