Much better here than D.H.

We outnumber the people that want to fight.

I am serious, And i'm also looking.

(D.H stands for Dumb Humans)

Nothing wrong with a good lay, either.

I am actually looking for a serious relationship. However, I doubt that I will find one. :(

to answer your question...yes, some of us are looking but it gets really old when you get messed around with because all they want to do is screw around. i am presently on deployment and can't do that so i have lost out on a lot of people who might have been the ONE but i have also learned that those are the people i don't need to find, just still sitting over here working and looking, hopefully somoeone who has a serious nature to themselves will show up

That sounds good to me. I am tired being around that drama. Over there you try to have fun and almost always someone comes in and is just rude. It gets old fast

Have fun here...we only make fun of people that are disrespectful, stay respectful and you have no issues.

Me personally, as of last Saturday.....no.

Yet there are still some really cool and interesting Dolls and Dudes around here. I love learning from other peoples perspective. It helps me form my own opinion for a broad variety of topics.

I get to flirt and have fun with the Ladies. I get into some pretty interesting discourses with the guys.

and as a bonus, I get to deal with the occasional b%tch or d#ck.

Helps me keep sharp ya know?

I'd like to find some people from my area, but as lex said there aren't any.

EO I understand it does get frustrating taking the time to get to know someone and then the next thing you know they just run off

Must be really hard for you being so far away. But there are women who can handle those situations and can be patient and wait for you. I personally am looking for serious, but I love playing in the forums too.

What's up with that? I see locals running through "People You Might Be Interested In" all day long, and none of them are ever in the forums. And try to send them an e-mail? You might as well send one to your neighbor's dog. At least he might chase some whiny kids out of your yard.

I have found that you never find anything when you are desperately seeking it. Kinda like Juan Mescalito and the Peyote trek. lol Never veer from the path you are on to gather them. Only pick the ones that present themselves in that path.

But when you stop thinking about it or just decide it will never happen, there it is. Same with relationships. You meet someone who is the perfect one and that you could never "replace". Then if you break up and are heartbroken (is it just me?) you think there will never be another that could be as right. Then you meet someone that is all that and more, usually right after you "give up". Possibly because you choose more wisely and do not jump in headlong. Those headlong jumps are usually into a crash.

So Im not looking...unless you happen to be in my path. lol This just broadens that path a bit. And I have plenty of time. (I HOPE)

It would be nice to find someone close to go do things with and see what happens.

Free2 absolutely nailed it!!!!!!

No doubt!!!!!

Searching desperatly will get you some one night stands, plenty of flings and a close call or two. The real thing will come up behind you and hit you up side the head with a 12 pound sledge hammer of love.

Totally unexpected. Always seemed to work that way for me.

^ Yeah, what she said
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I did try to seriously look, but no one takes me serious or they all think I am just ... I don't know. But I love the community so I keep coming back. Its my enjoyment in life.

Was never looking.....

Joined to find new people to chat with and make some friends.

Chatted quite a bit with a gentleman from Idaho, fell in love...and am now engaged to him.

Sometimes that LoveBug just bites ya on the butt!!

Yeah, I am looking for the serious, real deal...just seems like noone else is...everybody seems to be stuck in the mindset of playing...