Topic: I need some answers
mcattygarnett's photo
Tue 09/30/08 11:42 PM
what is it with these games that they think they cant live without? I dont get it, I do know a few women that have to play these games all of the time also, so its not just the men.

polaritybear's photo
Tue 09/30/08 11:43 PM

what is it with these games that they think they cant live without? I dont get it, I do know a few women that have to play these games all of the time also, so its not just the men.


Get WotLK and after two weeks all will be known.

mcattygarnett's photo
Tue 09/30/08 11:44 PM

So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile?


Sorry, i was a bit confused....wat feelings exactly r u havin? R ya dissappointed?

I guess I am disappointed that I was not more important than a game on the computer.

mcattygarnett's photo
Tue 09/30/08 11:44 PM


what is it with these games that they think they cant live without? I dont get it, I do know a few women that have to play these games all of the time also, so its not just the men.


Get WotLK and after two weeks all will be known.

nope I will not purchase any of those games they are not for me.

Pink_lady's photo
Tue 09/30/08 11:45 PM
Well it was better to find this out sooner rather than later....i mean, u surely dont want him now knowing he values the company of a game more than u?

He is a pratt and prob didnt think before he moved u in.

polaritybear's photo
Tue 09/30/08 11:46 PM



what is it with these games that they think they cant live without? I dont get it, I do know a few women that have to play these games all of the time also, so its not just the men.


Get WotLK and after two weeks all will be known.

nope I will not purchase any of those games they are not for me.


Then perhaps you have all the information you need, maybe its time to seek someone with more similar interests.

Or get his password and delete all his characters.

mcattygarnett's photo
Tue 09/30/08 11:48 PM

Well it was better to find this out sooner rather than later....i mean, u surely dont want him now knowing he values the company of a game more than u?

He is a pratt and prob didnt think before he moved u in.

yes you are right, I am so glad that I did find out now rather than when we had been together for along time. Then it would have been worse then I feel now.

SAra1021's photo
Wed 10/01/08 12:00 AM
it human nature to miss someone who meant something to you at one time. it also could be that you miss having someone. you were in a serious enough relationship to live together so obviously you cared about each other. If his hobbies are more important than human contact especially a girlfriend, then forget him. Is not worth it. I know what you are going through (i was in a relationship with someone who was emotionally numb/wounded from his past and I was the LAST thing on his priority list)

I wish the best for you!!!!

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 10/01/08 12:03 AM

it human nature to miss someone who meant something to you at one time. it also could be that you miss having someone. you were in a serious enough relationship to live together so obviously you cared about each other. If his hobbies are more important than human contact especially a girlfriend, then forget him. Is not worth it. I know what you are going through (i was in a relationship with someone who was emotionally numb/wounded from his past and I was the LAST thing on his priority list)

I wish the best for you!!!!

Thank you, I am sure this will pass with time.

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 10/01/08 12:07 AM
Thanks everyone for your advise, I am sure with time I will feel better. I know that I did the right thing for me, it was starting to effect my health, so I knew I had to make a change, and as with anyone, he was set in his ways and wasnt going to change for me. I have no hard feeling towards him, in fact I hope that he can find someone that can handle having him play that game all of the time, but then again it could have been that he really didnt want to be with me and that was his way of not having to deal with me. I dont know and I am not going to worry about it anymore.

passionart's photo
Wed 10/01/08 04:24 AM
Seems obvious you care for him, so the time will depend entirely on you! Sorry you had to go through that baby. Just mystifies me how the men that don't want a relationship, find them, and the men who would treasure that special lady, get stiffed...I don't EVER want another love...(smile)

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 10/01/08 05:31 AM

Seems obvious you care for him, so the time will depend entirely on you! Sorry you had to go through that baby. Just mystifies me how the men that don't want a relationship, find them, and the men who would treasure that special lady, get stiffed...I don't EVER want another love...(smile)

I am done, I will not play second fiddle to a computer game, he wanted a relationship but they have to be able to sit by and be ignored while he plays his game and be able to handle him being up all night with it and his ex girlfriend who he played the game with alot. I am just not that person. I do want to find that special man that I am suppose to be with the rest of my life, I am sure when the time is right he will come along.flowerforyou flowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Wed 10/01/08 05:34 AM

Ok so I left my boyfriend that I was living with, because he spent all of his time on his computer playing World of warcraft.

