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Topic: Happy for others ...
seahawks's photo
Thu 10/23/08 04:40 PM

Oh I just found what Lilith was referring to ..



Its lucky for you Judy that you dont have to live on welfare and can afford to pay you bills and drive new beamers and wear prada.. makes you a SNOB to throw it around.. JMO



from someone I honestly thought was a friend.

Now let's set the record straight.

I actually had to be on welfare when I was raising my first child alone. You know, the one I didn't abort when I was pregnant at 16.

I also don't drive NEW beamers .. it is a 2003 that I got for 8,000 under the KBB retail price. Oh ya, and I had my share of POS cars .. heck I had one where the passenger seat would fall back and the rider was in the lap of the person behind them. I had horrible cars most of my adult years.

And who the hell ever said I wear Prada? oh .. I'm sorry. Just because the Devil wears Prada happens to be one of my fav movies and I DO appreciate fine fashion .. My myspace page has a DWP background. No one ever said I could afford it.

Wow. Just friggin wow. I have raised 5 children, most of the time with the help of friends and family. I have struggled plenty.

I'm not a snob. Just because God reached down and blessed me, just cause He tapped me on the shoulder and said "This one's for you" does NOT a snob make me.

For goodness sake get the facts straight.

F2B


flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

grammy09's photo
Thu 10/23/08 04:49 PM

Oh I just found what Lilith was referring to ..



Its lucky for you Judy that you dont have to live on welfare and can afford to pay you bills and drive new beamers and wear prada.. makes you a SNOB to throw it around.. JMO



from someone I honestly thought was a friend.

Now let's set the record straight.

I actually had to be on welfare when I was raising my first child alone. You know, the one I didn't abort when I was pregnant at 16.

I also don't drive NEW beamers .. it is a 2003 that I got for 8,000 under the KBB retail price. Oh ya, and I had my share of POS cars .. heck I had one where the passenger seat would fall back and the rider was in the lap of the person behind them. I had horrible cars most of my adult years.

And who the hell ever said I wear Prada? oh .. I'm sorry. Just because the Devil wears Prada happens to be one of my fav movies and I DO appreciate fine fashion .. My myspace page has a DWP background. No one ever said I could afford it.

Wow. Just friggin wow. I have raised 5 children, most of the time with the help of friends and family. I have struggled plenty.

I'm not a snob. Just because God reached down and blessed me, just cause He tapped me on the shoulder and said "This one's for you" does NOT a snob make me.

For goodness sake get the facts straight.

F2B




you are a warm hearted lady and i for one am very happy for you take care :smile:

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 04:56 PM
Thank you Grammy .. ya it's kinda a shock to see what someone you thought cared about you, and liked you thinks.

Even more so since I was there for this person when she needed support.

Oh well ... such is life eh?



I'm gonna enjoy my blessings ... :banana:

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 05:02 PM


Oh I just found what Lilith was referring to ..



Its lucky for you Judy that you dont have to live on welfare and can afford to pay you bills and drive new beamers and wear prada.. makes you a SNOB to throw it around.. JMO



from someone I honestly thought was a friend.

Now let's set the record straight.

I actually had to be on welfare when I was raising my first child alone. You know, the one I didn't abort when I was pregnant at 16.

I also don't drive NEW beamers .. it is a 2003 that I got for 8,000 under the KBB retail price. Oh ya, and I had my share of POS cars .. heck I had one where the passenger seat would fall back and the rider was in the lap of the person behind them. I had horrible cars most of my adult years.

And who the hell ever said I wear Prada? oh .. I'm sorry. Just because the Devil wears Prada happens to be one of my fav movies and I DO appreciate fine fashion .. My myspace page has a DWP background. No one ever said I could afford it.

Wow. Just friggin wow. I have raised 5 children, most of the time with the help of friends and family. I have struggled plenty.

I'm not a snob. Just because God reached down and blessed me, just cause He tapped me on the shoulder and said "This one's for you" does NOT a snob make me.

For goodness sake get the facts straight.

F2B


flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou



thanks Sea .. ooooooooooooops maybe loving flowers .. Ok, I LOVE roses .. makes me a snob too .. *sigh*

grammy09's photo
Thu 10/23/08 05:08 PM

Thank you Grammy .. ya it's kinda a shock to see what someone you thought cared about you, and liked you thinks.

Even more so since I was there for this person when she needed support.

Oh well ... such is life eh?



I'm gonna enjoy my blessings ... :banana:


thats right seetie you worked hard to get where your at so you enjoy your life and dont worrie about the crazy around you god bless you dear:heart:

missy51970's photo
Thu 10/23/08 05:16 PM
I think it just depends on the situation...

How the person with the "new stuff" presents themselves to other people..

If theyre in the habit of talking down to others,like Ive seen in these forums, then they deserve the negative BS they get..

I GUARANTEE YOU ... I dont do the jealous thing.. especially not with people I dont even know

missy51970's photo
Thu 10/23/08 05:24 PM
And btw Judy.. I thinks its great you bought a new to you car...

That was never the point

no photo
Thu 10/23/08 05:29 PM
COOL!!!

a new car!!

let's pick up a twelve pack of long necks and go cruising

no photo
Thu 10/23/08 06:09 PM

COOL!!!

a new car!!

let's pick up a twelve pack of long necks and go cruising


can I ride in the back???waving

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 08:45 PM


COOL!!!

a new car!!

let's pick up a twelve pack of long necks and go cruising


can I ride in the back???waving



absolutely .. I actually have room now for folks to ride in the back & my kids don't have to climb in thru suicide doors :tongue:

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 09:11 PM

And btw Judy.. I thinks its great you bought a new to you car...

That was never the point



then I guess it shouldn't have been part of a thread eh?

and the going to work/welfare comment that some took offense to .. was totally referring to the fact that it was suggested those who keep their children and don't abort them live off welfare .. I had 5 and didn't need to do that excepting for a very short period of time. Hence 'I have to go to work now' ..

But then that was directed at someone who was arguing for argument's sake. Not at someone who had just stepped into the thread & was not part of the discussion.

Bottom line .. EVERYONE'S 'attitude' may be misinterpreted online sometimes. Yep. Every single person's .. :wink:

no photo
Thu 10/23/08 09:18 PM
it gets sad a little when i see couples embrace each other. ohwell i get all "i want that, damn it." frustrated

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 09:19 PM

some people are just too self-absorbed to be aware of anyone else or to feel any happiness for anyone else...

I think sometimes they enjoy being a victim of their own doing...

When I get to share in others happiness it makes me feel honored that they would be willing to share their good things with me!!

tally ho!!

thoughts become things, Choose the good ones!!




DEBBIE flowers

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 09:22 PM

it gets sad a little when i see couples embrace each other. ohwell i get all "i want that, damn it." frustrated



I understand that .. but you know your day will come hon .. and then they'll be sayin it about you :tongue:

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/23/08 09:23 PM

COOL!!!

a new car!!

let's pick up a twelve pack of long necks and go cruising



hey I got that 12-pack .. where are you guys? Lisa? Robin?

Beer's gettin warm here ..............:tongue:

mscherbear's photo
Fri 10/24/08 12:36 PM

it gets sad a little when i see couples embrace each other. ohwell i get all "i want that, damn it." frustrated


I admit it...I do too

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