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Edited by
Rapunzel
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it's a ritual of tradition that just about every girl dreams of. good luck with your stance on the issue. That is so not true. What fantasy world did you just walk out of? marige is nothing but a piece of paper that says your mine and actually in reality no one owns anyone but because you signed the paper alot will look at it as a form of control when being with somone is something freely given.  Sweetheart Shadow...
 some of us still feel this way about love & romance
 & marriage is waaaaay more to many of us
than just a meaningless piece of paper
it is an outward formal dedication & acknowledgement
of an inward condition of love & commitment
 & nothing will change our hearts or minds
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In my experience its a tradition to embarass a man. Had 2 runaway brides in my life. Won't be a third. F*ck marriage. Wish I had all that money back. More so I wish the two twits could have made their minds up before the money was spent and plans were made. I didn't see a clause in the marriage vows that said "I reserve the right to change my mind at any given moments notice and force you to accept my decision and pay all bills incurred therein for my mindless behavior". F*ck marriage. First time- shame on you. Second time- shame on me. There won't be a third time. And you wonder why I'm so selfish? Because I was led to believe in you womens fairytale bridal dreams bullsh!t twice just to get cold feet at the last minute leaving me embarrassed in front of my family and huge bills for a wedding that never happened. F*ck you runaway brides.
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honestly, its too soon for me to decide on marriage. if it happens sweet.
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Just my opinion. No offense. Nothing personal.
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I would never stand a man up at the alter I would be sure by that point.You shouldn't assume all women are like that
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i've made a vow to myself to never get married its pointless and risky
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In my experience its a tradition to embarass a man. Had 2 runaway brides in my life. Won't be a third. F*ck marriage. Wish I had all that money back. More so I wish the two twits could have made their minds up before the money was spent and plans were made. I didn't see a clause in the marriage vows that said "I reserve the right to change my mind at any given moments notice and force you to accept my decision and pay all bills incurred therein for my mindless behavior". F*ck marriage. First time- shame on you. Second time- shame on me. There won't be a third time. And you wonder why I'm so selfish? Because I was led to believe in you womens fairytale bridal dreams bullsh!t twice just to get cold feet at the last minute leaving me embarrassed in front of my family and huge bills for a wedding that never happened. F*ck you runaway brides. OUCH!! |
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it's a ritual of tradition that just about every girl dreams of. good luck with your stance on the issue. Of the handful of women I dated very few felt the same way. Most were against marriage for different reasons. Does every girl dream of the divorce too? Cause it seems with the statistics they go hand in hand... Either way my stance doesn't change, I'm against marriage because it is nothing more then a party at someone else's expense. Happy if it works out for you, but not my cup of tea. Oh wait...your the girl that gets offensive at everything...go ahead and look past this then. 
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F*ck you darla. F*ck you theresa. Hope someone does to you what you did to me.
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Edited by
Rapunzel
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Sun 10/26/08 11:53 PM
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In my experience its a tradition to embarass a man. Had 2 runaway brides in my life. Won't be a third. F*ck marriage. Wish I had all that money back. More so I wish the two twits could have made their minds up before the money was spent and plans were made. I didn't see a clause in the marriage vows that said "I reserve the right to change my mind at any given moments notice and force you to accept my decision and pay all bills incurred therein for my mindless behavior". F*ck marriage. First time- shame on you. Second time- shame on me. There won't be a third time. And you wonder why I'm so selfish? Because I was led to believe in you womens fairytale bridal dreams bullsh!t twice just to get cold feet at the last minute leaving me embarrassed in front of my family and huge bills for a wedding that never happened. F*ck you runaway brides. sorry about that Kyle...
some women are just soooo bent on being bad and insist on trying to give other women and marriage a bad name ... 
but not all women are like that 
& it does go both ways 
< some > men can be just as selfish & evil & deceitful 
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In my experience its a tradition to embarass a man. Had 2 runaway brides in my life. Won't be a third. F*ck marriage. Wish I had all that money back. More so I wish the two twits could have made their minds up before the money was spent and plans were made. I didn't see a clause in the marriage vows that said "I reserve the right to change my mind at any given moments notice and force you to accept my decision and pay all bills incurred therein for my mindless behavior". F*ck marriage. First time- shame on you. Second time- shame on me. There won't be a third time. And you wonder why I'm so selfish? Because I was led to believe in you womens fairytale bridal dreams bullsh!t twice just to get cold feet at the last minute leaving me embarrassed in front of my family and huge bills for a wedding that never happened. F*ck you runaway brides. sorry about that Kyle...
some women are just soooo bent on being bad and insist on trying to give other women and marriage a bad name ...
but not all women are like that
& it does go both ways
men can be just as selfish & deceitful
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Really though, why not just accept you 'love' each other and be on with it. I feel no need to bring ink and paper into that, it seems to disrupt more than it helps. Love is unconditional, there is nothing to prove in that.
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we like to wear tiaras......and you just cant do THAT when youre living together.......or
CAN YOU???  
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First runaway bride non existent wedding? $16,280. Second? $12,080. Yeah those bridal dreams aint cheap. And they wondered why I carried the second cake into the parking lot and drove over it and did donuts on it with my car until nothing but a frosted parking lot was left. F*ck marriage.
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 but then there are some real sweethearts too....
and we all need to be nicer to each other
& lay down the arms in the gender wars...
people are going to get to fed up 
with the whole mess 
and are going to give up trying 
as we see demonstrated in these threads... 
so let us all appreciate one another
and quit hurting each other....
don't predatory people realize that they run out of bridges to burn ???
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First runaway bride non existent wedding? $16,280. Second? $12,080. Yeah those bridal dreams aint cheap. And they wondered why I carried the second cake into the parking lot and drove over it and did donuts on it with my car until nothing but a frosted parking lot was left. F*ck marriage. 
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First runaway bride non existent wedding? $16,280. Second? $12,080. Yeah those bridal dreams aint cheap. And they wondered why I carried the second cake into the parking lot and drove over it and did donuts on it with my car until nothing but a frosted parking lot was left. F*ck marriage. 
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but then there are some real sweethearts too....
and we all need to be nicer to each other
& lay down the arms in the gender wars...
people are going to get to fed up
with the whole mess
and are going to give up trying
as we see demonstrated in these threads...
so let us all appreciate one another
and quit hurting each other....
don't predatory people realize that they run out of bridges to burn ???
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it's a ritual of tradition that just about every girl dreams of. good luck with your stance on the issue. That is so not true. What fantasy world did you just walk out of? marige is nothing but a piece of paper that says your mine and actually in reality no one owns anyone but because you signed the paper alot will look at it as a form of control when being with somone is something freely given. I will agree on the part that it is tradition ,but what is the paper for knowing that most relationships last longer when you don't get married? but when you sign that paper. Alot will not last more then two years being with somone
My parents had their 50th wedding anniversary this summer. My grandparents reached their 60th. Quite a my few aunts and uncles are approaching their 50th. The ones that aren't are due to the loss of a loved one. I know even more people that are almost at 25 yrs. What year was that?
Ok ill be serious. the truth here is. todays generation does not have the value as your parents and more so your grand parents did. so there for. The sense on vaule of family and marrige has gone out the window in today generation. there might be a few stragglers, but thats about it. |
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I would never stand a man up at the alter I would be sure by that point.You shouldn't assume all women are like that
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