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Notwithstanding all the benefits of doing what you have done here MBD, I am just wondering from the people here if what you have done here has made them MORE attracted to you, or LESS attracted to you!! How IS human nature, really? Curious minds want to know... Honestly I would rather have ones like MBD around me then the ones that try to hide things and be something they are not. Being honest and up front does have it's advantages. At least in my book it does it shows one is confident within themselves. 
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Notwithstanding all the benefits of doing what you have done here MBD, I am just wondering from the people here if what you have done here has made them MORE attracted to you, or LESS attracted to you!! How IS human nature, really? Curious minds want to know... People that know me on this site know that most of my posts are pretty much fun and humorous and being able to laugh and poke fun at myself and share it on here attracts plenty of people just as it does in real life. This is such contrast to my usual posts and I would hope that no one would write something this heartfelt with any other agenda in mind. |
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Many people come on here and claim they are single because the relationship they had been in ended because of a Cheating,or it was Abusive, or lots of Drinking/Drugs etc. I see very few that come on here and say "I am the one that screwed up that's why I'm single". Well ..... I am the one that screwed up. I cheated on my wife. I won't go into details but it was my fault not hers, she didn't drive me to do it, I just f*cked up. I can't blame one part of me cheating on her because she did nothing wrong it was all me. I see so many posts that say "If they cheat once they'll do it again" Well it depends on how much destruction and pain you caused and realized how stupid you were. If you think you were totally justified for cheating or blame the other person in your relationship then yep your probably going to cheat again. If your actions have caused so much pain and pure hurt and disappointment in so many lives then you say to yourself "deal me that same hand again and I'll play it different". Not one single person in my life or on this website could ever kick my ass any worse than I have already and do everyday. I admit this this morning because sometimes I log on here and I feel like I am surrounded by all victims and I want to make sure I keep me honest and just as I do in real life I will be the first to tell you I am not with my family because of me! My actions! She was innocent I am guilty. After reading so many posts I have seldom seen someone say "it's my fault" Well just know people, what you just read is what I DID. I have seen how much hurt some of you have gone through and when I read those posts I want to just crawl under a rock because I feel the guilt all over again and I don't ever see that going away. Sorry for showing my serious side this morning but I want to make it clear who myrtlebeachdude (MBD) is and by no means mislead the victims of something so destructful. That, my friend, took some serious balls. It takes a very large amount of courage to put yourself out there like that. * salutes * |
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Notwithstanding all the benefits of doing what you have done here MBD, I am just wondering from the people here if what you have done here has made them MORE attracted to you, or LESS attracted to you!! How IS human nature, really? Curious minds want to know... I didn't read the OP's post as something to make me MORE or LESS attracted, I read it as something heart felt and something that perhaps might help someone else. |
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now, how do you expect me to get a date if I admit to that...?!?!?!?
 
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A man can take responsibility for his own actions!!! Thanks for leading the way...you have my respect...not that it counts for much(smile)
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now, how do you expect me to get a date if I admit to that...?!?!?!? 
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Edited by
broncosrock
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Wed 10/15/08 08:46 AM
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That's sad, MBD. My ex cheated on me, too, and always said that it wasn't my fault, and that I was a good wife and mother. We were so young. We remained friends, and I'd forgiven him years ago, but he couldn't ever forgive himself. He was successful in business, but so unhappy in life, and died 2 yrs. ago at age 54 all alone. I miss talking to him. Anyway, hope you've forgiven yourself.
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