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Topic: Would you ever cheat for any reason?
Lakersfan4eva's photo
Mon 09/29/08 03:43 PM
I would NEVER cheat on my significant other, never have and never will.

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Mon 09/29/08 03:50 PM

Never have, never will. I know how much it hurts to find out one's partner is cheating; I'd never put someone I care about through that... not even in revenge


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izzie's photo
Mon 09/29/08 04:16 PM


i cheated ONE time.. i had found out that my ex was cheating on me with 5 dif women at the time,




Multiple personalities don't count as cheating laugh :tongue:
he cheated with a total of 29 girls over our 7 year relationship...

not me..

IamMewhoRU's photo
Mon 09/29/08 04:21 PM
only on my SAT'sohwell

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Tue 09/30/08 03:05 AM
just to be different.

yes.

flowerforyou

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Tue 09/30/08 03:07 AM
Well there was this one time at band camp......

mcattygarnett's photo
Tue 09/30/08 04:44 AM
no I would not, I know how it feels to be cheated on.

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Tue 09/30/08 07:21 AM
nope

textherifleman's photo
Tue 09/30/08 07:40 AM
i been cheated on so i know how it feels to be put down like that and i will never cheat on a girlfriend for any reason whatsoever i believe that is wrong and a huge HUGE form of disrespect even if they tell you about it the fact that they still did it is majorly disrespecting

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Tue 09/30/08 08:04 AM
What a strange and manipulative question! (Hasn't anyone else noticed that yet..? no...?)

People who have extramarital or extracurricular affairs outside of a committed relationship usually don't call it "cheating" unless A) something goes wrong, or B) they start to feel guilty. Otherwise there's always a rationalization that makes it ok: "My committed partner won't put out," "I can't help myself," "There's no communication in my relationship; I'm lonely", etc.

I'm not a big fan of making promises I can't keep; neither do I enforce promises that are not explicitly made. I expect for a lover to take personal responsibility for all of his relationships, including those that may be sexual.

He will promise not to bring me any babies or any diseases, and to have the common courtesy to keep whatever else he has going on private, or at least out of my domain. (For example, if one of his hoes starts calling me to see if he's there or to whine about something he did that she didn't like, he's looking at a fight that he's not gonna like, and he's not gonna win. And he knows it.)

He won't promise not to see, think about, or shag anyone else until he is ready, willing, and able to do so.

Naturally, he's expected to extend the same courtesy toward me.

This may seem quite odd to some, but this is coming from someone who has been a rock musician for most of her life, and who has toured with her band, and played lots and lots of shows. My current boyfriend is a rock musician of enormous talent and physical attractiveness. Popular entertainers are put in social situations that put a lot of stress on conventional relationships. Relationships in this sphere therefore work much better if they are "de-conventionalized".

Monogamy is not really a practical arrangement for humans, anyway. Some people are naturally monogamous, but most are not. Therefore my wonder at the term "cheating", which in my opinion is an unnecessary and outmoded moral determination placed on normal human behavior.

Sorry, OP: I'm not trying to bust your chops here. But what person is going to talk honestly about lapses from monogamy if it's given the derogatory term "cheating"...? Most people do it, but hardly anyone will ever admit to it.

yours in Chaos, Scarlett

broncosrock's photo
Tue 09/30/08 08:07 AM
No:smile: !

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Tue 09/30/08 08:10 AM
If you are in a game of cheaters... then yes.. you have to cheat to survive.

Amagurl's photo
Tue 09/30/08 08:10 AM
I think that if I want to cheat on the guy I'm with..it's soo much easier to break up than do that. I am not a fan of cheating.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 09/30/08 08:11 AM
Why yes I would. Cheating is so the "IN" thing to do.

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Tue 09/30/08 08:11 AM
I hope you didn't meet him off here :laughing:

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Tue 09/30/08 12:15 PM

:smile: Would you ever cheat on your significant other for any reason?:smile: If yes, why?:smile:


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RKISIT's photo
Tue 09/30/08 12:24 PM
well if my partner wanted me to chit on her i guess but i would wear a mask:smile:

beachbum069's photo
Tue 09/30/08 12:28 PM
No

sweetfoxdevil's photo
Tue 09/30/08 01:08 PM
yes

DDejon's photo
Tue 09/30/08 01:10 PM
No, its just too much work carrying a lie around.

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