Topic: Causes of break-ups?
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Tue 08/14/07 12:42 PM
<----wipes the spaghetti sauce from Romeos chin!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 08/14/07 12:43 PM
noway laugh laugh laugh

Mstry_Grl's photo
Tue 08/14/07 12:45 PM
noway noway noway noway noway noway

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Tue 08/14/07 12:48 PM
i wld say...
dishonesty
Lack of open communication
Distrust

Fanta46's photo
Tue 08/14/07 12:50 PM
Where is Bob?
Hed tell you!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 08/14/07 12:51 PM
I agree with Sugarjen :smile:

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Tue 08/14/07 01:47 PM
substance abuse,just plain abuse and short attention span.

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Tue 08/14/07 01:50 PM
I agree with (cute)..addiction will kill a relationship..also money..i see people break up all the time cause of money

beachbum71's photo
Tue 08/14/07 06:38 PM
money, unfaithfulness, & laziness.

nurjoyce's photo
Tue 08/14/07 06:51 PM
money, sex, children, family

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Tue 08/14/07 06:51 PM
STD's lol

uk1971's photo
Tue 08/14/07 06:53 PM
Jealousy
lies
cheating
money
Distance

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Tue 08/14/07 06:58 PM
kids she doesn't know about.

anoasis's photo
Tue 08/14/07 07:04 PM
When there is no longer enough love to help 2 overcome obstacles... no matter what the obstacles.

cajunwhitetiger's photo
Tue 08/14/07 07:04 PM
lack of trust, cheating, and verbal ,mental and physical abuse,

uk1971's photo
Tue 08/14/07 07:04 PM
Farting in bed and then pushing her head under the covers.bigsmile

shutterguy's photo
Tue 08/14/07 07:20 PM
no comunacation,and i think people get in a routine and take their mates for garnted,if the would just remember why they fell in love and was willing to fight for that take midnight walks,allnight talks sit on a creek bank listen to the frogs under a full moon

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Wed 08/15/07 05:11 AM
Why Shutterguy, how romantic.......I'm there :wink:

I'd much rather talk about the positives than the negatives so this brings me to;

What keeps a relationship togther?

Love, respect, good on-going open communication, both partners have grounded morals and values, good sex, never go to bed angry and never leave when in an argument......time outs work just as good...........and most of all....never resort to name calling!!! Those are just a few of the things I believe help to make a good relationship........what about the rest of you?

(ducking while having tomatoes thrown at me) :smile:

oldsage's photo
Wed 08/15/07 05:26 AM
When your frst interested, you WORK for the relationship.
You communicate, listen, pay attention & just plain do all you can to achieve your goal.
Once together we slip into complacentcey (Spelling?).
We start expecting things & no longer earn them.
We expect to have a degree of control.

Only thing we can control is ourselves.

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Wed 08/15/07 06:04 AM
I agree with sage. people get into a routine, and forget all the things that brought them together in the first place. My issues were $$$ (I got tired of feeling like a paycheck), communication (he did't want to talk about it), and overall blah...I no longer felt like a wife. I wanted things that he was not capable to give.