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Topic: Married People....
carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sun 11/09/08 02:13 PM
Dang.....I was about to go off about how married women are more apprecieative of getting romanced......(I kid....or do I?) I am not married...but, I am very taken. Not only on this site but, another as well, I have many openly married lady friends that will constantly discuss personal family matters involving, family, children, work, husbands to a sympathetic and understanding ear. Not everyone is here for the shot at some flesh time....apparently, quite a few of us are here to mingle in a laid back social format. Seems I've experienced both. There are some really good people on here and then there are some down to earth liars on here. So is life so have to figure it out. I feel it is easier for a guy than a girl.:) Life

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sun 11/09/08 02:14 PM
just because you're on here and you're married doesn't mean you're degrading yourself or looking for something sexual or romantic. i think that's very stereotypical about these sites. i was invited here. i wasn't going to create a profile, but i'm glad i did. i'm up front and very honest about why i'm here. and you always have been you're prolly my oldest friend on the internet you've always been honest about it.

becca777 Joined Tue 08/05/08 Posts: 2161	Sun 11/09/08 03:32 PM
^^^ see my point? smiles

choclablover Joined Wed 11/12/08 Posts: 2442	Tue 11/18/08 08:54 AM
just because you're on here and you're married doesn't mean you're degrading yourself or looking for something sexual or romantic. i think that's very stereotypical about these sites. i was invited here. i wasn't going to create a profile, but i'm glad i did. i'm up front and very honest about why i'm here. Some people are open an honest. Thank you for your comment.... rick

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Tue 11/18/08 09:33 AM Edited by bad_girl on Tue 11/18/08 09:35 AM
I am married and I don't feel I am degrading myself or my husband. We met on here, made some great friends and I plan on keeping in touch with them, as does my husband, which we have stated in our profiles. The friends we have made on here are a testament to what an awesome site this is. Being married has nothing to do with it, it is whether a person is honest about their relationship status. Give the folks on here a chance and you might make some awesome friends as well, married and single.

singleflower30 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 23	Tue 11/18/08 09:57 AM
I felt the same way in the beginning...but NOW I don't have a problem with that unless they lie about their marital status (some do) and others are honest and upfront from the get go. It's your choice what you opt to do once you find out

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Tue 11/18/08 08:17 PM
Why do married people get on here and create a profile? I think it's degrading to them and there better half...If it's a couple doing it then that's them making a decision together, but married... well let's see, mmmm, perhaps we both know, and oh well, perhaps it says as much on our profiles, and oh well, mmm, perhaps even we have lots of friends on here, and er , mmm, pehaps you shouln't worry about it, life has lots of things to worry about other than someones profile, or wether they are married or not, If one can read, then, whats the problem, profiles are clear, not like we are gonna have cyber sex or somethin,..............are we?

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Tue 11/18/08 08:21 PM
i went on a date with a married woman, few weeks ago, of course i had no idea she was married into 3/4 way threw the date,

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Tue 11/18/08 08:31 PM
sometimes it does feel inappropriate to me to be involved with someone romantically, and both of us still maintaining our profiles on a 'dating' site. yet, because i am in a long distance relationship (different countries even) which began by our meeting on a similar site, it's a cheap and convenient way with which to use in order to stay in touch with each other. that being said, even when we eventually are physically together on a permanent basis, i most likely will retain my account here, and i anticipate his doing the same, although i expect the actual online time to diminish greatly. over the years, we've both developed life-long friendships with a few people and, again, it's an easy way to correspond with them. well said, I agree except with the feeling inappropriate part, never has to me. The people that I talk with and that know me, well, know me and I don't hide a whole lot, speak my mind and such and can't make my profile any clearer than I already have. Just for any that think they can lie on here for long, these women talk, yup, talk a lot, if you get out of line or inappropriate, you will so get busted, They know who you say Hi to, who you emailed and what you said, even what you said in a forum, two weeks ago today, at 7:32 PCT. and if your grammar was correct and if you used the same greeting with more than one and all kinds of stuff that would blow your mind, they chat on here in the forums, on Im, by email, all at once and together, so, don't think any women or guys can be really decieved on here without letting themselves be

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Tue 11/18/08 08:33 PM
i went on a date with a married woman, few weeks ago, of course i had no idea she was married into 3/4 way threw the date, better than finding out at two in the morning when you are suddenly woke up and she is throwing your clothes to you and saying, "quick, climb out the window, my Husband is home, damn, he wasn't supposed to be back yet, HURRY, don't let him see you,

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Tue 11/18/08 08:35 PM
sometimes it does feel inappropriate to me to be involved with someone romantically, and both of us still maintaining our profiles on a 'dating' site. yet, because i am in a long distance relationship (different countries even) which began by our meeting on a similar site, it's a cheap and convenient way with which to use in order to stay in touch with each other. that being said, even when we eventually are physically together on a permanent basis, i most likely will retain my account here, and i anticipate his doing the same, although i expect the actual online time to diminish greatly. over the years, we've both developed life-long friendships with a few people and, again, it's an easy way to correspond with them. well said, I agree except with the feeling inappropriate part, never has to me. The people that I talk with and that know me, well, know me and I don't hide a whole lot, speak my mind and such and can't make my profile any clearer than I already have. Just for any that think they can lie on here for long, these women talk, yup, talk a lot, if you get out of line or inappropriate, you will so get busted, They know who you say Hi to, who you emailed and what you said, even what you said in a forum, two weeks ago today, at 7:32 PCT. and if your grammar was correct and if you used the same greeting with more than one and all kinds of stuff that would blow your mind, they chat on here in the forums, on Im, by email, all at once and together, so, don't think any women or guys can be really decieved on here without letting themselves be I will not knock the couples on here.....but anyone can be fooled... hell I was!!!!

