Topic: Self destructive
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Mon 10/06/08 07:45 PM

what BTW
Are we ever going to have the pleasure of knowing your name?
Both Rare and Breathless
hehe perhaps i shall since you're so moved by me. blushing

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Mon 10/06/08 07:47 PM
I think it hurts because of loss of hope, time, and effort it took to have the relationship. Anyone who ever says it should be easy is not in reality.

Lust turns into love. Love turns into it's own life and evolves into much more than butterflies, roses, and actually really liking each other. lol

It hurts to lose someone because sometimes pain is the only way to better things. Each experience leads to a new one. There is no easy way around the hurt and it's best to walk straight through it. I have always believed I would walk through hell to get to heaven and I have. lol

Disappointment is probably the underlying source of hurt when it comes to a break up. To be in love and feel so good and then it's all gone in a second.

Life works this way. Walk through the pain slowly and heal. Reach out to others! Everyone hurts and isn't immune ever.

Plan B....boycott love and just stay in lust.:)


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Mon 10/06/08 07:51 PM

I think it hurts because of loss of hope, time, and effort it took to have the relationship. Anyone who ever says it should be easy is not in reality.

Lust turns into love. Love turns into it's own life and evolves into much more than butterflies, roses, and actually really liking each other. lol

It hurts to lose someone because sometimes pain is the only way to better things. Each experience leads to a new one. There is no easy way around the hurt and it's best to walk straight through it. I have always believed I would walk through hell to get to heaven and I have. lol

Disappointment is probably the underlying source of hurt when it comes to a break up. To be in love and feel so good and then it's all gone in a second.

Life works this way. Walk through the pain slowly and heal. Reach out to others! Everyone hurts and isn't immune ever.

Well said.drinker drinker

Plan B....boycott love and just stay in lust.:)



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Mon 10/06/08 08:16 PM
agreed

Puffins1958's photo
Mon 10/06/08 08:21 PM
I can't imagine anyone WANTING to be alone....

I know that I don't want to be

Goofball73's photo
Mon 10/06/08 08:43 PM

Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


Ummmm...you dumped me, so I was the one crying like a little b*tch night after night. I never got over you or our nights of wild passion at Motel 6. I even left the light on for ya.sad sad sad

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Mon 10/06/08 09:19 PM


Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


Ummmm...you dumped me, so I was the one crying like a little b*tch night after night. I never got over you or our nights of wild passion at Motel 6. I even left the light on for ya.sad sad sad


To YOU, I can say...BUTCH UP, DUDE! Grow a pair!

And that light you *left on* is attracting BUGS...cut it OFF, would you? :laughing:

Goofball73's photo
Mon 10/06/08 09:21 PM



Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


Ummmm...you dumped me, so I was the one crying like a little b*tch night after night. I never got over you or our nights of wild passion at Motel 6. I even left the light on for ya.sad sad sad


To YOU, I can say...BUTCH UP, DUDE! Grow a pair!

And that light you *left on* is attracting BUGS...cut it OFF, would you? :laughing:


"Butch Up"? Dude, I'm not a lesbian. Oh wait...I am.laugh laugh laugh


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Mon 10/06/08 09:22 PM




Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


Ummmm...you dumped me, so I was the one crying like a little b*tch night after night. I never got over you or our nights of wild passion at Motel 6. I even left the light on for ya.sad sad sad


To YOU, I can say...BUTCH UP, DUDE! Grow a pair!

And that light you *left on* is attracting BUGS...cut it OFF, would you? :laughing:


"Butch Up"? Dude, I'm not a lesbian. Oh wait...I am.laugh laugh laugh


rofl

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Mon 10/06/08 09:38 PM

"Butch Up"? Dude, I'm not a lesbian. Oh wait...I am.laugh laugh laugh


You are? Oh sh*t...wait a second, I think I am too. noway

If I wasn't before, I'm pretty sure I will be after this forum hits the bone yard (or is that boner yard?) :laughing:

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Mon 10/06/08 09:51 PM


"Butch Up"? Dude, I'm not a lesbian. Oh wait...I am.laugh laugh laugh


You are? Oh sh*t...wait a second, I think I am too. noway

If I wasn't before, I'm pretty sure I will be after this forum hits the bone yard (or is that boner yard?) :laughing:
probably the latter yard. :tongue:

breathless1's photo
Mon 10/06/08 09:53 PM



"Butch Up"? Dude, I'm not a lesbian. Oh wait...I am.laugh laugh laugh


You are? Oh sh*t...wait a second, I think I am too. noway

If I wasn't before, I'm pretty sure I will be after this forum hits the bone yard (or is that boner yard?) :laughing:
probably the latter yard. :tongue:


Yup, likely. Be sure to bring the beer NUTS Entity, I think we'll need them. bigsmile

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Mon 10/06/08 09:56 PM




"Butch Up"? Dude, I'm not a lesbian. Oh wait...I am.laugh laugh laugh


You are? Oh sh*t...wait a second, I think I am too. noway

If I wasn't before, I'm pretty sure I will be after this forum hits the bone yard (or is that boner yard?) :laughing:
probably the latter yard. :tongue:


Yup, likely. Be sure to bring the beer NUTS Entity, I think we'll need them. bigsmile
will do, i have a pair attached as well so no confusion ever arises. laugh

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Mon 10/06/08 10:28 PM
IMHO it is a good sign that you hurt a little after a breakup. Shows you had really invested in the relationship which in itself is not a bad thing. What would be bad was if you didn't feel anything. I think your heart is big enough to recover from this just give it time.
People who tell you to just get over anything are not your friend so ignore them. All losses have stages you go through and it isn't always easy. Crying is a great stress reliever. Journaling is another. Prayer or even yoga aren't bad eaither.
Something that might be a good thing for you while you have some personal time is to develope some of your girlfriend and guyfriend relationships versus heading out after another boyfriend right away. With a strong base of friends you are more likely to meet a great boyfriend and take your time about deciding if he is right for you and avoid future heartaches.
You are at the perfect age to join any number of volunteer groups or return to college or take a continueing education class just for recreation. You meet fun people and use the empty time to good advantage.
Best of Luck and sneding you (((HUGS)))

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Mon 10/06/08 11:48 PM
you :heart: + him:heart: = didnt work out


This is LOSS,,,,,,,,,

LOSS=SADNESSSSSSSSS











YA ITS ALL MATH ISNT IT???huh

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Mon 10/06/08 11:49 PM

you :heart: + him:heart: = didnt work out


This is LOSS,,,,,,,,,

LOSS=SADNESSSSSSSSS











YA ITS ALL MATH ISNT IT???huh
ja :tongue:

Goofball73's photo
Tue 10/07/08 06:05 AM

you :heart: + him:heart: = didnt work out


This is LOSS,,,,,,,,,

LOSS=SADNESSSSSSSSS











YA ITS ALL MATH ISNT IT???huh


I sucked at math.

SportsNut2007's photo
Thu 10/09/08 02:53 PM

Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


You will feel horrible at first...but you'll live to love another day.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 10/09/08 04:42 PM


It hurt like hell. but time cured that.


Lots of time!



flowers Amen to thatflowers

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Thu 10/09/08 05:54 PM

Did you ever cry your heart out after a break-up even when you knew it wasn't what you wanted or needed in your life? How is it possible that that could hurt so much?Makes me wonder what the pain is all about. Is it just the thought of being alone? AGAIN!!!


love is the drug..its like going through withdrawl...