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This is why I love Mannequins!!
Cause their independant and inspire you? Not exactly
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This is why I love Mannequins!!
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This is why I love Mannequins!!
Cause their independant and inspire you? Not exactly
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If one person is putting in 100% and the other is putting in 100% and the other is putting in 10% then the relastionship is 90/10.
What????? |
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unique - a relationships is one plateau (why separate into 3?) if I follow your math 100% + 100% now 10% = 210% (dont follow)
relationships usually involve two individuals (each giving their best/utmost = 100%) these two individuals usually share (they are not fused) a common goal and are working together. |
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I might not need another beer, but i'll want one.
I dont think this really applies to relationships, not for me at least. If i became single and stayed that way for the rest of my life, im not just gonna curl up and die, but i do think that there would be something missing from my life. So to some degree at least, i think there is a need there. |
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i had a conversation about this on mon night with someone. they didnt seem to understand that i dont need a man in my life. one would be nice but i dont need one.
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I might not need another beer, but i'll want one. I dont think this really applies to relationships, not for me at least. If i became single and stayed that way for the rest of my life, im not just gonna curl up and die, but i do think that there would be something missing from my life. So to some degree at least, i think there is a need there. i agree with you on the "something missing" part |
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I agree with the independent part babe. And not needing anyone to complete me. I do not see a 'soulmate' as that which completes though. And i find those that believe in having one ........................do.
(((((((((( LILITH ))))))))) Agree 100% with this!
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i had a conversation about this on mon night with someone. they didnt seem to understand that i dont need a man in my life. one would be nice but i dont need one. I told a male friend this once and he said I was cold. I told him I was actually very warm, affectionate and compassionate, just not co-dependant, clingy, or needy. |
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I may have many "wants" in life, but I find that I have everything/one I "need"...if I ignore the former, the later is beautiful and my life is great....
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i had a conversation about this on mon night with someone. they didnt seem to understand that i dont need a man in my life. one would be nice but i dont need one. I told a male friend this once and he said I was cold. I told him I was actually very warm, affectionate and compassionate, just not co-dependant, clingy, or needy. i was told i was depressed lol. or something along that line. i just meant it as im not settling for anything less than everything im looking for. so until that person comes along im perfectly fine by myself i dont like it but im ok with it. |
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I had a fantastic conversation with a member about this last night, and I was shocked and thrilled we both agreed on this. I hear so much crap about 50/50, soulmates, being lonely, feeling complete, blah blah... I do not need anyone in my life. I am quite independent and capable of either doing for myself or finding a resource who can. I do not believe soulmates exist. I can not be completed by anyone. I am whole, I am in no need of completing. I believe a relationship is 100/100 and that a partner enriches and compliments my life. A person who invigorates my mind, body, and spirit, and I theirs. I want a relationship, and therefore would never take it for granted or become complacent. I'd never settle just to have someone. Anyone agree or disagree? I tell you that all the time and I still don't get lucky with you....
What's a girl gotta do? Ha, kidding, I'm with you on this, when a guy says they NEED me or they NEED a woman I hit the bricks, that's not what I want or desire. |
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Why do SOOOOOOOOOOOO many people "need a man or woman" in their life? Is it just that fear of being alone? I mean, I like to have someone their, but the truth of the matter is, I aint gonna have someone their just cause.
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If one person is putting in 100% and the other is putting in 100% and the other is putting in 10% then the relastionship is 90/10. just wondering, where did you go to school? |
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If one person is putting in 100% and the other is putting in 100% and the other is putting in 10% then the relastionship is 90/10. just wondering, where did you go to school?
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Lily I'm planting one on you Saturday night.... I'll wear that lipstick that doesn't kiss away.
I need you, you complete me, you had me at hello.....
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your only complete when you are content with yourself Very wise..... |
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Okay, I know I may get lambasted for this, but I think we do need each other. It's not that I'm not a whole person, complete in my own identity or that I couldn't survive without a man. I can and will quite happily if I don't find that special someone. And, I'm a happy person regardless of the status of my love life.
However, I think that men and women complete each other. It's the male and the female.....the yin and the yang......the light and the dark.....etc. You need one to have the other. It's a completion and a balance that you can't find outside of that kind of relationship. JMO. |
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Lily I'm planting one on you Saturday night.... I'll wear that lipstick that doesn't kiss away.
I need you, you complete me, you had me at hello.....
Hot damn I'm getting lucky on Saturday...
Are you ready to meet Tamba.... I'll have him tame (well as much as possible at least) |
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