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Tue 11/18/08 08:36 PM
I am married and i only come on here to cheat on my wife. Whats your problem with that? That's why I like you Dan, you are nuttier than I am.

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Tue 11/18/08 08:44 PM
sometimes it does feel inappropriate to me to be involved with someone romantically, and both of us still maintaining our profiles on a 'dating' site. yet, because i am in a long distance relationship (different countries even) which began by our meeting on a similar site, it's a cheap and convenient way with which to use in order to stay in touch with each other. that being said, even when we eventually are physically together on a permanent basis, i most likely will retain my account here, and i anticipate his doing the same, although i expect the actual online time to diminish greatly. over the years, we've both developed life-long friendships with a few people and, again, it's an easy way to correspond with them. well said, I agree except with the feeling inappropriate part, never has to me. The people that I talk with and that know me, well, know me and I don't hide a whole lot, speak my mind and such and can't make my profile any clearer than I already have. Just for any that think they can lie on here for long, these women talk, yup, talk a lot, if you get out of line or inappropriate, you will so get busted, They know who you say Hi to, who you emailed and what you said, even what you said in a forum, two weeks ago today, at 7:32 PCT. and if your grammar was correct and if you used the same greeting with more than one and all kinds of stuff that would blow your mind, they chat on here in the forums, on Im, by email, all at once and together, so, don't think any women or guys can be really decieved on here without letting themselves be I will not knock the couples on here.....but anyone can be fooled... hell I was!!!! of course it can happen, I met some real fruit loops from another site. Fakes get found out pretty quick on here, at least that's what i've noticed in the last year. And there have been some fakes. Some folks I know have even been hurt, I feel bad for them as well, but you should keep trying if you are in fact looking, Meet as many as you can, most will not be anything more than wonderful friends, some will be more. You may really think you have checked someone out and still find they are not what you thought or they said. But some people let themselves be decieved, meet to soon, expect too much on a first meet and things. I almost din't meet my wife because I was skeptical and of past experience with these sites, but, I took the chance and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. I got me one hell of a wife out of it, I am blown away daily by my good fortune. and she still doesn't know I am a reformed axe murderer

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Tue 11/18/08 08:48 PM
I'm married ( seperated with papers in hand) & it says so in my profile. yeah, but me an pats are trying to work it out,

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Tue 11/18/08 10:16 PM
I found the bodies when I was there last time sometimes it does feel inappropriate to me to be involved with someone romantically, and both of us still maintaining our profiles on a 'dating' site. yet, because i am in a long distance relationship (different countries even) which began by our meeting on a similar site, it's a cheap and convenient way with which to use in order to stay in touch with each other. that being said, even when we eventually are physically together on a permanent basis, i most likely will retain my account here, and i anticipate his doing the same, although i expect the actual online time to diminish greatly. over the years, we've both developed life-long friendships with a few people and, again, it's an easy way to correspond with them. well said, I agree except with the feeling inappropriate part, never has to me. The people that I talk with and that know me, well, know me and I don't hide a whole lot, speak my mind and such and can't make my profile any clearer than I already have. Just for any that think they can lie on here for long, these women talk, yup, talk a lot, if you get out of line or inappropriate, you will so get busted, They know who you say Hi to, who you emailed and what you said, even what you said in a forum, two weeks ago today, at 7:32 PCT. and if your grammar was correct and if you used the same greeting with more than one and all kinds of stuff that would blow your mind, they chat on here in the forums, on Im, by email, all at once and together, so, don't think any women or guys can be really decieved on here without letting themselves be I will not knock the couples on here.....but anyone can be fooled... hell I was!!!! of course it can happen, I met some real fruit loops from another site. Fakes get found out pretty quick on here, at least that's what i've noticed in the last year. And there have been some fakes. Some folks I know have even been hurt, I feel bad for them as well, but you should keep trying if you are in fact looking, Meet as many as you can, most will not be anything more than wonderful friends, some will be more. You may really think you have checked someone out and still find they are not what you thought or they said. But some people let themselves be decieved, meet to soon, expect too much on a first meet and things. I almost din't meet my wife because I was skeptical and of past experience with these sites, but, I took the chance and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. I got me one hell of a wife out of it, I am blown away daily by my good fortune. and she still doesn't know I am a reformed axe murderer

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Thu 11/20/08 08:15 PM
sometimes it does feel inappropriate to me to be involved with someone romantically, and both of us still maintaining our profiles on a 'dating' site. yet, because i am in a long distance relationship (different countries even) which began by our meeting on a similar site, it's a cheap and convenient way with which to use in order to stay in touch with each other. that being said, even when we eventually are physically together on a permanent basis, i most likely will retain my account here, and i anticipate his doing the same, although i expect the actual online time to diminish greatly. over the years, we've both developed life-long friendships with a few people and, again, it's an easy way to correspond with them. well said, I agree except with the feeling inappropriate part, never has to me. The people that I talk with and that know me, well, know me and I don't hide a whole lot, speak my mind and such and can't make my profile any clearer than I already have. Just for any that think they can lie on here for long, these women talk, yup, talk a lot, if you get out of line or inappropriate, you will so get busted, They know who you say Hi to, who you emailed and what you said, even what you said in a forum, two weeks ago today, at 7:32 PCT. and if your grammar was correct and if you used the same greeting with more than one and all kinds of stuff that would blow your mind, they chat on here in the forums, on Im, by email, all at once and together, so, don't think any women or guys can be really decieved on here without letting themselves be I don't really believe some let themselves be decieved. Some do lie this is a good forum and I enjoy it but not all are on the up and up. But for the most part it is a good site. People need to be careful too this is the net you can be and say anything.