Topic: Happy for others ...
lilith401's photo
Thu 10/23/08 12:50 PM
In Ohio...laugh

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 12:50 PM

I agree Fade. I love seeing the excitement in someone's face when they share their good fortune. It's almost as if you are a part of it. Even for people that say it on here. You may not be able to see their face, or hear their voice, but you can tell by their words how excited they are. Just to know, that something special has happened to them in their life, that has made them so happy, makes me just as happy for them. I just don't understand how a person could not share in that happiness. It doesn't make sense to me.



Thanks hon .. actually when they told me I could get this amazingly engineered car at the price I got it for I realized what a miracle it was ..

And I know that excitement was evident. I don't believe for one second I flaunted anything.

But even if it was new, why wouldn't I want to share that and why wouldn't my friends want to be happy for me.

Gucci, Prada .. d*mn I wish. And I'd take them if given to me. I LOVE nice things.


TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 10/23/08 12:50 PM
I ‘m happy for anyone that accomplishes what they seek out to do and can fulfill those dreams. I’m not a jealous person I may wish that I was fortunate enough to have the same things or do the same thing. But not jealous cause someone accomplished what I would like to.

But now yes I do get annoyed at times from those that seem to see the need to rub it in others face of what they got or did. When they seem to do it out of spite just trying to make them selves look as if they are better then anybody else then that does tend to annoy me.

When one let’s it be known about what they have accomplished its all good we all have the right to be proud of what we have done. But when you hear this over and over for weeks then yes it does get old. It’s like okay I have heard that 1,599 times already get over it the whole world should know by now.


This is not direct towards any certain situation JMO in general.

franshade's photo
Thu 10/23/08 12:52 PM
<~~~~ label whore but dont tell anyone

our little secret waving

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 12:54 PM

I ‘m happy for anyone that accomplishes what they seek out to do and can fulfill those dreams. I’m not a jealous person I may wish that I was fortunate enough to have the same things or do the same thing. But not jealous cause someone accomplished what I would like to.

But now yes I do get annoyed at times from those that seem to see the need to rub it in others face of what they got or did. When they seem to do it out of spite just trying to make them selves look as if they are better then anybody else then that does tend to annoy me.

When one let’s it be known about what they have accomplished its all good we all have the right to be proud of what we have done. But when you hear this over and over for weeks then yes it does get old. It’s like okay I have heard that 1,599 times already get over it the whole world should know by now.


This is not direct towards any certain situation JMO in general.



Well I know it's not directed towards my situation. I just shared about my 'new' OLD *ahem* car.

But I do hear what you are saying. And that's not what I'm dealing with here.

I was excited about a great buy. I LOVE my car. I was feeling badly about letting my RX8 go .. so this was a very nice blessing.

Period.:wink:

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 12:56 PM

<~~~~ label whore but dont tell anyone

our little secret waving



LOL

I love nice fashion. Nothing wrong with having good taste.flowers I just wait for the dirtcheap sales and buy up.

:laughing:

It's called prudent buying. :wink:

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 12:57 PM

In Ohio...laugh



let me take the weekend to get there then .. well in this car maybe 1/2 a weekend :tongue:

franshade's photo
Thu 10/23/08 12:58 PM
consignment stores, clearance racks, thrift stores, hell even Goodwill... always something hidden in the mounds they sell

:banana:

nothing wrong with what you have
nothing wrong that you have it
dont let anyone rain on your parade
unless you're into that kinda stuff blushing

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 12:59 PM

consignment stores, clearance racks, thrift stores, hell even Goodwill... always something hidden in the mounds they sell

:banana:

nothing wrong with what you have
nothing wrong that you have it
dont let anyone rain on your parade
unless you're into that kinda stuff blushing



thanks Fran .. it was just hurtful and insulting is all - but good to know

franshade's photo
Thu 10/23/08 01:00 PM

thanks Fran .. it was just hurtful and insulting is all - but good to know

let it roll off fade, but I hear ya

wait til I get my beemer and yes I want the motorcycle... woooooohoooooooooo

eileena9's photo
Thu 10/23/08 01:03 PM
I heard some very similar things when I got my PT Cruiser. It was a "new-to-me" car that I bought from my best friend and a few people were making fun of it and telling me I shouldn't have gotten it.

Let's see......I buy my clothes in Walmart and Marshall's (inexpensive or sale items only). I am known as the "clearance rack queen" in one store, lol and why shouldn't I drive a fun flashy car if I want.......It's paid for and that is all that matters!

no photo
Thu 10/23/08 01:04 PM

You go, girl! You've worked hard for it flowerforyou



I second that.I have struggled lots.Happy to be where I am now.drinks

Joaverage's photo
Thu 10/23/08 01:05 PM
Don't let anyone take away the joy and happiness
you feel. If there were someone more deserving
of it, the good Lord would have tapped them on the shoulder. You, my dear, deserve so much more. And it will all come to you. You find the best in
everyone and treat all kindly, we are all very happy for you. Continued happiness and love.drinker drinker drinker flowerforyou

Hajimemashite's photo
Thu 10/23/08 03:24 PM
Edited by Hajimemashite on Thu 10/23/08 03:35 PM

Oh I just found what Lilith was referring to ..



