Topic: How is it that alot of people seem to know...
TheShadow's photo
Mon 10/20/08 11:47 AM

I don't believe in soulmates and I'm not looking for one.


Now thats an answer i can believe. Alot of people will come on this post and try to explain what one is. it's like alot of things i look at. If i haven't walked in ones shose. whats the point of acting like i know somthing when i really dont.

TheShadow's photo
Mon 10/20/08 11:50 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Mon 10/20/08 11:53 AM


What a soul mate is when not one person on this site has ever had that?

It's somthing i see on all sites and a hell of alot of people seem to think they know what one is, but yet they have not actually ever met there so call soul mate. And yet there will express what one is.

is it that you know because of what everyone else has said or do you have friends that you think are a couple that are what seems to be soul mates?

Ok, we all know that alot of people mean there partner to be and thats what i'm talking about. anthing elseis not the conection that being on the net what your looking for. "Not" saing everyone is looking for that, but the ones that are and seem to know, it's just kinda funny to me knowing there on a dating site looking.


not sure why you would generalize just because you've not met yours.

soul mate to me is not a divinity, it's another person who touches your soul, strengthens your soul, makes you aware of your soul

good thing I am here for friends and not soul mates huh?



If your looking at it that way it's because not one of you have found that. Not saying you wont. just saying how can you say what one is when you have never experience. the only thing you know is whats been past down to you. Doesn't mean you lived it and thats what i'm talking about. people act like they lived it at least 95& act like it, Yest if you have. Why would you be looking for another mate?

lilith401's photo
Mon 10/20/08 11:53 AM


I don't believe in soulmates and I'm not looking for one.


Now thats an answer i can believe. Alot of people will come on this post and try to explain what one is. it's like alot of things i look at. If i haven't walked in ones shose. whats the point of acting like i know somthing when i really dont.


I'd love to meet someone, really I would. I'd like to love someone the way I loved my ex during college.... gosh how I loved him.

But soulmate.... I'm not a subscriber. To each his own though.

no photo
Mon 10/20/08 11:54 AM
Edited by OneMoreTimeAround on Mon 10/20/08 11:58 AM
I'm not sure about THE one. I have two FRIENDS..not acquantance friends or good friends, but those real friends that you'd trust your life to. We don't have to be "in each other's faces" all the time, we can go for months (since states separate us) and not talk at all but when we do, it's like picking right up from the last time we talked. We know that at any moment if either of us need each other, we'd be right there. To me, it's just a different kind of connection that you don't have with everyone or just anyone else you meet. They know me better (my soul) then anyone else even my family.

franshade's photo
Mon 10/20/08 11:56 AM



What a soul mate is when not one person on this site has ever had that?

It's somthing i see on all sites and a hell of alot of people seem to think they know what one is, but yet they have not actually ever met there so call soul mate. And yet there will express what one is.

is it that you know because of what everyone else has said or do you have friends that you think are a couple that are what seems to be soul mates?

Ok, we all know that alot of people mean there partner to be and thats what i'm talking about. anthing elseis not the conection that being on the net what your looking for. "Not" saing everyone is looking for that, but the ones that are and seem to know, it's just kinda funny to me knowing there on a dating site looking.


not sure why you would generalize just because you've not met yours.

soul mate to me is not a divinity, it's another person who touches your soul, strengthens your soul, makes you aware of your soul

good thing I am here for friends and not soul mates huh?



If your looking at it that way it's because not one of you have found that. Not saying you wont. just saying how can you say what one is when you have never experience. the only thing you know is whats been past down to you. Doesn't mean you lived it and thats what i'm talking about. people act like they lived it at least 95& act like it, Yest if you have. Why would you be looking for another mate?


Maybe they are no longer with us Shadow. I look at it that way because that's how it applies to me. Must it apply to you in the same way, hmmm no.


LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 11:57 AM

I'm not sure about THE one. I have two FRIENDS..not acquantance friends or good friends, but those real friends that you'd trust your life to. We don't have to be "in each other's faces" all the time, we can go for months (since states separate us) and not talk at all but when we do, it's like picking right up from the last time we talked. We know that at any moment if either of us need each other, we'd be right there. To me, it's just a different kind of connection that you don't have with everyone else you meet. They know me better (my soul) then anyone else even my family.

Now see THAT is what I mean..THAT is a soul mate!

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:00 PM



What a soul mate is when not one person on this site has ever had that?

