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Rufus1234. the next tomato thrown at you will have to deal with me.
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More opportunities, more choices, less tollerance.
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i think its because woman just dont listen.!!! jk jk lol
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**La LaLaLa******
Oh....wait.....Seahawks, did you say something?? |
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lol
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My personal experience is that most people when they first get into a relationship they put on this personality that isn't the real them to try to impress the other person. Then a couple months down the road the real personality starts to show itself and the other person is not to impressed anymore. My advice, if you can't be yourself right from the start then don't enter into the relationship.
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Money. lack of communication, and loss of trust
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Everyone's correct. There's an endless amount of reasons things go wrong - none are right or wrong.
Personally, I have a bad commitment issue which makes me lose interest in someone really quick (about a month). The sad part, there's never a real reason to break up with them - I guess I prefer not wasting time with someone I don't click with instantly. The very few real relationships I've had ended because of loss of communication. I dated someone for over 3 years and we had kickass communication until around the 3 year mark. People change and if you don't take the time to spend the moments that matter with the person your with then chances are you will grow apart and not together. It's all about earning trust and letting someone in to what's going on - otherwise you just lose interest. |
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OH! I also feel that people just jump into relationships (including myself). The lasting and true relationships start as friends so you get a chance to get to know each other.. otherwise you start off with high expectations from your partner and they won't even know what you expect to make it work!
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