What about the old saying "If you don't use it you lose it"?




i think that " saying " is a cop out


the same crap that some guys used to give us


trying to guilt trip us


into sleeping with them

with their < blue ball > story....


if people can't be much More

than their sexuality ..

what really is there ?



not much of a legacy

and nothing worth really treasuring

to pass onto our Children





cockroaches do it all day & night

and have no morals or discretion...

and look at the sizes of their tiny brains




i want <<< Much >>>> more


than merely a sexual relationship.....





a relationship of convenience ..

that's Bull sh!t !!!!!!

that gets extremely old

peace & love Don...no hard feelings


but things are going to play themselves out




with all due respect


what i was reacting to, was your statement



" You all carry on & ride this horse to death "


i didn't see you mention this as your opinion





no one is perfect...neither am I


but i am not the one trying to put an end to


& limit an ongoing conversation such as this





i don't see anyone ever putting a halt to the topics


when the Atheists gang up on & bad mouth the Christians

Wow, you people get so serious here. Once you are over 50 it is all downhill anyways. We could be dead tomorrow.


Enjoy life and have a little fun.

I would have a tough time getting involved with someone who takes life so seriously. But, I could get seriously involved with someone who didn't. Is that an oxymoron or what?

Have fun everybody life is too short to sweat the small stuff.

I'm not an atheist and it was a "christian" who turned this thread from being each one's opinion to calling them "wh***". btw, I'm Christian!

Wow, you people get so serious here. Once you are over 50 it is all downhill anyways. We could be dead tomorrow.


Enjoy life and have a little fun.

I would have a tough time getting involved with someone who takes life so seriously. But, I could get seriously involved with someone who didn't. Is that an oxymoron or what?

Have fun everybody life is too short to sweat the small stuff.

I tried the FWB, and it didn't work out the way it was supposed to. We both agreed on it because it was what wanted at the time. But, as hard as we tried, and as much as we denied to everyone that we weren't dating, we were always together and if we weren't together we were emailing or talking on the phone on an everyday basis. We went out on "dates" and we even went on vacation together. It got to the point that we both started hinting around that we were developing feelings for each other. So we finally talked about what was actually happening between us, and decided that even though feelings were starting to develop, it was better for the both of us to just end things as they were.

All that being said, I won't deny that I had conflicting moral issues with doing it. And yes I was raised with strict moral beliefs that you just don't do something like that. But at that time, it was the right thing for me to do. And I don't regret doing it. But I think an FWB is not for everyone, because there is a fine line that you have to make so as not to get emotionally involved. And I believe that is one of the key factors in doing it. I, myself, can't make that fine line. I found that out through personal experience. It's either all or none now.

And my heart truly goes out to the older generation that has to sacrifice getting married because if for some reason it doesn't work out, you get penalized for it. But if having an FWB is your choice, then so be it! It's your life, no one else can live it for you, so enjoy it and get the most you can out of it!!

why cannot everything and everyone be entitled to live their own lives as they see fit and simply stop trying to push another's views down another's throat.

Live and let live! You don't have to like it, you don't have to live it and unless it has a DIRECT impact on your life and yours alone, and you won't have to pay for any consequences of another's choices...just get OVER IT?

I respect the views and the beliefs of all who posted, but no post, from any who posted, would make me change how I believe I should live my OWN life.