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Topic: I need some answers
mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 09/30/08 11:17 PM
Ok so I left my boyfriend that I was living with, because he spent all of his time on his computer playing World of warcraft. I mean he was playing it from the time that he got off of work to the time that he went to bed, around 2 in the morning. I was ok with it at first because he didnt ignore me, but as time went on it was just like I wasnt even there anymore. I didnt feel like he wanted me there, even though he never said that. I did voice to him on several times that I didnt like the way things were going, but he didnt listen. So, I moved back to my place today. I know that I did the right thing for me, but I still feel bad about it. He is not angry about me leaving. I really think he wanted it too but didnt know how to tell me. So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile?

polaritybear Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4669	Tue 09/30/08 11:19 PM
First of all, what server and what faction did he play?

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 09/30/08 11:23 PM
First of all, what server and what faction did he play? I have no clue, I didnt get that involved with it.

Voluptuous Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1203	Tue 09/30/08 11:25 PM
i THINK IT DEPENDS HOW IMPORTANT HE WAS TO YOU. iF HE DIDN'T PAY ATTENTION TO YOU- WHY WOULD YOU MISS HIM? ^ oops. Sorry for the caps

speechless1985 Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 44	Tue 09/30/08 11:26 PM
heh i hate that feeling.. but only you know if you did the right thing. if all he could do was pay more attention to the game then you then he needs to get priorities straight. have you tried sitting him down and really talking about it? how long has this been going on?

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Tue 09/30/08 11:28 PM Edited by sandradee1961 on Tue 09/30/08 11:28 PM
Ok so I left my boyfriend that I was living with, because he spent all of his time on his computer playing World of warcraft. I mean he was playing it from the time that he got off of work to the time that he went to bed, around 2 in the morning. I was ok with it at first because he didnt ignore me, but as time went on it was just like I wasnt even there anymore. I didnt feel like he wanted me there, even though he never said that. I did voice to him on several times that I didnt like the way things were going, but he didnt listen. So, I moved back to my place today. I know that I did the right thing for me, but I still feel bad about it. He is not angry about me leaving. I really think he wanted it too but didnt know how to tell me. So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile? It really depends on how involved your heart and mind were, or are.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 09/30/08 11:28 PM
i THINK IT DEPENDS HOW IMPORTANT HE WAS TO YOU. iF HE DIDN'T PAY ATTENTION TO YOU- WHY WOULD YOU MISS HIM? ^ oops. Sorry for the caps I guess I just dont want to be alone, but I dont want to be ignored either.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 09/30/08 11:29 PM
heh i hate that feeling.. but only you know if you did the right thing. if all he could do was pay more attention to the game then you then he needs to get priorities straight. have you tried sitting him down and really talking about it? how long has this been going on? I did but it didnt do any good. Him playing the game since about the second week we were together.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 09/30/08 11:30 PM
Ok so I left my boyfriend that I was living with, because he spent all of his time on his computer playing World of warcraft. I mean he was playing it from the time that he got off of work to the time that he went to bed, around 2 in the morning. I was ok with it at first because he didnt ignore me, but as time went on it was just like I wasnt even there anymore. I didnt feel like he wanted me there, even though he never said that. I did voice to him on several times that I didnt like the way things were going, but he didnt listen. So, I moved back to my place today. I know that I did the right thing for me, but I still feel bad about it. He is not angry about me leaving. I really think he wanted it too but didnt know how to tell me. So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile? It really depends on how involved your heart and mind were, or are. I guess that my heart was more involved then I thought.

