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HEY EVERYBODY, I HAVE BEEN WIDOWED 7 MONTHS FROM THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND MY BEST FRIEND AND YOU KNOW WHAT? IT SUCKS IT DOES. I WORK FULL TIME, I HAVE FULL LIFE AND YET IT WILL NEVER BE WHAT IT WAS WITH HI BCAUSE EVERYTHING WAS ALIVE WHEN HE WAS IN MY LIFE. HE WAS A GREAT GIFT TO ME AND I MISS HIM....DAMN. I HAD SOME CHAMPANGE AND HERE I AM. I AM ALONE I LOVE LIFE AND MY FRIENDS AND I MISS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE
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WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT DUDE? I MEAN FOR REAL...PEOPLE HAVE RESPECT FOR SOMEONE WHO HAS HAD A SPOUSE WHO DIED. WHAT GIVES? YOU MADE A COMMITMENT AND i AM GUESSING YOU LOVED YOUR WIFE. YOU ARE NOW WIDOWED. THAT IS NOT GOING TO KEEP ANYONE AWAY. IF THERE ARE NO BITES IT IS YOU AND YOU ONLY...GET IT?
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married, 4.5 years.........widowed, 28 years. Taking care of my niece , 8.5 years.
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I feel out of my league. Looks like i'm the odd person out in this 50's and over thread yea u get the rejection with divorce There is loss, either divorce or death. How you view the past, the faces present or not. In either case, there cannot be closure. It is only a decision to see changes differently. NO its not the same Divorce you can still see talk window are a widower you can't |
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HEY EVERYBODY, I HAVE BEEN WIDOWED 7 MONTHS FROM THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND MY BEST FRIEND AND YOU KNOW WHAT? IT SUCKS IT DOES. I WORK FULL TIME, I HAVE FULL LIFE AND YET IT WILL NEVER BE WHAT IT WAS WITH HI BCAUSE EVERYTHING WAS ALIVE WHEN HE WAS IN MY LIFE. HE WAS A GREAT GIFT TO ME AND I MISS HIM....DAMN. I HAD SOME CHAMPANGE AND HERE I AM. I AM ALONE I LOVE LIFE AND MY FRIENDS AND I MISS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE |
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Only 9 days after marriage left her for studies for 3yrs; separated in 1991; divorced in 1998; alone till now, 2010.
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Only 9 days after marriage left her for studies for 3yrs; separated in 1991; divorced in 1998; alone till now, 2010.
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Was married to the LOVE of my life for almost 24 years. I have been a widower for 3 years now.
There isn`t a day that goes by that I don`t miss my Nanci.   
Nanci was the greatest woman in my life besides my mom.
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Hi all, to those who do not know me my name is Dave and I lost my wife 21 years ago next month. I am 62 years old and very lonely. I have no family near me. I used to talk in this forum. I have a lot to offer people but no one knows this, they just do not want to get to know me.
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Hi all, to those who do not know me my name is Dave and I lost my wife 21 years ago next month. I am 62 years old and very lonely. I have no family near me. I used to talk in this forum. I have a lot to offer people but no one knows this, they just do not want to get to know me. hi kiteman iemailed you but you have a limit so it didnt go through |
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Hi all, to those who do not know me my name is Dave and I lost my wife 21 years ago next month. I am 62 years old and very lonely. I have no family near me. I used to talk in this forum. I have a lot to offer people but no one knows this, they just do not want to get to know me. hi kiteman iemailed you but you have a limit so it didnt go through Coco56 you are able to email me. What limit are you talking about? |
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Just know that you are not alone in spirit. I have a lot of friends at the nursing home. Never have to be alone and never have to feel unloved. Being a widower has helped me greatly in my work. It really gave me an empathy that just wasn't there before.
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I have a lot of love to give just no one to give it to
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Don't hold anything back, just tell us how you feel..
Took ya some time to come up with all that.. Soul searching ... It's been almost 5 years for me.. |
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15 years ago, today. The clock started ticking. Got the call about, "a cloud on Gwen's x-ray". We had only 14 more months; just didn't know it. May will be 14 years, she has been gone.
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15 years ago, today. The clock started ticking. Got the call about, "a cloud on Gwen's x-ray". We had only 14 more months; just didn't know it. May will be 14 years, she has been gone. Sorry its been 5yrs for me does it ever better?? |
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I don't think it ever gets easier, we just become more accustomed to dealing with it. Out of the blue can come a day, where everything is like it happened yesterday.
Point in fact just happened. I always have the tv or radio on for noise. Ton Hanks in the "Philadephia"; story of a guy dying from AIDS. Last scene in the hospital, comes on. I get a flashback; the last nite we were in the hospital, didn't know the end was so close. Just proves my comment above. Hard way to learn, we just never know when the end will come. "Ask not for whom the bell tolls....it tolls for thee" Reason I try to "LIVE"; EVERYDAY. "Dance, like nobody is watching" Bless all my friends & even those that I don't like. They will learn.   
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I don't think it ever gets easier, we just become more accustomed to dealing with it. Out of the blue can come a day, where everything is like it happened yesterday. Point in fact just happened. I always have the tv or radio on for noise. Ton Hanks in the "Philadephia"; story of a guy dying from AIDS. Last scene in the hospital, comes on. I get a flashback; the last nite we were in the hospital, didn't know the end was so close. Just proves my comment above. Hard way to learn, we just never know when the end will come. "Ask not for whom the bell tolls....it tolls for thee" Reason I try to "LIVE"; EVERYDAY. "Dance, like nobody is watching" Bless all my friends & even those that I don't like. They will learn.
your always in my prayer my friend |
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Roy's birthday was yesterday I know he is happy where he is at, I feel it
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