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Topic: Have you ever...
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Wed 10/22/08 02:42 PM


No, only with people in real life!

I have to see them in 3-D, I guess....



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I guess it's just hard for me to get "obsessed" without seeing that person in "real life" -- does that make sense?

"Obsessed" is rare enough for me anyway -- maybe a few times in my whole life -- and I've had so many bad experiences with people from dating sites that I think there's a sort of natural defense mechanism that kicks in when I start to think I might actually be interested in someone on line....

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Wed 10/22/08 02:44 PM
i dont think i would use the word obsessed...highly intrigued, yes, obsessed, no.

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Wed 10/22/08 02:45 PM
yea obsessed is such a vague word, curious maybe intrigued, but thats about it

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Wed 10/22/08 02:48 PM
Not obsessed but I sure felt bad that they were having such a tough time and thought about it a lot for someone I had not met.

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Wed 10/22/08 02:51 PM
rant rant damrant rant I forgot i'm not in stealth mode,I've been busted

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Wed 10/22/08 02:52 PM
yes you have! lol. perv.

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Wed 10/22/08 03:17 PM
This site is not real its all fantasy and we are all bots!!!slaphead

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Wed 10/22/08 04:25 PM
I am so jaded at this point . . I dont think I could get attached to anyone for any reason . . . . lol my boss was just reading over my shoulder . . we started discussing this topic and he said its called attachment disorder . .

I seriously believe this might be the case with me. I love my friends, I meet people I like every day . . . I just don't get attached anymore.






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Wed 10/22/08 04:58 PM
uhhhh......no

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Wed 10/22/08 05:00 PM
Yes, Unfortunatly she was killed in a car accident over a year agobrokenheart

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Wed 10/22/08 07:33 PM

i dont think i would use the word obsessed...highly intrigued, yes, obsessed, no.

Obsessed is the right word; definition of obsessed: influenced or controlled by a powerful force such as a strong emotion.

Isn't possible to feel a strong emotion for someone you've met online?

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Wed 10/22/08 07:33 PM

yea obsessed is such a vague word, curious maybe intrigued, but thats about it


Obsessed is the right word; definition of obsessed: influenced or controlled by a powerful force such as a strong emotion.

Isn't possible to feel a strong emotion for someone you've met online?

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Wed 10/22/08 07:33 PM

rant rant damrant rant I forgot i'm not in stealth mode,I've been busted


rofl rofl rofl

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Wed 10/22/08 07:34 PM

This site is not real its all fantasy and we are all bots!!!slaphead


sick sick sick sick

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Wed 10/22/08 07:34 PM

Yes, Unfortunatly she was killed in a car accident over a year agobrokenheart


Sorry flowerforyou

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Wed 10/22/08 07:36 PM

Isn't possible to feel a strong emotion for someone you've met online?


Not for me -- an emotion, sure, but tempered with skepticism and caution. Particularly given what I've experienced with people from dating sites.

I can't imagine myself actually trusting someone from a dating site again, at least not to the point of actually meeting in person. How many times do you stick your head into the crocodile's mouth before he bites it off?


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Wed 10/22/08 07:38 PM


Isn't possible to feel a strong emotion for someone you've met online?


Not for me -- an emotion, sure, but tempered with skepticism and caution. Particularly given what I've experienced with people from dating sites.

I can't imagine myself actually trusting someone from a dating site again, at least not to the point of actually meeting in person. How many times do you stick your head into the crocodile's mouth before he bites it off?




Right! but did you know that humans are the only species that will make the same mistake twice, three times, so on and so forth?

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Wed 10/22/08 07:44 PM

Right! but did you know that humans are the only species that will make the same mistake twice, three times, so on and so forth?


"95th time's a charm" just doesn't have much of a ring to it.....

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Wed 10/22/08 11:12 PM
"Right! but did you know that humans are the only species that will make the same mistake twice, three times, so on and so forth?"

i tend to agree with your assessment...old habits are extremely hard to break..it is very difficult to transcend ones own circumstance/situation/life position....it can be done though..for a certain few..i think.

roco

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Thu 10/23/08 12:58 AM
Can't say that I have

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