It's somthing i see on all sites and a hell of alot of people seem to think they know what one is, but yet they have not actually ever met there so call soul mate. And yet there will express what one is.

is it that you know because of what everyone else has said or do you have friends that you think are a couple that are what seems to be soul mates?

Ok, we all know that alot of people mean there partner to be and thats what i'm talking about. anthing elseis not the conection that being on the net what your looking for. "Not" saing everyone is looking for that, but the ones that are and seem to know, it's just kinda funny to me knowing there on a dating site looking.


not sure why you would generalize just because you've not met yours.

soul mate to me is not a divinity, it's another person who touches your soul, strengthens your soul, makes you aware of your soul

good thing I am here for friends and not soul mates huh?



If your looking at it that way it's because not one of you have found that. Not saying you wont. just saying how can you say what one is when you have never experience. the only thing you know is whats been past down to you. Doesn't mean you lived it and thats what i'm talking about. people act like they lived it at least 95& act like it, Yest if you have. Why would you be looking for another mate?

The body is just a shell..a vessell..the SOUL lives on forever

franshade's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:01 PM

The body is just a shell..a vessell..the SOUL lives on forever


Don't agree with this as I believe when our time is up the journey ends.


plk1966's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:02 PM


I can because I have already meet my soulmate unfortunately the universe and god needed him more than I did. Life goes on. I do know that I will never meet another but that is ok too.


I ws wondering if somone was going to share something like this. But 95% of the people that seem to know what a soul mate is has not had that loss as you did and i'm sorry for your loss.


I lost him 22 yrs ago, I am ok. I still talk to him everyday and feel his presence in our children.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:04 PM


The body is just a shell..a vessell..the SOUL lives on forever


Don't agree with this as I believe when our time is up the journey ends.


I believe in alot of things that others don't and its all good..I'm not here to change people or what they believe

Marley's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:05 PM

I don't believe in soulmates and I'm not looking for one.

Do you believe in the Easter Bunny?

plk1966's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:05 PM
I don't think it is possible to look for a soulmate.

With a soul mate both your souls are connected in a way that no others are and they will find each other may not be today or tomorrow but one day they will be together.

franshade's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:06 PM



The body is just a shell..a vessell..the SOUL lives on forever


Don't agree with this as I believe when our time is up the journey ends.


I believe in alot of things that others don't and its all good..I'm not here to change people or what they believe


:heart: ladyofmagic :heart:

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:08 PM




The body is just a shell..a vessell..the SOUL lives on forever


Don't agree with this as I believe when our time is up the journey ends.


I believe in alot of things that others don't and its all good..I'm not here to change people or what they believe


:heart: ladyofmagic :heart:

I'd probably freak out like 90% of you if you knew what I believe in..That's why I don't discuss it here..I have my own chatroom for other people like me who do believe..lol

franshade's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:12 PM
doubt it would freak me out - to each their own is how I like to live my life

Do you :banana:

Dan99's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:12 PM

What a soul mate is when not one person on this site has ever had that?

It's somthing i see on all sites and a hell of alot of people seem to think they know what one is, but yet they have not actually ever met there so call soul mate. And yet there will express what one is.

is it that you know because of what everyone else has said or do you have friends that you think are a couple that are what seems to be soul mates?

Ok, we all know that alot of people mean there partner to be and thats what i'm talking about. anthing else is not the conection that being on the net what your looking for. "Not" saying everyone is looking for that, but the ones that are and seem to know or have had one. It's just kinda funny to me knowing there on a dating site looking.


I dont believe in 'soul' mates in any spiritual sense. But then there are people in this world who you really get on well with, or can really fall in love with. A soulmate is just a really good friend or lover.

A lot of people have met on these sites though, there are real couples amongst us, and not just people that happen to like eachother from online.


LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:14 PM

doubt it would freak me out - to each their own is how I like to live my life

Do you :banana:

So "gifted" people don't freak you out?..you'd be one of the very few that it didn't..lol

no photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:15 PM

What a soul mate is when not one person on this site has ever had that?




The same way people know what a unicorn is

The same way people know what santa claus looks like

The same way harry potter exists.

lilith401's photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:15 PM


I don't believe in soulmates and I'm not looking for one.

Do you believe in the Easter Bunny?


No, but my sister is friends with the Tooth Fairy.

(She's a dentist :tongue: )

no photo
Mon 10/20/08 12:16 PM
hi lili!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!waving waving waving waving waving waving waving waving waving