and or did i do the right thing? i had a crush on this co-worker of mine for a long time, we became friends ext... evrey time she would break up with her boyfriend i would be thir as a friend for her. "and this happends alot," k well i deside it one day i had to tell her how i felt, n when i did a siries of things happend that she almost made me lose my job n stuff, after this i would still tread her at my friend and she sometimes would tread me like crap n sometimes tread me as my friend and some times just pure out flirt with me. one day we whr texting on like a tuesday n our conversation end it up as like we want to be friends again. on a thursday she text me n says i dont want to be friends w/ u anymore . on a friday we dont talk at all she tottaly ignores me. of course this hurt really bad. on a saturday i get a text asking whr i am and if i have money i ask y? she said cuz shes broke n needs help so i tell her i have it and she comes to my apt i go to her car n give her the money n all of the sudden she says well i know i ont be able to pay u this back how can we..., n i shake my head to say dont worrie about it. but she goes well do u want me to come inside, Im tottally like huh r u sure? n she says yes with a big smile "while we r walking to my apt im like i wait it for so long for this is it really happening blah blah" but i say we can just talk . while we r talking i tell her u know this is obusly something i have toght about but not this way not because i pay u if not because u want to. we talk for a while n it felt like we understood each other a bit more sorta got closer i guess, so i ask her can i ask u for a hug? so we did i gave her an insosent kiss on her head n walk her back to her car.on sunday i start getting text n calls from her b/f treating me insulting me yall know how it goes. ok on monday i see her n she seems find on tuesday shes not at work on wednsday shes not at work. so i get worried so i text her saying i know we said we need to keep a bit of distance from each other cuz it makes u look bad that u talk to me at work cuz u complane about me once but with ur boyfriend calling me n u not showing up at work i am really worried about u. n she text me back saying whats wrong with u i want nothing to do with u,... just stop! after that i found out she had quit that tuesday. n im stock with this on my head 4 ever.

Ok... I didn't read the whole thing...

but didn't you see her have a pattern with her boyfriend/ex-boyfriend... And you didn't think that if you were to get serious with her that she wouldn't have the same pattern with you?

Sorry to say this but she simply used you....keep your distance, stay away and be thankful it is over.

you got mixed up in someone elses relationship

that's always a bad idea

you gota move on she is using u . ive been ther done that !!!!!!!!

dude she was looking for somebody to use let it go.

treat it as lesson learned. hard lesson

it`s unfortunate when you really like someone,..( more than yourself ) you tend to settle for a few crumbs that fall from their table,..believing all the while that eventually they will invite you to the feast,.. but it never happens,..

Damn, she saw you coming from a mile away!!! Next time, don't put yourself out there like that. Sorry you got used, but that's life sometimes. Good luck with finding someone who is right for you!

this sounds like high school stuff........I would run the other way!!! Of course Im a runner at the first sign of trouble anyways.

Ohmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I need Zen!!!!

I can't even read that...but I agree with the above posters as they apparently can.

I had to read it twice but she used him plain and simple

that is very long and one day i entend to read it ,

I had to go over it three times to translate it into English.

synopsis please

Basically....dude played the " friend " role. Then when she broke up with someone this last time, he decided to tell her that he really likes her.

She is hot and cold. Then she texts him one day and says she needs some money cuz she's broke. He, being the " friend ", gives her the money. She wants to figure out a way to pay him back, so she asks if he wants her to come in. Nothing but talking goes on.

Couple of days later, her b/f texts dude and starts insulting and threatening and yadda yadda yadda.

Couple of days after that, she tells dude that she doesn't want anything more to do with him.

situation sucks but seems as though he read more than was out there - she was wrong for not being forthright

but brush it off (my advice)
and thanks JAG!!!

Always happy to help.

Since I have done my good deed for the day...now I have to head to work. lol

I read this one...shorter and something I agree with...wheres Ann Landers when you need her?..oh wait, shes dead, right??

I would also like to add,..that you are the gentleman,..seeing that she offered her services for the money borrowed,.. you declined and did not take advantage