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Topic: Marriage...
Mr_Music's photo
Mon 10/27/08 05:11 PM
Don't get me wrong. I have no problem with relationships. It's marriage that's left me jaded.

BlueskyJ's photo
Mon 10/27/08 05:17 PM
If I love someone, I will do what is in my ability to do so that person is happy. I fail to see how marriage denotes the connotation that I am happy with the person and committed to them. Furthermore I fail to see the distinction between married and love, they are not of the same as love is a never ending last forever type of thing and marriage fades and eventually (on average) fails after 5 years.


I disagree....there are no guarantees that love or marriage will last forever.....and you are right, love & marriage are not the same.....As I already explained, Marriage is an 'act of love'......It is a way of showing your mate that you are willing to commit to forever even though you know that that may turn out not to be the case......In my opinion when Love dies so does the marriage and not the other way around.....

this summer I went to my nieces wedding.....I've known her since she was born.....she spent a couple of years with her boyfriend prior to the wedding.....when I sat in the first row of that pew, I watched them both crying throughout the whole ceremony.....i could see their love, i could feel their love & i knew that they would do anything to 'build a forever relationship'....it was so beautiful i found myself crying....missing something i had lost.....i want that again soooo much......when you know what it feels like it is very powerful.....
good luck to you Mike......


Rapunzel's photo
Mon 10/27/08 07:16 PM
:heart: flowerforyou blushing awwwwww... that is very precious & very sweet...blushing flowerforyou :heart:

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