if this is serious then explain it.

what is the percentage rate of conversations that can be had without saying something negative with a blanket statement about a group of people

it's a hormone produced when you are "falling" for someone.....(as well as during pregnancy)...it will "make" a woman develop "feelings" for someone....you are not in control of it's production...you become "attached" emotionally .....

I can honestly say, NO WAY!!! If I were in a relationship of any kind, my feelings would enter into it, also. There would be an attachment that would feel natural to me...

I don't think its a negative thing that men are different from women in this respect - or any respect for that matter. It is what it is and mature adults are able to respect and appreciate the differences. In a healthy relationship each party will understand the differences and try to work with them. Most men understand that to make a woman happy she needs a certain level of commitment, security and affection. And most women understand that their man needs sex on a very regular basis. If both parties are getting what they need they find it easy and natural to give back what the other person needs.

That explains it, it's not my fault, the hormones made me do it. So there is there a similar hormone in men?

no! there is not!

Yes, that's what I meant about men and women being wired differently. Of course, each person is an individual and responds differently, but there definitely is a biological difference.

I have been sexually involved with this guy for YEARS and we are good friends anyways sometimes we might not have the same views on things but i tell you good d*** can really make things look better... it becomes almost like you have history but the "in love" feelings dont make it just a type of bond and friendship is what we really have..we dont want to be in a relationship and what we do works so i say if its not broke i aint fixing it!!

I can't. :(

nope

yes and thats how it should be,but that dam love word screws things up

Emotion leads to intimacy for me.

I survived the 80s,...need I say more?

NO.... after a while the ole emotions kick-in. (if all else is in place)

yea i can hit it and quit without being attached,






for a long period of time,


i never let myself get that far,





still got that guard up on HIGH,

no comment.

Well I think there is nothing wrong with sex without emotion if you're that type of person whether male or female who can do it.

But I don't think I could ever do a long time period at that point I would either expect myself to the point of "Should" have feelings or "why bother"???

tell me about it !
i got rid of my blow-up date ...she never show any emotion's and she wouldnt spoon me afterward's either !

Men and woman are not wired differently, we are just raised differently, we are taught different values and hold different things important.



I think there is some definite truth to this. We are raised to act very differently when it comes to sexuality. "Boys will be boys" but "girls are sluts" etc.

But, I also think we are wired differently. Men generally have a sexual thought every minute whereas women generally have a sexual thought maybe once a day.





Well, I think about sex more than ONCE a day! I think its GREAT!
& I have a "friend with benefits"! It's what we both want for now, anyway.....He is FANTASTIC