It's funny I have always had a hard time talking to anyone. I also have a hard time looking people in the eye when talking to them. It feels like I am invading there privicy. I realy have a hard time talking to girls. I think it's because I want them to like me so mutch that I loose track on who I am. The girls that I do talk to just think I am weared or friend material. How do I overcome this fear? I have been trying by just talking to girls but I still cant get over it. Please help.

i suggest stop masterbating. peroid. give up all sexual thoughts when alone in your private life. do not masterbate ever again. you will naturally attract a women. i don't know how this works but never masterbating is the answer to learning to talk to women. by not thinking of women in a sexual way, you get a women in a sexual way. have fun going through withdrawel. never masterbating after doing it for so long is the hardest addiction to overcome especially if you added porn into the masterbating recipe. but it is possible. later dude.

The best things to do in my opnion are be yourself and you will attract women who are into you,be honest always,pay attention to her conversation and needs, be clean and smell nice, but most of all love and be secure in yourself, once you love yourself and are confident in who you are and what you bring to the table, it will happen, you cant be with someone if you cant be with yourself.

Darn computers! lol.. lost my answer when I posted it! ahhh well....

I guess my question would be.. what do you look for in a woman? And what is wrong with woman friends? alot of very very great relationships start out as just friends hanging out together to see what each other has in common... its the best way ever! to find the right one!

Thank you to everyone who replied to my post. I appreciate your honesty and support. I don't have a problem being friends with girls I just don't want that to be all we ever are. Most girls that I meet are only looking for a friendship with me because I don't have the confidence they are looking for. Thanks again for all your help.

to the guy who talked about masturbating...u need to grow up