I'm married ( seperated with papers in hand) & it says so in my profile.

How about after 3 months what the FUDGE!

Honesty is good :)

I agree. When I even start dating someone I deactivate my dating profiles. Most of the men I'VE seen who are married on here are looking for a mistress...lol, so they're kinda shady.

They claim to just want friendship but not all most like FWB. Have no problem with the married people who just enjoy the forum or are being honest in why they are here.

To me it is fine as a chat site and as a date site. You have to do your own investigation about people. There are a lot of singles on here who are never intending any thing serious too so at least the people who are seperated and married and say so are no big aggravation to me. Some have actually started single and hung around if what I have heard is accurate and I have no reason not to believe it. If I got a relationship going I would still be interested in the forums. Everyone has been nice to me. So I don't have to down anyone. Most of the locals that turn out to be turkeys tend to drop off.

yeah, last guy i met locally said he was Single..but then dropped the bomb that he's living with his baby momma and paying for everything! bleh

Here we go again....

He's feeding his face again.

By the way, that pic was taken at Judy's house.

I've tried being friends with married guys
and ALL of them hit on me. Which is strange when they say all they want is friendship. If the person is like that, then it's emotional cheating plain and simple.

I will be friends with married women, but I'm not going through the let's just be friends with married men any longer.

JMO so no bashing emails, ok?

sometimes it does feel inappropriate to me to be involved with someone romantically, and both of us still maintaining our profiles on a 'dating' site.

yet, because i am in a long distance relationship (different countries even) which began by our meeting on a similar site, it's a cheap and convenient way with which to use in order to stay in touch with each other.

that being said, even when we eventually are physically together on a permanent basis, i most likely will retain my account here, and i anticipate his doing the same, although i expect the actual online time to diminish greatly.

over the years, we've both developed life-long friendships with a few people and, again, it's an easy way to correspond with them.

And both her ^^^ AND her dude are incredible people.

I am a guy and I'm not afraid to say that the vast majority (not all) of men will phuck anything that as a hole regardless if he is married or not. HeartSoul I am sure if you show any sexual interests in a married man I am sure a lot of them could not resists the temptation.

Also who can we trust it is so easy to write anything on a profile that even the ones that say they are single man you have to be very careful.

You'd be surpurised you do have to take your time and investigate. No problem with anyone who is being honest.

Yeah separated never plans to divorce and will get back with her eventually. Then say your married better to find someone and no one is hurt, say what you really want.

Some people are dishonest liars regardless of if their married or not.
If their not lying about being married they'll lie about something else.

um, my bestest friend in the whole world is on here and he has a profile and he's married. He even SAYS it in his profile.

This is MINGLE. For people to MINGLE and make friends. I am here just for friends. Why can't they be?

And that is great he is being honest with being married.

Dang.....I was about to go off about how married women are more apprecieative of getting romanced......(I kid....or do I?)


I am not married...but, I am very taken.

Not only on this site but, another as well, I have many openly married lady friends that will constantly discuss personal family matters involving, family, children, work, husbands to a sympathetic and understanding ear.

Not everyone is here for the shot at some flesh time....apparently, quite a few of us are here to mingle in a laid back social format.

just because you're on here and you're married doesn't mean you're degrading yourself or looking for something sexual or romantic.
i think that's very stereotypical about these sites. i was invited here. i wasn't going to create a profile, but i'm glad i did. i'm up front and very honest about why i'm here.