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Topic: what would you like.....ladies?
mcattygarnett's photo
Mon 10/06/08 04:45 AM
well I would just like to find someone that wants to spend time with me and not a computer game. I dont need someone elses money, and I will join him in things that make him happy as well.flowerforyou

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Mon 10/06/08 05:35 AM

money helps sometimes though.......

Ive been po..........and Ive had lots too..........

I like lots better.

Money doesnt equate happiness but what I find is it enables me to do more.

Now money........all the big things.......cars, boats, furs blablablaaaaaaaaaaaa does it make you really happy>>????

Nahhhhhhhhh~~!!!!

I like to experience things....it depends where you are putting your money.




Smart, and well said...that is my view of it

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:24 AM

money helps sometimes though.......

Ive been po..........and Ive had lots too..........

I like lots better.

Money doesnt equate happiness but what I find is it enables me to do more.

Now money........all the big things.......cars, boats, furs blablablaaaaaaaaaaaa does it make you really happy>>????

Nahhhhhhhhh~~!!!!

I like to experience things....it depends where you are putting your money.




Dittobigsmile

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:33 AM

a man who you are confident is loyal to your relationship....and spends time with you doing things you like to do, even if he doesn't care for them, just to see a smile from you....even if he has little money to get by on....

OR...a man who has plenty of money to go around, and gives you money, thinking that it is all he has to do to keep you happy?

One or the other...you can't have both...


Interesting options, Lovemeifyoucan. You said I can't have both, but honestly I would take neither. While I'd take a genuine guy who just wants to make me smile over someone that throws cash at me trying to buy happiness, both are really just "indulging" me, trying to buy my love but in different ways.

That's not the basis for a strong relationship, no matter how well-intended. Money aside, I just want a partner who will be equally "invested" in the relationship....that will make me smile and keep us both happy! flowerforyou

So I guess I'm saying C, neither of the above.

lilith401's photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:45 AM

well I would just like to find someone that wants to spend time with me and not a computer game. I dont need someone elses money, and I will join him in things that make him happy as well.flowerforyou


Ditto that times infinity....laugh

no photo
Mon 10/06/08 07:56 AM
Sounds like companionship might be the key....maybe...

But if some have such strict other requirements, how do you find out about the special qualities that are so desired? Doesn't seem to me you can ever GET there. Am I wrong?

no photo
Mon 10/06/08 10:19 AM
Edited by Calleigh12 on Mon 10/06/08 10:22 AM



laugh

the money, of course



you know me, i love money above all else:wink:


and your road to being happy will be a long and rough road, if you seriously think money is all that...or, you are not the person who can handle a committed relationship


i'm not interested in a committed relationship- i'm not interested in any relationship at all, if you read my profile, you'd know that- and i know money IS all that. what makes you happy doesn't make me happy; that's the beauty of being an individual and living in america, we can have our own thoughts and opinions, likes and dislikes, and it's all good. but thanks for assuming i won't be happy 'cause i don't have your homespun, little house on the prairie outlook on life, i can tell you're very open-minded.laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

No1sLove's photo
Mon 10/06/08 10:37 AM
Love > Money flowerforyou

Bamagirl6's photo
Mon 10/06/08 10:42 AM



laugh

the money, of course



you know me, i love money above all else:wink:


and your road to being happy will be a long and rough road, if you seriously think money is all that...or, you are not the person who can handle a committed relationship


Some people may like it long and rough... oops :laughing:

no photo
Mon 10/06/08 10:58 AM
Money Rocks,
everything else walks, behind me and my money.laugh

Dragoness's photo
Mon 10/06/08 11:19 AM
I would chose the less money. It is my job in life to supply myself with the money I need to live, not a man's job.

I have had men with money and they are so used to the money hungry ladies that they want to throw things and money at you hoping that will keep you quiet and satisfied but they give nothing of themselves. I want more than that. So I would not accept their money nor their gifts and they don't know what to do then.

I don't mind a man spending his money on our outings together so we can have fun but I do not want extravagant gifts or cash handed to me for nothing.

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Mon 10/06/08 02:42 PM


a man who you are confident is loyal to your relationship....and spends time with you doing things you like to do, even if he doesn't care for them, just to see a smile from you....even if he has little money to get by on....

OR...a man who has plenty of money to go around, and gives you money, thinking that it is all he has to do to keep you happy?

One or the other...you can't have both...


Interesting options, Lovemeifyoucan. You said I can't have both, but honestly I would take neither. While I'd take a genuine guy who just wants to make me smile over someone that throws cash at me trying to buy happiness, both are really just "indulging" me, trying to buy my love but in different ways.

That's not the basis for a strong relationship, no matter how well-intended. Money aside, I just want a partner who will be equally "invested" in the relationship....that will make me smile and keep us both happy! flowerforyou

So I guess I'm saying C, neither of the above.


Good argument, but, it is not indulgence, if both partners are doing things that they really don't care for, simply out of love for the person they are doing them with, being that they like to do that event...

For example, ( minor one), I love to drive fast, and smoke the tires on my truck, and listen to loud music...If my partner tells me that going fast and spinning my tires scares her, I will stop doing it while she is in the truck, though I really enjoy it.....Well, I would sneak it in a couple times, just to mess with her...if she knows me well enough to say those three special words, then she will know me enough to know that I am just playing with her...In my case, it is one of the ways I show affection, to my partner....

It is all a matter of what you put into a relationship, as to what you will get out of it...for both partners...

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Mon 10/06/08 02:44 PM

Sounds like companionship might be the key....maybe...

But if some have such strict other requirements, how do you find out about the special qualities that are so desired? Doesn't seem to me you can ever GET there. Am I wrong?


You are right...both people have to have a heart that is alike in most ways, otherwise, it is heartache waiting to happen....

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Mon 10/06/08 02:52 PM




laugh

the money, of course



you know me, i love money above all else:wink:


and your road to being happy will be a long and rough road, if you seriously think money is all that...or, you are not the person who can handle a committed relationship


i'm not interested in a committed relationship- i'm not interested in any relationship at all, if you read my profile, you'd know that- and i know money IS all that. what makes you happy doesn't make me happy; that's the beauty of being an individual and living in america, we can have our own thoughts and opinions, likes and dislikes, and it's all good. but thanks for assuming i won't be happy 'cause i don't have your homespun, little house on the prairie outlook on life, i can tell you're very open-minded.laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


You say yourself you essentially, think of only money...so, what were you saying about open mindedness....appearently, I hit close to home with the relationship aspect??
I could be wrong, but, how could anyone with any sense at all, not want to find someone "special", to them?

I may be a countryboy, but, you know more of Little House On the Prarie, then I do...
Speaking of being closed minded...I stated my opinion...And I live in america as well...a patriotic, countryboy...Therefore I have the same bill of rights to go by...if you were offended...sorry, but often times, the truth hurts...now, lets play nice...

lovemeifyoucan26's photo
Mon 10/06/08 02:53 PM




laugh

the money, of course



you know me, i love money above all else:wink:


and your road to being happy will be a long and rough road, if you seriously think money is all that...or, you are not the person who can handle a committed relationship


Some people may like it long and rough... oops :laughing:


That is an entirely different chapter in this book....LOLrofl slaphead winking

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