So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile?


Don't date gamers.....EVER

Their minds don't work like regular humanbeings.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 10/01/08 05:35 AM



Don't date gamers.....EVER

Their minds don't work like regular humanbeings.



i knew there was something wrong with me,

devil devil devil devil devil

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 10/01/08 05:36 AM


Ok so I left my boyfriend that I was living with, because he spent all of his time on his computer playing World of warcraft.

So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile?


Don't date gamers.....EVER

Their minds don't work like regular humanbeings.

so I have found out.

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 10/01/08 05:36 AM




Don't date gamers.....EVER

Their minds don't work like regular humanbeings.



i knew there was something wrong with me,

devil devil devil devil devil

so your a gamer??

Lily0923's photo
Wed 10/01/08 05:38 AM




Don't date gamers.....EVER

Their minds don't work like regular humanbeings.



i knew there was something wrong with me,

devil devil devil devil devil


It's one thing to play once in awhile, but it seems to me that most that do it have an addiction to it. They take it WAY too seriously. They talk about it to people in the real world when they aren't playing, and they think of their next "move" when they should be thinking about real life things.

That's a deal breaker... If you game, forget it.

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 10/01/08 05:41 AM





Don't date gamers.....EVER

Their minds don't work like regular humanbeings.



i knew there was something wrong with me,

devil devil devil devil devil


It's one thing to play once in awhile, but it seems to me that most that do it have an addiction to it. They take it WAY too seriously. They talk about it to people in the real world when they aren't playing, and they think of their next "move" when they should be thinking about real life things.

That's a deal breaker... If you game, forget it.

OMG Lily that is so my ex and if I had known how bad it was before we started living together I would have never moved in with him. It is the worse feeling in the world to be somewhere and feel like you are not wanted, all because of a game.

no photo
Wed 10/01/08 05:57 AM

Ok so I left my boyfriend that I was living with, because he spent all of his time on his computer playing World of warcraft. I mean he was playing it from the time that he got off of work to the time that he went to bed, around 2 in the morning. I was ok with it at first because he didnt ignore me, but as time went on it was just like I wasnt even there anymore. I didnt feel like he wanted me there, even though he never said that. I did voice to him on several times that I didnt like the way things were going, but he didnt listen. So, I moved back to my place today. I know that I did the right thing for me, but I still feel bad about it. He is not angry about me leaving. I really think he wanted it too but didnt know how to tell me.

So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile?


Sounds to me like you've already begun to assimilate the idea that you just weren't that big a factor in his life. This realization can only help you.

It's normal to have some lingering hurt after something like this, but I think you've already got a pretty good handle on what happened and what it meant.

When a game becomes more important than a significant other, it's time for someone to move on....I think you did the right thing. And now you've learned a little more about what kind of person you DON'T want in your life. Knowledge is good.

mcattygarnett's photo
Wed 10/01/08 06:07 AM


Ok so I left my boyfriend that I was living with, because he spent all of his time on his computer playing World of warcraft. I mean he was playing it from the time that he got off of work to the time that he went to bed, around 2 in the morning. I was ok with it at first because he didnt ignore me, but as time went on it was just like I wasnt even there anymore. I didnt feel like he wanted me there, even though he never said that. I did voice to him on several times that I didnt like the way things were going, but he didnt listen. So, I moved back to my place today. I know that I did the right thing for me, but I still feel bad about it. He is not angry about me leaving. I really think he wanted it too but didnt know how to tell me.

So I guess I want to know that this will pass quick or will this feeling last awhile?


Sounds to me like you've already begun to assimilate the idea that you just weren't that big a factor in his life. This realization can only help you.

It's normal to have some lingering hurt after something like this, but I think you've already got a pretty good handle on what happened and what it meant.

When a game becomes more important than a significant other, it's time for someone to move on....I think you did the right thing. And now you've learned a little more about what kind of person you DON'T want in your life. Knowledge is good.



Yes I have learned alot from all of this that is for sure.