is my profile too harsh and mean sounding now?

it's a little depressing and off putting, I'll give you that.

p.s. it's "insurance".

HMM you are not a ray of sunshine thats for sure! You are way to young to feel so negative. Life throws you curves and gives you bad relationships all the time, thats how you learn!! You don't just give up though!!
Honestly, you really need to change that profile OR you are never going to have anyone want to even talk to you. What if someone "falls" for you and they would be scared to even tell you. Why? Mostly because you are so negative!! Change it and accept that the past, is just that...THE PAST!!
You have some really nice pictures on there but change the dark profile my dear!!

My opinion,DRAMA KING.

Put out negativity, you get that back.

"You reap what you sow."

i agree with the negativity. liven it up some. sound fun and awesome to be around. and never refer to yourself as "damaged" goods and that your wanting a girl to fix you.

the only WOMAN who will want to fix a guy is a woman who is motherly in nature(no moms im not meaning moms) which would be a problem.

I don't think you sunny disposition would draw many ladies into messaging you :). I'm sure you are hurt and tired of all the games like many of us at this point but it will get better trust me.

If your profile is showing how you feel now then great but as you begin to have different feelings please update it.

Good luck and I hope things get better

Ummmmmm. I have nothing nice to say other than if you truly feel that way, deactivate and come back later.

It's way too negative.

You're a... furry...? (This is like a joke, right?)

As far as your profile information--it's odd to see so many people diss you for saying that you have "given up on love". I guess you're not being euphemistic enough. I mean, I don't believe that anyone who says he's "given up on love" has actually given up--it's like an attention-grabbing device--BUT on the other hand the reason so many people say it (in one way or another) is because it DOES get them attention.

I guess don't be so explicit, and you'll get the kind of attention you are looking for...?

And, er... good luck with the "furry" thing. They are indeed a cuddly bunch but I read a lot of profiles on this site and you're the first one I've seen who just comes out and admits it. (Another reason I think honesty is highly overrated...) yours in Chaos, Scarlett

well i tried one way of being and all it got me was shot down so i have actually given up on finding love but i figure that ill stay on here for friends.

yea im a furry and im honest to a fault.

if someone doesnt lie who i am then they dont need to talk to me.

Are you sure your ready to date? I know your hurting and stuff from your profile, but you gotta ask yourself, do you really want to bring that to the table?

The other thing is this. If you do find someone who wants to fix you, thats what the relastionship will be about. Eventually she will, and you will A) leave her, or B) she will leave you, because the whole focus of the relastionship is fixing you, after that, what is there left?

Trust me, i've tried the fixing route with chicks before, it never ends well, and to be honest it usually ends poorly for the person who helps them out.

Hey hun I think your profile is negative sided but, Id have to agree with what you had to say...* shrugs*

it's honest.

I like honest.

But I am a dude.

Girls like fantasy.

P.S. it is "scared".

I love negative people.

Are you positive

yeah, or maybe negative people love me and I sometimes love to make them feel positive.

You * <---




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