i suggest stop masterbating. peroid. give up all sexual thoughts when alone in your private life. do not masterbate ever again. you will naturally attract a women. i don't know how this works but never masterbating is the answer to learning to talk to women. by not thinking of women in a sexual way, you get a women in a sexual way. have fun going through withdrawel. never masterbating after doing it for so long is the hardest addiction to overcome especially if you added porn into the masterbating recipe. but it is possible. later dude.