tell me what you think

I think that if any woman is in that kind of situation, she should get
out of it ASAP...

I don't think that any woman should stay with that kind of person...
I do understand that sometimes, they are too afraid to leave, but there
are resources that can help....

Been there done that for ten years, would never do that again. Need to
get out of that situation. He should be in jail, or better yet - dead.
Sorry, guess I sound kind of harsh.

Are you in that situation now?? You can e-mail me if you want and we can
talk.

Should be thrown in jail, and same for a women.
If they are in a relationship, that means they are not in pre-school
there for, they should be able to keep their anger under control. If
not, they should not be allowed back into society until they learn to
deal with it properly.

I don't think a man should ever raise his hands to a woman, plain and
simple. If they do, they should be taught a lesson. If there are any
women out there that stay in relationships like that, they have to
really think about what they're still doing with the prick. If I was
dating someone and he hit me, he'd be gone like chinese food.

I have been there as well, HM, you can email me as well, if you need
help...

Can laugh about it a few years later with her...



Ok that probably only applys in my situation. Ive only hit one woman,
and it was only once. I was dreaming I was in a fight woke up too late
in midswing hitting my partner just right of her right eye. We cried
together for quite awhile that night.

Two years later we joke about it, with each other.


Outside of that its a ***** move in my opinoin.

Kitten, sometimes the guy has scared the woman so badly she is afraid to
leave...It is sometimes not the easiest thing to do...

I agree- get out of that relationship if your in one like that.
No one should hit anyone. Weather its a man or a woman. That is abuse!
There are alot of help resources out there for people in that situation.
A person that hits usually nevers stops that behavior. It can become
alot worse-even leading to death.

Oh, I understand that.....I've had friends in situations like that. I
have a lot of compassion for the women who stay in relationships like
those......I just wish there was a better way.

A man who hits a woman is something less than a man, in my opinion.

Oh, sure, I can formulate a highly contrived self-defense scenario where
it might be justifiable -- woman has a gun, is out to kill the guy, he
has to resort to bopping her one to get the gun away. Sure, but how
often does that happen in the real world?

Any man who gets to the point where he even thinks about hitting a woman
should go get some help right away. There are always better options.

Spent 13 years in an abusive Marriage,,, Thier are agencies
out thier that can and will help you.. No One and I mean
no one Male or Female deserves to be Abused Physically
or Mentally,,, Leaving is hard and painfull,, Scared of
being alone is real,,, Just no that thier is life after you leave and it
can be and will be as Incredible as you want and make it to be,,, Its
not easy,,, We are all here to help if you need to talk We are an email
away...

This is a good question. I think it may depend on the situation. I do
not believe a man should ever hit a woman. I also don't believe a woman
should ever hit a man. In martial arts training that was something that
I had a really hard time with.

Now, I believe that if a woman hits a man with a closed fist they should
expect the man to be able to defend himself.

If a man hits a woman without her hitting him first then the woman
should get out of the relationship as well as possibly press legal
charges against the man.

I have met alot of ladies that hold black belts and to them if they get
hit typically the man gets hurt more then they did but it is still not
right.

I have also seen cases where a woman slapped a man hard enough to break
his jaw. In such instances I believe it is his right to at least attempt
to block the strike.

Overall when it comes down to trading blows between two people it is
time for both parties to leave each other alone and calm down until they
can work things out rationally.

I want to make it very clear that I was not with him at the time he come
to my house we have not been together in a year. He hit me and I beat
his ass. Now I have to go to court. I have never been in anything like
that before. I have always been a strong women who does not put up with
a man. That is the reason I do not have a man

I think he's probably gotten his butt kicked a few too many times by
dudes

If I tell you what I actually think about men that do that I might get
booted off this site lol So Il let this one go

Awwwwww ...HELL NO!....Now let the first one here to tell me when it
would be right to do something as low as that!

I spent a year in a physically abusive relationship and 5 yrs in a
mentally and believe me leave now because it takes such a heavy toll on
your psyche,it makes you feel so worthless you just dont care.Though the
first relationship was 20 yr ago I still remeber it sometimes.The most
recent went in the tank when we married.All of a sudden it was like a
whole different person emerged..we didnt last long after that.If a
man/woman hits you once , calls you names constantly or demeans you get
out.Do not tolerate any type of abusive behavior from your mate,period.

A MAN WHO HITS A WOMAN ISNT A MAN .

Same here, 13 years first marriage. Kicked, punched, slapped pushed,
name it, I did it. That wasn't a man, but I was too stupid to leave. The
cracked ribs, black eyes and bruises would disapear with time, but the
verbal abuse was a real killer.Took me years to get my self esteem back.
He passed away on the 7th of September 2004 and beleive me, there was no
sadness at all. If you're in that situation, get out and run like hell.
Don't be like me, I could kick myself every time I think about it, my
excuse was I was staying cause he was the kid's father.