Its lucky for you Judy that you dont have to live on welfare and can afford to pay you bills and drive new beamers and wear prada.. makes you a SNOB to throw it around.. JMO



from someone I honestly thought was a friend.

Now let's set the record straight.

I actually had to be on welfare when I was raising my first child alone. You know, the one I didn't abort when I was pregnant at 16.

I also don't drive NEW beamers .. it is a 2003 that I got for 8,000 under the KBB retail price. Oh ya, and I had my share of POS cars .. heck I had one where the passenger seat would fall back and the rider was in the lap of the person behind them. I had horrible cars most of my adult years.

And who the hell ever said I wear Prada? oh .. I'm sorry. Just because the Devil wears Prada happens to be one of my fav movies and I DO appreciate fine fashion .. My myspace page has a DWP background. No one ever said I could afford it.

Wow. Just friggin wow. I have raised 5 children, most of the time with the help of friends and family. I have struggled plenty.

I'm not a snob. Just because God reached down and blessed me, just cause He tapped me on the shoulder and said "This one's for you" does NOT a snob make me.

For goodness sake get the facts straight.

F2B








What Some People precieve is the feelings of another

They don't see the hours the times we went with out

Just to get what we want the blood the sweat and the
Tears we put into our life's just to have that one

Thing that makes us Happy For just a moment in Life.


Did you walk in her shoes to be able to Judge her
No you did not Did you even know how Much she loved
Cars and she loves to drive fast and this makes her Happy
Did you know her dreams of what she wanted to be
Bet not instead you blasted her with your Negativity



Do you think this was right what




You should take the time to get to know some one
Before you say things like this You should really
Say you are sorry for not Knowing her at all







A lack of empathy on your part for some one sharing
There Happiness and Joy with us all do you even
Care you hurt her feelings Bet you did not even think
Of them when you posted that.











Judy is a wonderful Person you just so don't know




And by the way Her Dream was to be a Race Car driver !!

feralcatlady's photo
Thu 10/23/08 03:33 PM
I think I will see if I can get her to do first lap in pace car and indy 500........I have connections also...but doesn't make me a snob

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 04:22 PM

Don't let anyone take away the joy and happiness
you feel. If there were someone more deserving
of it, the good Lord would have tapped them on the shoulder. You, my dear, deserve so much more. And it will all come to you. You find the best in
everyone and treat all kindly, we are all very happy for you. Continued happiness and love.drinker drinker drinker flowerforyou



What a nice thing to say. I really appreciate that .. flowers

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 04:24 PM


Oh I just found what Lilith was referring to ..



Its lucky for you Judy that you dont have to live on welfare and can afford to pay you bills and drive new beamers and wear prada.. makes you a SNOB to throw it around.. JMO



from someone I honestly thought was a friend.

Now let's set the record straight.

I actually had to be on welfare when I was raising my first child alone. You know, the one I didn't abort when I was pregnant at 16.

I also don't drive NEW beamers .. it is a 2003 that I got for 8,000 under the KBB retail price. Oh ya, and I had my share of POS cars .. heck I had one where the passenger seat would fall back and the rider was in the lap of the person behind them. I had horrible cars most of my adult years.

And who the hell ever said I wear Prada? oh .. I'm sorry. Just because the Devil wears Prada happens to be one of my fav movies and I DO appreciate fine fashion .. My myspace page has a DWP background. No one ever said I could afford it.

Wow. Just friggin wow. I have raised 5 children, most of the time with the help of friends and family. I have struggled plenty.

I'm not a snob. Just because God reached down and blessed me, just cause He tapped me on the shoulder and said "This one's for you" does NOT a snob make me.

For goodness sake get the facts straight.

F2B








What Some People precieve is the feelings of another

They don't see the hours the times we went with out

Just to get what we want the blood the sweat and the
Tears we put into our life's just to have that one

Thing that makes us Happy For just a moment in Life.


Did you walk in her shoes to be able to Judge her
No you did not Did you even know how Much she loved
Cars and she loves to drive fast and this makes her Happy
Did you know her dreams of what she wanted to be
Bet not instead you blasted her with your Negativity



Do you think this was right what




You should take the time to get to know some one
Before you say things like this You should really
Say you are sorry for not Knowing her at all







A lack of empathy on your part for some one sharing
There Happiness and Joy with us all do you even
Care you hurt her feelings Bet you did not even think
Of them when you posted that.











Judy is a wonderful Person you just so don't know




And by the way Her Dream was to be a Race Car driver !!



awwwwwwwwwwww Haj .. this means the world to me. I really appreciate the way you put this.

And it's soooooo funny. The other day when I was driving my rx8 for one of the last times, I thought .. d*mn! I shoulda been at Nascar pitchfork :banana:

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 04:25 PM

I think I will see if I can get her to do first lap in pace car and indy 500........I have connections also...but doesn't make me a snob




oooooooooooooh sounds like fun eh? :banana:

Goofball73's photo
Thu 10/23/08 04:37 PM
If your happy and you know it clap your hands....

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 04:40 PM

If your happy and you know it clap your hands....



eh? whadya say? you have clap? scared scared scared scared