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Tue 09/30/08 11:30 PM
i THINK IT DEPENDS HOW IMPORTANT HE WAS TO YOU. iF HE DIDN'T PAY ATTENTION TO YOU- WHY WOULD YOU MISS HIM? ^ oops. Sorry for the caps I guess I just dont want to be alone, but I dont want to be ignored either. Doesn't his behavior basically make you alone anyway?

polaritybear Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4669	Tue 09/30/08 11:30 PM
Well, server isnt relative I spose unless its an RP server then yikes. Heres what you do, find out what faction hes on, if its Alli roll human since more men find them to be sexier than than Night elves and surprise him. If horde then roll Blood Elf all the way. You actually will need server info and his name to pop in on him, this could save your relationship! WoW brings everyone together, 10 million strong worldwide. And with the WotLK coming out he could help you lvl to 70 then you guys could lvl to 80 together, I know plenty of husband wife teams on different servers. Or, you could get epic and say "its me or the game". Remember, every time you kill a warlock god saves a druid.

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Tue 09/30/08 11:33 PM Edited by Pink_lady on Tue 09/30/08 11:34 PM
Sorry to say, but i think he needs a reality check!! I dont think i would EVER play second fiddle to a computer game, i'd rather go out and have my own interests than wait around while the person thats meant to love me, ignores me cos hes more interested in his game.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 09/30/08 11:36 PM
Sorry to say, but i think he needs a reality check!! If u r not his interest anymore, u need to re-evaluate if u wanna be with him. I dont think i would EVER play second fiddle to a computer game, i'd rather go out and have my own interests than wait around while the person thats meant to love me, ignores me cos hes more interested in his game. that is what I was saying, I even told him that I was not going to play second fiddle to his game, and it did no good. So I did just like I said I would do and leave.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 09/30/08 11:36 PM Edited by mcattygarnett on Tue 09/30/08 11:37 PM
i THINK IT DEPENDS HOW IMPORTANT HE WAS TO YOU. iF HE DIDN'T PAY ATTENTION TO YOU- WHY WOULD YOU MISS HIM? ^ oops. Sorry for the caps I guess I just dont want to be alone, but I dont want to be ignored either. Doesn't his behavior basically make you alone anyway? yes it did, so you are right I should be use to it

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Tue 09/30/08 11:36 PM Edited by Dan99 on Tue 09/30/08 11:38 PM
Well then you better play the games with me then woman!! lol (to pink lady, my girlfriend) Im not a gamer like he was, i like to play on consoles, but not all the time. It is selfish to spend most of your time doing something that doesnt involve your partner.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 09/30/08 11:38 PM
Well then you better play the games with me then woman!! lol not in this life time.

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Tue 09/30/08 11:38 PM
Well then you better play the games with me then woman!! lol ABSOLUTELY!!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 09/30/08 11:39 PM
Ok so I left my boyfriend that I was living with, because he spent all of his time on his computer playing World of warcraft. I mean he was playing it from the time that he got off of work to the time that he went to bed, around 2 in the morning. I was ok with it at first because he didnt ignore me, but as time went on it was just like I wasnt even there anymore. I didnt feel like he wanted me there, even though he never said that. I did voice to him on several times that I didnt like the way things were going, but he didnt listen. So, I moved back to my place today. I know that I did the right thing for me, but I still feel bad about it. He is not angry about me leaving. I really think he wanted it too but didnt know how to tell me. So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile? hahaaaaaaaaaaaa did you marry my ex husband???

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Tue 09/30/08 11:41 PM
Ok so I left my boyfriend that I was living with, because he spent all of his time on his computer playing World of warcraft. I mean he was playing it from the time that he got off of work to the time that he went to bed, around 2 in the morning. I was ok with it at first because he didnt ignore me, but as time went on it was just like I wasnt even there anymore. I didnt feel like he wanted me there, even though he never said that. I did voice to him on several times that I didnt like the way things were going, but he didnt listen. So, I moved back to my place today. I know that I did the right thing for me, but I still feel bad about it. He is not angry about me leaving. I really think he wanted it too but didnt know how to tell me. So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile? hahaaaaaaaaaaaa did you marry my ex husband??? nope didnt marry him

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Tue 09/30/08 11:42 PM
So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile? Sorry, i was a bit confused....wat feelings exactly r u havin? R ya dissappointed?