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Topic: I met a girl last night
trevorkai Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 44	Mon 10/27/08 11:02 AM
I was on Craigslist and I put an add for my self in the personals. I always got the spam replies until now. This girl Replied to the add and we went to a movie last night. She was so beautiful looking, and she had a great since of humor. We held hands during the movie and kissed after in the car. I can't wait to see her again. She is working all week until the weekends. How soon should I call hear to see hear again. I don't want to sound too needy and I also don't want her to feel like I let her down by not calling.

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Mon 10/27/08 11:05 AM
I was on Craigslist and I put an add for my self in the personals. I always got the spam replies until now. This girl Replied to the add and we went to a movie last night. She was so beautiful looking, and she had a great since of humor. We held hands during the movie and kissed after in the car. I can't wait to see her again. She is working all week until the weekends. How soon should I call hear to see hear again. I don't want to sound too needy and I also don't want her to feel like I let her down by not calling. call tomorrow and tell her what a great time you had and you hope she has a great week...Dont get to sobby or she will run...Be assertive and tell her you would love to see her again and put the ball in her court

Trinacoles Joined Sun 08/31/08 Posts: 40	Mon 10/27/08 11:06 AM
I don't think that there are really any rules to when your suppose to call, If you like her, you should call her and tell her what a great time you had on your date, and see where the conversation goes from there.

trevorkai Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 44	Mon 10/27/08 11:07 AM
Thanks for the relpie that sounds like a good idea. I will do that.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 10/27/08 11:10 AM
I was on Craigslist and I put an add for my self in the personals. I always got the spam replies until now. This girl Replied to the add and we went to a movie last night. She was so beautiful looking, and she had a great since of humor. We held hands during the movie and kissed after in the car. I can't wait to see her again. She is working all week until the weekends. How soon should I call hear to see hear again. I don't want to sound too needy and I also don't want her to feel like I let her down by not calling. Call mid week so it's not too far in advance, but not so last minute she would be more likely to have made other plans already, and ask her if she'd be interested in getting together again. It lets her know you're interested and thinking a little ahead, and that it's just a thought and not an expectation. Not at all needy. Good luck whatever you do.

Jamesdei07 Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 571	Mon 10/27/08 11:13 AM
I was on Craigslist and I put an add for my self in the personals. I always got the spam replies until now. This girl Replied to the add and we went to a movie last night. She was so beautiful looking, and she had a great since of humor. We held hands during the movie and kissed after in the car. I can't wait to see her again. She is working all week until the weekends. How soon should I call hear to see hear again. I don't want to sound too needy and I also don't want her to feel like I let her down by not calling. alright dude there is a rule of thumb here a first date wait at least 2 days before you call give her time to think about the situation and that keeps you from looking desperate and when you do call her be confident but not like overbearingly just tell her you had a good time and would like to do it again sometime and just go from there

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Mon 10/27/08 11:14 AM
I was on Craigslist and I put an add for my self in the personals. I always got the spam replies until now. This girl Replied to the add and we went to a movie last night. She was so beautiful looking, and she had a great since of humor. We held hands during the movie and kissed after in the car. I can't wait to see her again. She is working all week until the weekends. How soon should I call hear to see hear again. I don't want to sound too needy and I also don't want her to feel like I let her down by not calling. alright dude there is a rule of thumb here a first date wait at least 2 days before you call give her time to think about the situation and that keeps you from looking desperate and when you do call her be confident but not like overbearingly just tell her you had a good time and would like to do it again sometime and just go from there why are you stealing what I just put....

Jamesdei07 Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 571	Mon 10/27/08 11:15 AM
I don't think that there are really any rules to when your suppose to call, If you like her, you should call her and tell her what a great time you had on your date, and see where the conversation goes from there. oh yea there are rules if you just met a guy and you gave him your number and he called you like 30 minuets later what would you think

Jamesdei07 Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 571	Mon 10/27/08 11:16 AM
I was on Craigslist and I put an add for my self in the personals. I always got the spam replies until now. This girl Replied to the add and we went to a movie last night. She was so beautiful looking, and she had a great since of humor. We held hands during the movie and kissed after in the car. I can't wait to see her again. She is working all week until the weekends. How soon should I call hear to see hear again. I don't want to sound too needy and I also don't want her to feel like I let her down by not calling. alright dude there is a rule of thumb here a first date wait at least 2 days before you call give her time to think about the situation and that keeps you from looking desperate and when you do call her be confident but not like overbearingly just tell her you had a good time and would like to do it again sometime and just go from there ooppps copyright infringement lol sorry why are you stealing what I just put....

Jamesdei07 Joined Tue 05/13/08 Posts: 571	Mon 10/27/08 11:17 AM
I was on Craigslist and I put an add for my self in the personals. I always got the spam replies until now. This girl Replied to the add and we went to a movie last night. She was so beautiful looking, and she had a great since of humor. We held hands during the movie and kissed after in the car. I can't wait to see her again. She is working all week until the weekends. How soon should I call hear to see hear again. I don't want to sound too needy and I also don't want her to feel like I let her down by not calling. call tomorrow and tell her what a great time you had and you hope she has a great week...Dont get to sobby or she will run...Be assertive and tell her you would love to see her again and put the ball in her court i just put a little more detail into it we are men we need details without them we are lost

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Mon 10/27/08 11:25 AM
So happy to hear this...and I have always been told that a gentleman should call to express that they enjoyed the evening and always give a girl 3 days notice when asking her out, giving her time to rearrange their schedule if need be.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Mon 10/27/08 11:27 AM
text her!

Trinacoles Joined Sun 08/31/08 Posts: 40	Mon 10/27/08 11:27 AM
I don't think that there are really any rules to when your suppose to call, If you like her, you should call her and tell her what a great time you had on your date, and see where the conversation goes from there. oh yea there are rules if you just met a guy and you gave him your number and he called you like 30 minuets later what would you think Well If you put it like that, I agree that would freak me out, but I dont think calling the next day is too soon, it showes her your interested.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 10/27/08 12:12 PM
I was on Craigslist and I put an add for my self in the personals. I always got the spam replies until now. This girl Replied to the add and we went to a movie last night. She was so beautiful looking, and she had a great since of humor. We held hands during the movie and kissed after in the car. I can't wait to see her again. She is working all week until the weekends. How soon should I call hear to see hear again. I don't want to sound too needy and I also don't want her to feel like I let her down by not calling. call tomorrow and tell her what a great time you had and you hope she has a great week...Dont get to sobby or she will run...Be assertive and tell her you would love to see her again and put the ball in her court good advice .. go with it

xcite4ever Joined Mon 10/20/08 Posts: 239	Mon 10/27/08 12:19 PM
Man up. Call ASAP! Otherwise suffer regret. The unknown is exciting. You need feedback. Just do it already! Feel her out, via phone and hopefully in person next date as well!

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Mon 10/27/08 12:25 PM
text her! Nooooooooo! That's not an option. Just call her today, say you had a good time, ask her if she's free this week to go do something else. I notice that first thing that you mentioned are her looks, I hope she has something else going for her too.