Topic: Causes of break-ups? | |
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thanks devin
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YOU WELCOME ANYTIME SWEETIE.
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Unmet expectations (they are often communicated at the start of a
relationship and then, all of sudden, they shift ...) and disappointment in a general way. Insecure partners looking elsewhere for validation and therefore cheating; partners constantly 'getting back' at their lovers instead of discussing the matter once and for all. |
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causes of breakups? i dont know man, maybe someone better came along.
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I think 2 different reasons.
1)Communication break down; and 2) A break in trust. In my experience, it seems to follow that way...communication breaks down, then suspicion starts, and suspicion is what causes the break in trust. And no matter what you do, it will always be on the back of your mind that your partner possibly cheated on you. Once the trust is broken, it takes a miracle to put it back together, if you ever get it back between the two of you. |
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hmmmmm..relying on the other person to fulfill you needs and hmmmmmm
,,,,,neglecting needs ? |
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lack of communication and honesty....
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reason for breakups? i think that communication and honesty is HUGE!
Respect for eachother or lack there-of. |
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what causes breakups? All the answers from the people above, but moral
decay has not been mentioned. people do not stay together like they used to. the u of ca said that people would be married an average of 3x in their lifetime, and that was 20 years ago. so what do you think about that? |
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not taking care of business if ya'll know what I mean!!
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I feel lack of communication, not being honest, and cheating on the
person you're with is a few reasons to breakup with someone! |
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Jealousy probobly. It seems to be the root of alot of them.
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Money & communication
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money, communication and sorry to say this guys at least here in
FLA..lots of beautiful women here, the guys cant seem to date just one woman here..so..cheating is another big one.. |
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What about one person always insisting that their opinion MUST be right?
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TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!
BOTH must be REAL and TRUTHFUL,,,or their can NEVER be ANY kind of REAL LOVE or LIFE!!!!! THAT DAMM SIMPLE!!! LITTLE LIES DESTROY FAITH IN EACH OTHER, BIG LIES DESTROY HEARTS, AND MINDS!!! If one cannot trust, then they will fail, if one is dishonest, they will fail, if BOTH cannot give the other the same compassions of heart, and be able to TALK about everything willingly and openly then , THEY WILL FAIL!!!!! |
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Failure to realize that relationships are work.
Break down in communication, money, cheating, lies, and etc are all just symptoms. The truth is that we expect our relationships to have the doe eyed experience of falling in love mixed with our failure to get to know each as we grow and change. We treat love as flighty whimsical feeling instead of the foundation that it can become. |
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Communication! My only response to this cause everything else is
measureable. I've been cheated on and all the who-to-do with it, but this is the bases of my relationship with anyone. |
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Is domineering one of them?
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money issues and affairs.
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