Hi everyone,

I have just had my heart broken in a thousand pieces and I dont know how to pick up and move on. This person was no good for me. I just need some help with advice with moving on. I am tired of crying and I am tired of being blue. I need to see light at the end of the tunnel. Please help. I consider you all my friends.

Keep fishing, it's all we can do!

one step at a time each day is full of new possibilities

Welcome to mingle and best wishes on finding your someone. Did you try taking 2 shopping sprees?

Welcome aboard!

Pray for God to guide you in the direction you need to go & He will show you the way~

You said yourself that he was no good for you....so think about that...turn your stereo up....and dance

If this break-up only happened, give yourself some time to grieve....Then dress yourself up, post a few more really nice pics and get the best revenge!!

Keep your chin up!!

You made a really key phrase in your post -- "This person was no good for me." OK, let's start with that.

You already know the person was no good for you!

Well, then -- what would have happened if the relationship had gone on longer, and you had gotten MORE attached? You probably would have been hurt even more, right?

So, let's look at the other side of it -- you got out NOW, meaning you've avoided weeks or months or even years of a worse potential hurt down the road.

Also, by getting out now, you can start on moving forward with your life now, too!

I know it hurts, and it's hard to let go sometimes. But be grateful you can do something for yourself now, today, and you have this opportunity for a fresh start -- without the one who was no good for you!

Good luck!

music helps

Unfortunately is not much what you can do.King TIME is the only one who can help you.

noooooooooooooo, music make's you cry

Excellent advice Lex, I think i will take it for myself. Thank you!

Try a journal. Write in there the things that you are "grateful for in your life" build yourself up and don't let anyone or anything control your happiness......I mean; it is that person's loss, right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We all deserve to be appreciated and happy. Life is too short to let someone else rule our own happiness. Stay positive! Pray if you believe in God; for comfort and support.

i put my hope in jesus, he gets me thru all the hard times. and makes all th e good ones that much better.pray and ask him for hope, and i will say a prayer for you to.

happy music

this is a radio station I'm listening to right now.http://www.kbxx.com/home.asp you can listen to it from your computer

Right ! Try : WOMANIZER !

You have to decide when you are ready to get over it. That's what I had to do. I had to decide when it was enough and to much. When I decided OK... I've cried til my eyes were dry. My life was consumed. I've done everything I could possibly do. Now it's time to take my life back and know that I don't need him to be happy anymore. When I began to realize that he wasn't suffering. He wasn't taking off work. He wasn't crying himself to sleep. He wasn't moping around the house and ignoring phone calls from friends. He was living his life... and so will I. I will be me again. I will be happy with me. I will LOVE me, without him.

You're very welcome, and I'm glad you found it useful!