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As long as your daughter is not a diabetic. My mother was a diabetic and
always had trouble with her ears, they would get infected easily and the holes would close up. Remember you will be responsible for cleaning the ears and turning the earrings, make sure you have the time in your busy schedule. |
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hey i think u as a parent are comfortable with piercin her ears,ok...my
daughter had hers done at an early age too,so did i....no biggie |
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I personally waited until my girls asked me. The reasoning behind that
was simply because I can not wear alot of jewelry myself. I get a rash from it. And if I even attempt to wear ear rings my ears bleed and get all goopy. My oldest daughter got hers done and had the same problem. My youngest daughter got hers done and she has had no problems. My ears have closed up since the last time I even attempted to wear earring was probably about 10 years ago. Ya can't even see where it was peirced unless ya look close. I say its up to the parents and the kids. |
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I DONT HAVE A DAUGHTER BUT IF I DID,ID DO IT AS SOON AS I COULD!!!
PERSONAL PREFERENCE IS ALL.SOME FOLKS JUST DONT LIKE IT! MY MOM PEIRCED MINE WHEN I WAS ABT 3 WEEKS OLD AND I HAVENT STOPPED YET AND ITS BEEN 49 YRS.. 11 IN ONE EAR AND 7 IN THE OTHER.TIME I STOP A? |
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I made both of my daughters wait until they were 13. It made it a sort
of right of passage to becoming a young adult. |
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I don't understand the need to pierce a babies ears? To me that should
wait til the child is old enough to understand the purpose of ear rings and enjoy them and decide wether he/she wants pierced ears...until that time they could only be for your enjoyment and not the childs. Just my humble opinion. |
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My daughter can get her ears pierced when she is old enough to decide
that is what she wants to do Personally i wouldn't get them done so early but it is entirely up to the parent I suppose As long as it isn't going to hurt the child physically or mentally it ultimately is your decision |
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But then again
If my daughters momma wanted to get her ears pierced I would in fact try to talk her out of it |
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Both my daughters left the hospital with their ears pierced. done by the
pediatrician himself. Culture is something that its inherited to your children, same as religion and your favorite sports team. True, all of it is a matter of choice, like most things in life. But you don't wait until your child is an adult to baptize it (if you are catholic), waiting for him/her to decide. You teach your children about religion as soon as you can. Same with your culture. What is socially accepted in one culture, might seem barbaric in another. It is a custom in my culture, to pierce a baby girl ears when they are very young. And following the proper procedures and using the right equipment it is safe. As for the earrings being unsafe, there are special earrings for newborn babies, that would be difficult if not impossible for a kid to take it off. It would be stupid to put gold loops on babies ears. In Lori's case: back when you and I were little, maybe they didn't have the little gun they use now, and probaly the person that pierced your ears used the common method of sterilizing a needle, I don't know. That's probably what caused the infection. I am allergic to non-gold or silver earrings, can't use any fantasy in my ears because it gets infected. My sister used to wear really heavy earrings and it stretched the hole to the point were it cut through. But she had a very simple surgery done and all is new again. Maybe you can ask your regular Dr about it. Autumn, just make sure you get earrings that are made with surgical material, or gold or silver. It would be safe. Get some antibacterial ointment and put it on and turn the earrings so they are not stuck she should be fine in a few days. She would look precious. My 0.02. |
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I do not have a daughter and never will, but if I did I could NEVER do
it until she was old enough to decide for herself, she may end up resenting you for it, plus I could not handle seeing my little one screaming in pain from it. Just my own opinion. |
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I had my daughter's done a few days before her first birthday.
Ironically, she started walking the very next day. Jokingly told my father, "You can't tell me that fine jewelry doesn't have an effect on a woman." LOL |
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i have 2 daughters..
when my 7 year old was 3 months old we took her in and had themdone.. now 7 years later no problems.. when my 3 year old was 3 months old we took her in to get them done... they pierced them crooked cuz she flinched... adn then a week later they got irritated, and infected adn we ended up having to take them out.... whe is now 3, and wants them done again.. im scared to do it again, but have agreed to get them done in july... morrale of the story... depends on the baby... and on your choice... |
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well when i took my daugther they would not do it because they said as
she grows the holes we be on the sids of her ears? but i do not belive that were i have heard about lots of people have there kids ears pierced. |
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Twilight took the words right out of my mouth!
Yup she pretty much said it all! I waited for my daughter to be ready and she was almost 7 when she asked me.It's her body and well I am here to support and guide her. I made sure her decision was well thought trough and she never regretted it ever since that day. In fact she was so ready to have them she never even budged and just gave a grin when it was over after getting her ears pierced. She was too happy to even think of the pain lol |
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The way I see it is it is your kids. But with me my kids have bad
reactions to certain things. And when I was a new mom I had enough to worry about, I didn't want to worry about my daughters breaking out or something else but I was a paranoid mom any way!! I did get my oldest done at age 7 and she reacted and they were expensive earrings. But everybody is to there own. Not everybody parents the same I just state my opinon and move on!! |
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Personally I think when they are old enough to take care of them
theirselves. I cry when I see baby's getting their ears pierced, a needless pain, that they don't have to endure, until they are old enough to know, it hurts. Jmho |
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dang, alada...i'm not THAT old!
i've had mine done with the gun four times...all four times i had horrendous infections, then took them out and tried again in a year or so. i've also done them myself, with nothing other than a blunt earring...and have had perfect success, no infections. i've pierced about fifty people's ears this way, including my own children...without a problem one. come to think of it, i also did my nose that way, twice, and my lip, and my hand, and my belly button...yada yada. i LOVE piercings, i just think the person should be old enough to choose the holes for their own self. |
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My mom had mine done by the time i was 6 month old
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I made my daugter wait til she was 8. I wanted to make sure it was
something she really wanted. I never had mine done. My family is really old fashioned. Your right though if she don't like them she can let them grow back. I'm sure she'll look cute. |
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