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Topic: Would it bother you?
Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Mon 09/29/08 12:59 PM
Would it bother you if you broke up with your partner,and they stared seeing or dating someone else just days after you broke up? Yes, what they are saying to everyone around is that the relationship didn't mean that much to them in the first place.

purposebuilt Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 770	Mon 09/29/08 01:04 PM
It even bothered me more when my wife of 26 years was already seeing my best friend before we broke up.

Scarlett_156 Joined Wed 09/17/08 Posts: 469	Mon 09/29/08 01:25 PM
If I broke up with him: No. I would be relieved to see that he was not going to come bouncing back. yours in Chaos, Scarlett

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 09/29/08 01:29 PM
i really could care less, i have better things to do, like find someone else that could be good for me.

TwoTallOne Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 16854	Mon 09/29/08 01:29 PM
It even bothered me more when my wife of 26 years was already seeing my best friend before we broke up. Ditto but MY ex was only a 10 year stretch for me,sorry man

jnbuglady Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 865	Mon 09/29/08 01:55 PM
It even bothered me more when my wife of 26 years was already seeing my best friend before we broke up. thats just not right,sorry!

jnbuglady Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 865	Mon 09/29/08 01:57 PM
It even bothered me more when my wife of 26 years was already seeing my best friend before we broke up. Sorry, thats just wrong! Ditto but MY ex was only a 10 year stretch for me,sorry man

cutefrenchguy Joined Fri 09/07/07 Posts: 10715	Mon 09/29/08 02:40 PM
nope the more that shes busy the less she will bug me

lilbug Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 14791	Mon 09/29/08 03:13 PM
Nope, if he can bounce-back that easly, quickly, then it would confirm for me that he wasn't all that invested in me and breaking up with him was the right thing to do

bzmom01 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 788	Mon 09/29/08 03:32 PM
No cause the minute I walked out the of the relationship was the last time I looked back. I was the one who left and I'm the one who had someone else 2 days later. YES I was VERY unhappy in my marraige.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Mon 09/29/08 03:34 PM
oh probably; i guess i'd think that they'd been seeing the other person all along and were just waiting for the opportunity to get out of our relationship

breathless1 Joined Tue 09/23/08 Posts: 490	Mon 09/29/08 03:36 PM
It would depend on the duration, depth and quality of the relationship. I'll be honest, it would sting a little or hurt like hell, depending upon those three variables. Either way I would get over it though.

bzmom01 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 788	Mon 09/29/08 03:44 PM
oh probably; i guess i'd think that they'd been seeing the other person all along and were just waiting for the opportunity to get out of our relationship Not really in my case. Like I said I was VERY unhappy in my marraige and I left him before I ever got with my now ex boyfriend. Long story short I filed the divorce before I ever left. Ex bf I found out he was still married.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Tue 09/30/08 08:50 PM
Would it bother you if you broke up with your partner,and they stared seeing or dating someone else just days after you broke up? Been there and done that. The way I see it, and the reason that I am not the jealous type, is that if she could replace me that quickly, then I was never gonna get a fair shake anyway.

speechless1985 Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 44	Tue 09/30/08 11:31 PM
if i was the one who did the breaking up then no it wouldnt bother me. i would want them to go on and be happy and hope that they would want the same for me.

bzmom01 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 788	Sun 10/05/08 02:23 PM
if i was the one who did the breaking up then no it wouldnt bother me. i would want them to go on and be happy and hope that they would want the same for me. The same here. This sob story "I'll change" Sorry shoulda changed before I left.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 10/05/08 02:37 PM
Well when ever I have ended something I had thought it through pretty thoroughly and it was really over, no going back, before I ended it so it was " do what you want". If they are out Tomcatting real fast I figure it is "Revenge Sex" and doesn't mean all that much. In my case the gal that snached up my Ex made him good and miserable so it was pretty much the Karma that I didn't have to waste my energy dishing out.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Sun 10/05/08 02:45 PM
Would it bother you if you broke up with your partner,and they stared seeing or dating someone else just days after you broke up? Initially but like everything else, life goes on. Fall down, get up, brush off the dust and move on.

bzmom01 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 788	Sun 10/05/08 02:57 PM
I agree move on with life.