spill your guts, vent, commiserate etc.
tell your most devastating heartbreak story

ok..... this is where i learned that i'm too mature for most women my age.

i dated this one woman named Katie and for the longest time we were unbelievably happy, at least i thought so. but out of nowhere she breaks up with me. when i ask her why, all she says to me is
"did you think this was a serious relationship? its not, i've been dating other guys for awhile, and i just got bored with you."

Why?
Hearts breaking hurt,,, and carry on to still effect this presents.
and hurts are NOT what your here for I HOPE? Real tears fall on here everyday.
Its the GREAT hook-ups that make it all worth well and to want to find.....not all the pain.
Just my thoughts.

Talked to a guy on mingle for at least a week every night for at least four hours or so. After a week, he has given me his number, we've exchanged photos, etc. Then we agree that we are going to meet in person. We still continued the every night chat and plan a day to share music online together. Turns out I never hear from him again. He up and deletes his profile, his email. Phone number has been disconnected, etc. I was left to think...what did I do wrong here?

hearbreaks and hurts arent what i'm here for but it makes for letting others who may be going through a heartbreak at the moment feel like they're not alone.

You didn't do a thing wrong except get interested in an idiot.

Awwww, thanks, Justaguy!

Oh, by the way...is that an official disease, getting interested in an idiot? Because it seems to be going around I think, and apparently I keep catching the same strain of it....Anyone care to prove me wrong?

Any time.

no

Email me and I'll prove that we aren't ALL idiots..lol

CoryM you are better off without a person with no heart or morals..lesson learned the hard way. The world is full of these kind of people...it makes me sad that this happens to good people..

here's mine:

i was in a relationship with a guy who i'd been best friends with for 5 years prior to him asking me to be his girlfriend. he said he loved me and i thought i felt the same. 1 month into the relationship i dumped him,and this happened a few times in the relationship for about a year. throughout our entire friendship we had minor squabbles and we moved past them. it was out thing to be honest no matter how pissed it got the other person. he seemed patient about it and we pretty much were the closest person in the other person's life, we told each other anything.

he was leaving to go to university in another country and the weeks prior to him leaving i was saddened about him leaving and tried to spend time with him before he left. he spent alot of time with his other friends though but i thought it was understandable considering he was leaving the country soon.

anyhoo the week prior to him leaving he was at a party with some friends, he invited me to come along but i declined because we had spent the day together at the beach (making out) and i was tired as hell, wasnt in the mood for partying.

the night before he left when a bunch of us were at a goodbye bonfire thingy in his honour he spent the entire night off alone with a girl i didnt know and ignored me. when i tried to get him away to talk he pretty much brushed me off. at one point that night i was crying into the lap of one of my good guy friends because i couldnt understand why he was acting so indifferent.
later that night i yelled at him and demanded that he take me home, he took me home with the other girl in the car in the front seat.

when he was in the other country and i saw him online i asked him why he didnt give a damn anymore, he said that the day we went to the beach together the week before he left, he made out with a girl at the party that same night at which point he realised that he didnt respect me if he was able to do that, and he couldn't care less about me anymore.

thanks

Wow. MAJOR idiot.

Sorry Jas...like I say I'm saddened that this happens to good people....me myself I'm the Psycho Magnet...I think I'm gonna get this tattooed on my forehead someday...lol

it was a shock at first but then after a few days i thought it was the most hilarious thing in the world...

You are not alone, me too

20 years later

My first love told me that he had planned to ask my to marry him, but changed his mind mid-dinner cause I told him I got a dance job in Europe.

I am still not over that twist of fate and the expression on his face when I told him I would have said YES!

Here's mine...

Maybe I was 14 or 15 when I met him... I had an instant crush on him. We were just kids and he did'nt like me how I was liking him. We became friends though.I always liked him.
Then when I was 19 or so and seeing someone else he suddenly became interested in me big time.... he caused a lot of friction and eventually I ended up with him (for one night). That's all he wanted then. I did'nt care I still liked him . But, our friendship seemed to be gone.
Months after that happened he showed up telling me he was gonna steal me away and he really did care...we could be together. I knew him to well and told him I was over it and to leave me alone.I was in a better relationship.
A few days later he was killed in an accidental shooting.I was devastated..I still did really,really like him.We got close in our own way even through all the B.S. Sometimes even now I wonder if he was my soul mate that maybe I should have been with him and not give up.Maybe the outcome for both of us would have been differant.