Topic: Causes of break-ups?
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Tue 03/27/07 06:48 AM
thanks devin

devin112's photo
Tue 03/27/07 07:04 AM
YOU WELCOME ANYTIME SWEETIE.

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Wed 03/28/07 06:29 AM
Unmet expectations (they are often communicated at the start of a
relationship and then, all of sudden, they shift ...) and disappointment
in a general way. Insecure partners looking elsewhere for validation and
therefore cheating; partners constantly 'getting back' at their lovers
instead of discussing the matter once and for all.

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Wed 03/28/07 06:39 AM
causes of breakups? i dont know man, maybe someone better came along.

shenadra's photo
Wed 03/28/07 06:40 AM
I think 2 different reasons.

1)Communication break down;

and

2) A break in trust.

In my experience, it seems to follow that way...communication breaks
down, then suspicion starts, and suspicion is what causes the break in
trust.

And no matter what you do, it will always be on the back of your mind
that your partner possibly cheated on you. Once the trust is broken, it
takes a miracle to put it back together, if you ever get it back between
the two of you.

bigpappa4331's photo
Wed 03/28/07 06:45 AM
hmmmmm..relying on the other person to fulfill you needs and hmmmmmm
,,,,,neglecting needs ?

crazysillygirl's photo
Wed 03/28/07 08:33 AM
lack of communication and honesty....

Tameka's photo
Wed 03/28/07 08:41 AM
reason for breakups? i think that communication and honesty is HUGE!
Respect for eachother or lack there-of.

Duffy's photo
Wed 03/28/07 08:59 AM
what causes breakups? All the answers from the people above, but moral
decay has not been mentioned.
people do not stay together like they used to. the u of ca said that
people would be married an average of 3x in their lifetime, and that was
20 years ago. so what do you think about that?

Morena350's photo
Wed 03/28/07 09:46 AM
not taking care of business if ya'll know what I mean!!

babyblus's photo
Wed 03/28/07 03:36 PM
I feel lack of communication, not being honest, and cheating on the
person you're with is a few reasons to breakup with someone!

songbirrd's photo
Wed 03/28/07 03:38 PM
Jealousy probobly. It seems to be the root of alot of them.

Ms_Scorpio71's photo
Wed 03/28/07 03:41 PM
Money & communication

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Wed 03/28/07 03:45 PM
money, communication and sorry to say this guys at least here in
FLA..lots of beautiful women here, the guys cant seem to date just one
woman here..so..cheating is another big one..noway :wink:

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Mon 04/02/07 12:31 AM
What about one person always insisting that their opinion MUST be right?

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Mon 04/02/07 12:41 AM
TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!

BOTH must be REAL and TRUTHFUL,,,or their can NEVER be ANY
kind of REAL LOVE or LIFE!!!!! THAT DAMM SIMPLE!!!:heart:

LITTLE LIES DESTROY FAITH IN EACH OTHER,
BIG LIES DESTROY HEARTS, AND MINDS!!!:wink: :heart:

If one cannot trust, then they will fail,
if one is dishonest, they will fail,
if BOTH cannot give the other the same compassions of heart,
and be able to TALK about everything willingly and openly then ,
THEY WILL FAIL!!!!!:heart: :wink: flowerforyou smokin

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Mon 04/02/07 07:49 PM
Failure to realize that relationships are work.

Break down in communication, money, cheating, lies, and etc are all just
symptoms. The truth is that we expect our relationships to have the
doe eyed experience of falling in love mixed with our failure to get to
know each as we grow and change.

We treat love as flighty whimsical feeling instead of the foundation
that it can become.

flowerforyou

L1ly29's photo
Mon 04/02/07 10:22 PM
Communication! My only response to this cause everything else is
measureable. I've been cheated on and all the who-to-do with it, but
this is the bases of my relationship with anyone.

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Tue 08/14/07 08:39 AM
Is domineering one of them?

kissngrl's photo
Tue 08/14/07 08:40 AM
money issues and affairs.