Knowing a little bit about you. Why would you put this kinda time and effort in somone like this. I don't see it unless you got caught up in a part of it and didn't catch it till now.

Only if you don't mind being used.

Let's face it, if you fully realize what is happening then, it is not about the needy (yet selfish) friend, it is about: are you willing to let yourself be used as a convenience?

Some people don't mind being used or taken for granted. Some people do.

Ya gotta decide this one for yourself.

Such may be life but we have to choose to want better for ourselves.
We have to be good to ourselves because we already know we can't count on others to hold us with precious regard.

Mike, you are absolutely right.
...I do not tollorate sh!t.

The first time those words came out of his mouth, I was GONE!
He didn't know what the hell hit him.
He thought I was unreasonable.

I promise you, I was GONE the second he said it.

SOOOOOOO NOT the type to allow others to take me for granted

Good!

Thank you

Can't help but admire someone who has self-respect girly. Right on.

What the heck does her having Cerebal Palsy or useing a wheelchair have to do with her useing you? Did you think you were some kind of hero for dateing a person you percieved as disabled? Maybe THAT is why she didn't bother to go any further with you. ^5 to her!!!

Not sure where this tangent is heading but, from my experience...handicapped ladies are great in the sack! (Enthusiastic, apprecieative....) Not trying to be a jerk here...just an honest statement from my personal experience.

Why would you even care what a looser thinks of you standing up for yourself? You don't have the responsibility to teach him morality. It sounds like it would be fruitless anyway. Don't feel bad about him taking advantage of your kindness and effort to be a genuine friend up until the point. The people who do this are masters at manipulation. The best you can do is tell your friends and family so that his reputation proceeds him. And maybe be a little less accomodateing until it is clear that it is reciprocal. Someone in need who wants your freindship is not really looking for freindship in the true sense of the word.

User not time for that

Well hopefully that is not her only contribution to a good relationship but great sex is always a possibility when a person has had and extensive training in biological functions by virtue of their disability.

Damn Right Star!!!!! God Bless Dr. Keigal!!!!!

leave them, theyre not friends.

Done